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The Virus
February 25th, 2008, 1:34 PM
I just found out at school today that one of the girls in my class's mum was killed. That might not seem much to you, but to me it's pretty, well, shocking I guess.

Then when I got home my mum found this thing on the internet:
I thought it was just one of those stupid rumours that go around in schools these days. Guess it was true after all...

February 25th, 2008, 4:43 PM
ugh, that's awful. D: If it really is the girl's dad that killed her mom.. ._.

I never know what to say to people about things like that. What CAN you say? I feel bad for her just thinking about it. :C

I can't even imagine what could be going through someone's head to do something like that. >_<;

February 26th, 2008, 1:58 AM
That is a sad story. Hope her dad gets a long time.

I wonder what went through his mind to kill his wife and the mother of his child. He has left the children with no parents. It is going to be so hard for them now.

February 26th, 2008, 6:15 AM
wow. That's just....just...extremely horrific for someone to endure...
Losing a loved one, and a MOM! like that, or any way, is just terrible...

The mind of a kid after a death like that is unimaginable. I hope things will turn for the better, and you should try and see if you know the kid to cheer her up... Because now her mind is probably in a war with life...

Tough real tough...

Soul Eater
February 26th, 2008, 6:23 AM
That's terrible...I bet that girl at your school is very devastated about it, too. ;_; It most be really scary knowing your dad killed your own mother. o_o

February 26th, 2008, 8:55 AM
Terrible thing to happen to anyone, how long ago did this happen, does anyone know?

But, yeah, a lot of kids in my year have a dead mom/dad or both. Some are open to talk about it and others aren't... But what are you meant to talk about?

Send the girl my regards.

February 26th, 2008, 9:34 AM
A friend of mine and her sister lost their mum some years ago. They don't talk about it... I can't imagine how life must be after something like that.

Another friend was terrified about losing her mum in cancer some weeks ago. It went well though, against the odds. I'm happy for them.

None of that above was like this terrible deed you're talking about though. That's just.... awful. I hope the girl can somehow cope with it and isn't devastated for too long.

February 26th, 2008, 3:09 PM
thats so sad . i dont even want to belive it.

February 26th, 2008, 3:42 PM
That really..really sucks, dude. I can't even imagine losing someone so close to me ._.

I feel awful about this, I mean..she lost her mom, which is terrible, and her dad, if found guilty of the crime will defiantly lose custody of her..Not that she would even want to live with him after that that anyways.

..Go give her a hug for me ._.

February 26th, 2008, 3:42 PM
Eh... I feel indifferent to this, death happens.

February 28th, 2008, 6:43 PM
That's an awful thing to happen, and it's even worse that the own dad did it. It must be especially hard for the girl knowing that he killed her. I hope she gets though, although I know it will be incredibly difficult.

February 28th, 2008, 6:47 PM
*Blink* You mean people in your schools would start a rumor like that (if it weren't true?) What a heartless place you live in. That never ever happened in my schooling.

And ah, sad. Murder disgusts me soooo much. I cringe at murder scenes in movies and TV because it makes me angry and sad :(

March 15th, 2008, 6:48 AM
That's horrible somebody would make up a rumor if that wasn't true!
Also, bless that girl in your class! That's really sad!

March 15th, 2008, 2:49 PM
Eh... I feel indifferent to this, death happens.

You know, I always think like that. Always.

But for me, once I see the family, see their suffering, indifference is no longer possible. Death (as in, losing someone, not "Death" itself) is gonna touch everyone at one point or another, so indifference can't really work. Sure, you can understand that death is natural, but I think as compassionate and empathetic people we can just turn our head to the side and ignore it. It's definitely a whole lot easier though when you don't know the people, obviously.

That said, it isn't something that naturally happens in this situation. She was murdered, her life stolen away :/

Virtual Chatot
March 15th, 2008, 2:51 PM
I feel really bad about this, but I guess it doesn't hit as hard to to me because we see stuff like this in the media all the time :/