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kissing. raindrops
September 1st, 2008, 02:26 AM
Exactly what the title says. What do you find attractive/good looking, as in clothing, and hair, and what are turn offs, on the opposite, and same sexx?
For me, I love SKINNIESSS on guys, it's just absolutely hot. Plus I have a phobia with hats so... That too. I also like it when guys wear their pants down low, ahaha =P

Walrein
September 1st, 2008, 03:56 AM
Don't you like muscular guys? I'm not sure how those six muscles that can be seen in the belly in English...
For me, it's a bit hard to explain...that body+face combination...I could post examples but I'm not sure if they count for porn or not.

Amplified Ampharos
September 1st, 2008, 03:59 AM
Don't you like muscular guys? I'm not sure how those six muscles that can be seen in the belly in English...
For me, it's a bit hard to explain...that body+face combination...I could post example but I'm not sure if they count for porn or not.

What is porn???(I am staying single)

Walrein
September 1st, 2008, 04:03 AM
What is porn???(I am staying single)
Pornography, recorded (in any way) sexual content in varying levels of callousness.

Amplified Ampharos
September 1st, 2008, 04:06 AM
Did not understand a word you said

Walrein
September 1st, 2008, 04:09 AM
Did not understand a word you said
So let's put it like this: normally people use this term to reffer to photos and videos of ****ing people.
Now did you get it?

Amplified Ampharos
September 1st, 2008, 04:10 AM
No except for the little stars

Walrein
September 1st, 2008, 04:12 AM
No except for the little stars
So your'e probably too young.

fade101
September 1st, 2008, 05:33 AM
So your'e probably too young.Couldn't agree more or... he doesn't go out that much... XD

To me, teh eyes... Theres a huge diffrence between guys and girls eyes...
I can completely fall for this girl just by idk, stare at her eyes...

And maybe her body XD

Tater Tot
September 1st, 2008, 05:36 AM
I like clear skin on a woman. I don't care what they say but they're not beauty marks. XD No acne, no moles or anything remotely close to that.

Virtual Chatot
September 1st, 2008, 05:40 AM
For me, the eyes and their the shapeliness of their hips.
I really don't care if she isn't that "top heavy" like most other guys care about.
I also like a girl who isn't a total idiot, and I can actually have a decent conversation with...

devilicious
September 1st, 2008, 07:56 AM
Armpits.
...what? It's my fetish, okay?

Anyway, hair. Hair is important. But I'm not someone who puts looks over everything else, so it's not that big of a deal.

Saltare.
September 1st, 2008, 08:00 AM
looks, brains, eyes, hair oh yeah definetly hair! um...sense of style, and sports

Gumball Watterson
September 1st, 2008, 08:00 AM
I don't know, the Eyes? When I get infatuated deeply, it's for no reason, I just fall in love out of the blue's, no reason at all. Right now, I love this girl so much, but my brother is capable of saying her eyebrows are ugly, thus capable of Verbal Suicide. Right now, I have her as my password...

Uh oh. *Changes Password*

Master Electrician
September 1st, 2008, 08:28 AM
Hair. And figure. Not just hips or neck or chest or anything specific. Just the overall figure. At least, that's what I look for in women. My taste in men is different.

Oh! And I kinda have a body mod fetish, so that can definitely play in.

Aurafire
September 1st, 2008, 08:44 AM
It's funny how just guys are posting on this thread....O.O

But anyway, I like long, mostly straight/slightly wavy hair, a bit shorter than me, a pretty good figure, at least a couple of nice looking facial features (she doesn't have to be stunning)

And she CANNOT be one of those giggly, annoyingly stupid girls. I'd like to talk to her in a clear and coherent manner plz. Kthanx =P

popsicles.
September 1st, 2008, 09:11 AM
Confidence.
There is nothing cooler then a guy with some confidence. :>
A guy that would stand up, walk straight to me and would just ask me out. Yeah. :3

Kitty-Kat
September 1st, 2008, 09:12 AM
Uhm... *coughs* What about the same sex... >>;; I mean, I like both equally, so... ^^;

I don't actually know what I find attractive in either sex. XD; I guess, for both, I like uniqueness. Like say someone has an eye color I've never seen on anyone else, I absolutely love that. Or if their face is shaped differently, or they have a wacky hair style. Things like that. Also, I like smallish chested girls. I think they're adorable.

Neko
September 1st, 2008, 09:48 AM
I find their BODIES to be attractive, off course! XD Lol j/k. *coughdies*

Just kidding, though I find the eyes nice, the hair...mostly facial features. Oh, and not too overweight, but not too skinny either. << Slightly built......hmmmmmmm.....oh yeah, and NOT A LOT OF FACIAL HAIR, IF NOT NONE AT ALL!!!!!!!!!! Urg, I constantly tell my boyfriend to shave. XD

But other than those few things, it's mainly the personality I go for. After all, it's kind of hard to be in love with someone if they're a complete ass. My boyfriend is the shweetes guy around though, so I have no need to worry.<333


-Neko

Lover's Kite
September 1st, 2008, 09:52 AM
Opposite sex!? What happened to same sex :<
Hm....the guy needs to have a.... NICE Body. Dare I say more!? :3

Franceschi
September 1st, 2008, 09:54 AM
I shouldn't be replying to this in all honesty XDD

But the hair/face/body combination is important. They have to have great hair, a nice face and a proportionate body :3

For me, I love SKINNIESSS on guys, it's just absolutely hot. Plus I have a phobia with hats so... That too. I also like it when guys wear their pants down low, ahaha =P
Amen to that XD
And they have to wear nice shoes - yes, I am incredibly picky ^^"

.
September 1st, 2008, 10:04 AM
I personally like a sense of humor among other things. Good looks and a great personality is given, but when a girl can take a joke, I find it easier to talk and make conversation. Of course, if they don't have a sense of humor, I can work around it ;D.

Megera
September 1st, 2008, 10:25 AM
Tall gangly guys with nice faces.

Of course my boyfriend is two inches shorter than me and pudgy with a nice face, but OH WELL.

Kyoko
September 1st, 2008, 11:00 AM
This is probably totally weird, but I like guys who have toned shoulders. I find that very attractive for some reason XD;; like, you can tell someone is nicely built when they have that dip between their shoulder blades~!

Also, I love smiles, a sense of humor, confidence, and kindness and looks don't hurt at all either. I also forgot D: I do like a guy who looks decent. And by that I mean, they look like they shower daily, etcetc. Guys with sorta longish hair is cool too if they can pull it off XD;

None of the above means anything if the guy is a total jerk :/

txteclipse
September 1st, 2008, 12:05 PM
I'm surprised there aren't more people mentioning personality traits. I like girls that are very intelligent and can hold an engaging conversation. I also like girls that don't fit the "girly" stereotype...too much giggling or trying to be cute gets on my nerves in a serious way. I don't know why, but I've always been like that.

As for appearance, I like black or red hair especially. Height isn't much of a deciding factor, nor is shapeliness to an extreme level. I like slender, but I don't mind a small amount of weight.

revelp8
September 1st, 2008, 12:18 PM
wow. quite the topic

i have to say though, if a woman is older and looks damn fine, then by all means ^.^ Short and smooth shoulder length hair or long and curly. freckles are a plus. that hourglass figure makes me wanna melt.

I really don't have any standards, so individuality is always hot, be it goth, ghetto, etc.

Gymnotide
September 1st, 2008, 08:02 PM
Uh, the opposite sex? Nice hair, I guess.

Master Jecht
September 1st, 2008, 08:19 PM
i like a girl with a nice eyes and a bright smile. Those two features are just stunning. I don't know why but when a girl puts on a hat they get twice as hot in my view.

kissing. raindrops
September 1st, 2008, 08:19 PM
Sorry guys, that's kinda bias, so let's go with the same sex too then? And I just thought of another thing, it's a huge turn off for me when a guy's shorter than me, no offence. I just can't date a shorter guy.

SpartanPatriot
September 1st, 2008, 08:23 PM
Lol...awkward question.

BOOBS!

lol jk...or am I?

EDIT: Somebody had to say it so I chose myself to do it. :)

Tyrantrum
September 1st, 2008, 08:24 PM
What I like to see in a girl is...well, I mostly like them for who they are. :)

Aegis
September 1st, 2008, 08:25 PM
Uh, to be perfectly honest, nothing XD; I'm gay, sooo not much about the opposite sex really appeals to me.

Zet
September 1st, 2008, 09:53 PM
I'm not sure really, I guess the eyes

Harley Quinn
September 1st, 2008, 10:18 PM
If I said what I find attractive about the other sex, I'd get a smack in the face and a kneeing in the nards.

In other words, big boobs attracts me.

Aizuke
September 1st, 2008, 10:20 PM
Hair, eyes and the ability to make me laugh<3

Buoysel
September 1st, 2008, 10:28 PM
Blue eyes for me is a big turn on. I also find long legs attractive.

Although what I really want in a girl is someone who is not so self centered. Sadly most of the girls that I become attracted to are too wrapped up in themselves that they don't even notice me. K(

B-Baller
September 1st, 2008, 11:14 PM
Raging teenage hormones aside, I love girls with pretty eyes, man. That's one thing I really find attractive. A cute smile also gets me. Hahah.
And also I find girls with a good personality attractive...someone who has interesting interests, not too girly, and someone I can talk to about anything without getting them sleepy over boredom.
Any hair colour is fine with me, as long their hairstyle isn't too OTT.

Blue Nocturne
September 1st, 2008, 11:33 PM
I like straight or slightly wavy hair. Weight isn't a large factor, when people like models go too far, its OK up to a point, then its just disgusting.

Some intelligence is a necessity for me, so we could have a proper conversation about whatever, preferably with some humor, Humor is very important to me, even more that wavy hair.

Guillermo
September 1st, 2008, 11:58 PM
I like Brunette hair, or blond. Brunette with blond streaks are hot! Also a chick who isn't too skinny or too fat! Just right is good. Clothing I don't really care, as long as she doesn't stand in front of the mirror all day putting makeup on when we are going to watch a movie or something!

Kryssi
September 3rd, 2008, 04:18 PM
hmm, things that I find attractive in a guy vary from time to time, but the main things are that they have to have a really nice smile (though I don't have one myself) if I see a guy that just lights up a room with a smile, that just makes me melt. Brown/black hair, any style as long as it's not really short, i like crazy people, I tend to fall for guys who are crazy and I don't know this before I do. Anyway, I also love blue or brown eyes. I used to go for guys that were about an inch or two taller than me, but the guy i've liked over a year is almost a ft taller, i'm 5'4.5" while he's 6'2". Oh, the ability to humour me and be himself around me if his mates are there or not, like the same person. I find a lot of things attractive, another main thing would be how creative he is, i love musicians, preferrably guitarists and he's also got to be into art like I am. Also whom dresses differently, I like a man in brightly coloured skinny jeans and waistcoats and top hats :D

wow. that was a long one. haha wrong way to say how much i wrote.

Weatherman, Kiyoshi
September 3rd, 2008, 04:59 PM
well then...

in the oppisite sex I like smartness. I dunno, I just feel better when someone knows more than me school-wise. and prettiness...? you know, the kind of girl that can pull off a striped long-sleeved shirt and a skirt and look cute <3
oh, and is completely understanding.

in the SAME sex, tall. and shaggy hair. I would rather perfer BROWN (Because I fail at spelling the actual name of the color of hair) hair, or orange. and loveable <3
and hair on thier legs (mostly from the knees down).
...
what? everyone has a fetish.

and... that's pretty much it.
...
the reason I answer for both sexes is obvious.

Memory
September 3rd, 2008, 05:00 PM
Nooooooooot muscular guys.
Ewewewewewew.
Huggable is a lot better. D:<

Nothing else really matters, as long has he's kinda tall. :B And has a good personality, obviously.

Darkrai Lv.1000
September 3rd, 2008, 06:49 PM
well, i don't really judge by what they look like or things like that, but mostly what i find attractive is pretty eyes. not so much hair, cuz they can change it if they like. what i also find attractive is a good sense of humor cuz i like to laugh. i also appreciate them being huggable and having a good personality. it would be great if they could talk to anyone they don't know without a hint of meanness in their voice. (u know, like when u talk to a person you don't know, they usually talk in a mean voice cuz they don't know you) also, i'd feel less manly if a girl was taller than me. that's basically it, but i usually like girls for who they are. i'm not like most guys who are after girls with big boobs and great asses. i'm not a judging person.

the bitter end.
September 3rd, 2008, 07:01 PM
Well, I like long hair, and well generally good personality, and well that's about it

Voltagenic
September 3rd, 2008, 07:10 PM
Nice boobs and personality.

Walrein
September 3rd, 2008, 08:01 PM
Nice boobs and personality.
How constracting XD...
Don't worry there. I like big tits as well, but it's not the most important part of a girl.
---
Now how do you call the six belly muscules in English? Some girls just can't without them...

mystletainn
September 3rd, 2008, 08:40 PM
Well... I'm gay, but I do find things appealing on women. I usually notice breasts on a woman and if she has nice teeth.

In guys I notice their butt, smile, eyes, arms, chest, and height.

Walrein
September 3rd, 2008, 08:52 PM
Well... I'm gay, but I do find things appealing on women. I usually notice breasts on a woman and if she has nice teeth.

In guys I notice their butt, smile, eyes, arms, chest, and height.
Was that seriously OO"?
Well, em, youre the second here...

Gunn
September 3rd, 2008, 09:05 PM
Hm, there's something that I like about hands. I dunno, I'm just a hands person. I like a guy's torso, smile and hair too; maybe a few body mods only if it looks good. On girls, I like long legs with a small bust size. I just think that's cute. Yeah, I'm not the straightest person in the world neither.

EdenDecay
September 4th, 2008, 12:05 AM
I like nice hair, eyes, and facial structure. High cheek bones are gorgeous!~ >////>

Motsuko Live
September 4th, 2008, 12:38 AM
I look for a unique face. I love it when I've never seen a face like theirs anywhere before, but I still find them attractive. The girl I'm going after now; long, brown hair, higher cheek bones, beautiful green eyes and a stunning smile. I like braces, too. Why? I don't know... the look just turns me on for some reason. :B *shot'd*

And for all you pervs out there, no. They don't hurt at all. >:|

Kota
September 4th, 2008, 12:52 PM
And for all you pervs out there, no. They don't hurt at all. >:|

-Is guilty for thinking they were-

Um, I like a smart girl with unnatural eyes. Like, I normally don't go for a specific color as long as it's light. Personality is everything, I'd rather have a interesting girl than a cute tasteless girl. But, looks are something. I usually like chill girls, I'd rather them be in sweatpants and a t-shirt or hoody than get all dressed up. A beautiful voice. I'm a singer, so I'm more tapped into emotional aspects compared to physical.

Parabolic
September 4th, 2008, 02:12 PM
Well... first thing I notice are eyes and hair. Though a well-maintained physical attractiveness is a plus, it isn't the most important to me. Mental qualities I like are artistic, pleasant, quirky, fun, outgoing, intelligent, and sometimes a slightly off sense of reality. If anything, imperfections are more attractive to me than perfections.

Alakazam17
September 4th, 2008, 05:28 PM
Well, they have to be intelligent, kind-hearted, funny, not obsessed about looks, a little quiet, and probably a little crazy. XD

As for appearance, I have a thing for brunettes. I rarely find myself attracted to a blonde girl, oddly enough.

As for turn-offs, I'll just list one: cigarettes. If you are a girl who possesses all the traits I mentioned above, but you smoke, you don't stand a chance with me. ^^

Parabolic
September 4th, 2008, 08:33 PM
That is totally true with me, too. Not only do I ind cigarettes and cigars disgusting, I'm a trumpet player and getting anywhere near those things is scary for me. Drugs and alcohol are a turn off, too, but not as much as smoking.

Arshiki
September 5th, 2008, 06:40 AM
I like guys who are skinny. Muscle completely turns me off. I also like long hair on guys, especially if it is blonde. Hair wisps are sexy as well. Furthermore, I find blue and green eyes very attractive. Cleanliness is also a must, as is a non-existence of bodily and facial hair. Additionally, I find glasses on guys quite hot.

As far as personality goes, I like guys who are sensitive and submissive. I loathe guys who are insensitive, rude, aggressive, and domineering. For me to like a guy, he also has to have a brain. Granted, he does not have to be a genius, but he must possess some intellect.

Binary
September 5th, 2008, 09:00 AM
I like girls with a sense of humor and that great smile on their face everytime you look at them.
The eyes really matter. I prefer brown alot <3. And she should be really cute..

Tamaki
September 5th, 2008, 04:24 PM
Nooooooooot muscular guys.
Ewewewewewew.
Huggable is a lot better. D:<

Nothing else really matters, as long has he's kinda tall. :B And has a good personality, obviously.

Girl I so agree. I like chubby guys... it's a fetish? XD

Aside from that, I like kinda long hair... but not too long, where they look like a chick from behind >.< And, they can't be total morons or jerks. I like really sweet guys :33

Ah! And I love glasses; hate facial hair.

EDIT: Kota you are my hero ;; *wi-fives* Hate shallow men >.<

...yeah.

Abrogate Nadir
September 5th, 2008, 04:40 PM
I like smart, ambitious girls who are able to be dependent. There are other traits I value of course, but I don't want to get into them all--I'd sound terribly picky xD

If we're talking about looks, I prefer girls with darker hair, and I won't lie, I do like a nice body. That isn't to say I like massive boobs though.

Lee Jin Tyz
September 5th, 2008, 04:49 PM
I like a girl that is skinny but not like really really skinny, good looking, athletic, has a good personality, is fun to be with, and a girl that i like to say yepp shes mine! =]

Xairmo
September 5th, 2008, 04:58 PM
I like the semi-muscular guys. Six-pack, defined arms, and a nice chest. I also like the "rugged" look a lot. 5 o'clock shadow is the sexiest thing about a man. I like when they have a really defined chin and cheek bones, nice hair, piercingly beautiful eyes. I don't care what clothes he wears, as long as he looks good in it. Of course a guy doesn't need to have all these qualities for me to ask him out. I mean I'm not perfect and I don't expect him to be.

There's also the whole personality aspect. I like someone whose caring and attentive. Someone whose passionate. The kinda guy where you can lay in his arms for hours on end not saying a word yet by the end you feel as if you know everything about him. A sense of humor is really important, I couldn't date a square. I just want someone to return my love.

Edit: Wow, I never realized how extremely gay I was until I read that xD

STK
September 5th, 2008, 04:59 PM
I'm gay, so I'll just post what I like in guys.

Physically, long hair is a turnon. HUGE turnon. And I have a thing for guys with nice chests.

Personality-wise, they need to be kind, caring, and mature.

DeathMetalGod
September 5th, 2008, 05:04 PM
Yeah, I'm with STK on this. Guys with long hair is a turn on for me.

As far as personality, yeah they gotta be nice, caring and all that other.

However, I thought I was into the opposite sex at one point. Now I'm not since I met this guy who totally turns me on more than any other girl I've seen or known.

Voltagenic
September 5th, 2008, 05:44 PM
I also like a girl that is intelligent enough to hold a conversation with me, and isn't too girly. I can't stand that infuriating giggling.

Metatron
September 5th, 2008, 06:43 PM
Uh, to be perfectly honest, nothing XD; I'm gay, sooo not much about the opposite sex really appeals to me.

...I still refuse to believe that you're gay, despite how incredibly blunt you were in that statement was just now >>'

Anyways, turn-ons for me...uh...

Hair is a big one for me. Oh, and eyes. I'm not entirely sure why, but those are probably the first 2 things I notice about a girl's physical appearance. Looks generally don''t really matter all that much to me, but I mean, she has to at least be bearable to look at. ._.

Style is also a pretty big thing to me. I can't stand preppies, and people who dress like they're trying to fit into a "label." I like girls who are just themselves, and don't try to dress like everyone else just to fall into a label. Individuality's pretty important to me, I guess.

...As much as I don't want to get into this right now, I don't like girls with big boobs.

Oh, and smoking is a huge turn on for me. Yeah, that's right. Probably one of the most effed up fetishes ever, but whatever. I can't help it >_>

As for personality, I like girls who are just themselves. Seriously, I know this is like, the generic answer here, but i can't stand people who try to act like something that they're not. I'm not interested in clones of everyone else, I'm attracted to personality more than anything, and I can't stand it when people act a certain way just to try and become socially accepted =/

...Oh, and female-dominance :]

Voltagenic
September 5th, 2008, 07:41 PM
Girl I so agree. I like chubby guys... it's a fetish? XD

Aside from that, I like kinda long hair... but not too long, where they look like a chick from behind >.< And, they can't be total morons or jerks. I like really sweet guys :33

Ah! And I love glasses; hate facial hair.

EDIT: Kota you are my hero ;; *wi-fives* Hate shallow men >.<

...yeah.

lol, I fit your description, except for the hair.

marz
September 5th, 2008, 08:13 PM
...Oh, and female-dominance :]
Dude you gotta be the alpha-male in the relationship D<

--

Well, on the looks side, I'd have to say straight/wavy blonde or brown hair, beautiful eyes (if they're nice enough, they might even take my attention off the boobs. lol jk), and a cute face. The girl should be fit, but I don't really care if she's developed or not. >; over-developed is kind of a turn-off for me, anyway.. aaand it'd be nice if she was shorter than me XD

As for personality, someone who shares a good number of interests with me, the most important being hobbies and music taste, someone with a great sense of humor and who's really down-to-earth and has a relaxed attitude towards life. Stressed, stuck-up girls are not my type at all. o_o And it'd be nice if she appreciated me and wasn't all shy and reserved about being lovey >: Oh, and I can't stand girls who try to make everything they do seem cute. It's irritating as hell.

But this is practically my perfect girl. Obviously I'll settle for less, because perfection is really hard to come by. I don't think any girl I've met has met this exact description. But, I'm not desperate, so I won't take anyone >>;

Oh and the person in my sig turns me on loloolol

Tamaki
September 5th, 2008, 08:46 PM
Dude you gotta be the alpha-male in the relationship D<



Male-dominance ewewew. Who wants to be with a guy who's like "bich get in the kitchen"?

Voltagenic
September 5th, 2008, 09:04 PM
Don't you like muscular guys? I'm not sure how those six muscles that can be seen in the belly in English...
For me, it's a bit hard to explain...that body+face combination...I could post examples but I'm not sure if they count for porn or not.

It's called a six-pack in English, derived from the muscles looking like a 6-pack of beer.

Master Electrician
September 5th, 2008, 09:13 PM
Well, for one, male dominant relationships=/=total control, and an alpha male doesn't necessarily order everyone around. But that's an aside.

Okay, I like someone who enjoys snuggling. I admit, I'm a cuddleslut. Someone who doesn't mind that I'm not a saint, and I'm not going to turn into one for them. Intelligence is a big one, as is energy. I don't mean bubbly, just someone who's more active instead of passive and understands that sitting still is hard for me. :P

Physically? Dark hair, or dirty blonde. Eyes, I don't much care about, but the shape of the face is important. Kind've fond of a nice butt, I admit it. And I do like someone who's well... Not a workout-freak, but does care enough to stay in shape.

Metatron
September 5th, 2008, 10:03 PM
Dude you gotta be the alpha-male in the relationship D<


Hell naw, son. You know I've always had a thing for girls who could verbally kick my ass :<

Someone specific comes to mind. I think you know who.

...Gawd, i still miss her, but I've since moved on </3

Ninetales
September 5th, 2008, 10:32 PM
i like a girl with a nice eyes and a bright smile. Those two features are just stunning. I don't know why but when a girl puts on a hat they get twice as hot in my view.

Well, they have to be intelligent, kind-hearted, funny, not obsessed about looks, a little quiet, and probably a little crazy. XD

As for appearance, I have a thing for brunettes. I rarely find myself attracted to a blonde girl, oddly enough.

I like girls with a sense of humor and that great smile on their face everytime you look at them.
The eyes really matter. I prefer brown alot <3. And she should be really cute..

Date me, you three! Just kidding.

The question here is, what do I value in the opposite sex? *thinks dreamily of the Black Cat Bandits, fictional characters she's created*

The Outside
It really is hard to find guys with long hair, but I find it sexy. If it's shorter than two inches it annoys me... I don't care about the colour though, of their skin or their hair. I'm not picky when it comes to figure, but generally the thinner and leaner the better... but it depends--sometimes the stockier guys are really handsome! Nor do I care about height--they can be tall, short, whatever. I also don't care about age--I once fell in love with a man who was fifteen years older than me and I was fine with it. Also, a pretty face is a definite turn-on for me, but glasses are a no-no unless there are pretty eyes behind it or if his hair is long and curly. Gee, I'm picky, aren't I? Oh and also, a guy HAS to be clean; stinkiness is a definite turnoff unless he's just so unbearably attractive in other categories.

I also like guys who have a good fashion sense, who don't try to look too plain or conservative. I like guys with style! (And this goes for personality too, as I'll explain later.)

{Compare this to my boyfriend. He's kinda blah in figure, nothing too interesting. He wears glasses but doesn't have a pretty face to back it up. His hair is short and slightly spiked. And although he keeps himself clean, he keeps his room kinda messy. Meh, oh well.}

The Inside

I like guys' personalities to be passionate or exciting, or a combination of both. Intelligence and/or cleverness and wit is a big plus. But in addition to being respectful and supportive, he must also be confident in himself, enough so that I'm intrigued by his life, but not to the point where he spends all his time bragging. I really don't like it when guys are too modest or have a monotone voice.

As far as the issue of domination goes... Well, thinking that girls are inferior is a huge turnoff, of course. I don't think I'd like to be called a dog all the time (nope, not even when the wolf is one of my favourite animals). But I don't like him to be too passive or submissive. I like to be able to have a say in things, true, but I like guys who are productive in ideas, who can take the initiative most of the time. But he still has to have an open mind, and not shut himself off to everything I say. Oh, and I hate arguing and competing, so I don't like guys who value those two. I'd prefer someone I can easily keep the peace with. Haha, but I also enjoy guys who like doing things for me--that's one reason why I'm keeping my boyfriend for now! Not as in a slave, but as in someone who enjoys enjoys giving things to me and/or taking me places. (Or, someone I can feel comfortable taking places. I find it amusing that I have a car while my boyfriend doesn't even have a license. XD)

As far as the issue of sex drive goes... I obviously don't want a guy who wants nothing but sex with me, so that eliminates one extreme. Other than that, I don't really care how sensual or touchy-feely he is--heck, he could be completely uninterested in sex and I'd still love him.

A lot of turnons come in the form of similarities to myself. I like guys who share quite a bit in common with me, yet still has a few differences that keep me interested. But it's not a must. However, he must sort of fit in with my interests. I don't care that much for guys who are obsessed with sports or gambling (okay, an interest in sports is fine, but...), but a definite turnon is someone who shares a few common interests with me. I'll happily accept a geek, especially if they're into RPG's like me. Artistic guys are awesome too, as are guys who like to party. And guys with a dark side are so awesomely awesome that I can't describe the awesomeness in words! Dark sides cause my heart to melt like dark chocolate. And if he's a bit daring and enjoys breaking a rule or two... <3 In turn though, he must also be able to handle my own dark side and my own individuality. Xenophobes and faint hearts won't last two days with me.

And now for more huge turnons:
-Similarity in religion. This is such a huge turnon that if it's there, I automatically fall in love. Being a very spiritual person myself, I really go for that. Sorry, muggles (and maybe evangelists) frustrate me...
-The ability to speak from his heart. I always do, so I expect the same.
-Did I not mention a dark side?
-Similarity in music tastes. If you like dance and/or new age, count me in. Being a music lover myself, I'm especially turned on by this.
-If lacking in similar interests, acceptance of my interests and by beliefs. That's not a turnon--it's a must. I almost started hating my boyfriend when he said (years ago) that he didn't like my religion.
-Loving nature, animals included. (Well, my religion worships nature, so that goes hand in hand.)
-Someone who has a group of friends I can get along well with. I'm very fond of friend groups.

And now for things that are popular turnoffs, but I don't mind:
-Lacking a sense of humour. I can provide that for him. (But he has to be able to laugh!)
-Drug addicts. As long as he doesn't force the drug on me or constantly blow smoke in my face, it's fine. And if the drug is illegal, it might even become a turnon!
-Interest in other girls. As long as it doesn't cause him to neglect me, it's fine. I personally hate having to choose only one significant other anyway. This also means I'm perfectly okay with dating someone who already has a girlfriend. Attraction is natural and shouldn't be limited to one person.
-On a similar note, someone who's into porn. Porn doesn't bother me...
-Someone who swears a lot. As my history teacher said, swearing is what prevents people from shooting each other. And f**k censoring. (Gee, that last sentence was hypocritical...)
-My family and friends hate him, and/or his family and friends hate me. As long as he doesn't succumb to them, it's fine.
-Being assertive. As long as he isn't too persistent on the things he suggests, I like guys who give suggestions.
-Selfishness. He doesn't have to value me over himself. As long as he still cares for me a little bit, it's fine.
-Imperfection. He doesn't have to fit my ideal boyfriend description exactly. Otherwise I would be breaking up with my boyfriend about now!

And now for more turnoffs:
-Someone who doesn't like my tastes in music.
-Someone who believes dark sides are a bad thing.
-Fear of the dark. And I don't mean the song by Iron Maiden. (Which is awesome IMO.)
-Disrespect for any aspect of my personality. This is a huge one.
-Someone who sounds like he's bored with me every time I talk to him.
-Someone who hates my family and/or friends.
-Someone who's really, really strict about me avoiding other guys. Or anything, for that matter.
-Someone who can't keep a secret. I can, so I expect the same.
-A "territorial" guy; that is, someone who will try his best to keep other guys away from me.
-Someone who tries to mold me into someone I'm not. He has to like me just the way I am. Okay, I can change a little, but it depends on how much the change conflicts with my personality.
*Note: All of the above turnoffs, with the exception of disrespect and the last one, can be forgiven if I'm attracted to him enough. I can forgive pretty easily...

...Wow. I sure said a lot about guys, didn't I? I bet you can guess how straight I am...
Straight as Cupid's arrow.

22sa
September 6th, 2008, 09:28 AM
She has to be hotter then Tanaka Reina.

marz
September 6th, 2008, 09:34 AM
Hell naw, son. You know I've always had a thing for girls who could verbally kick my ass :<

Someone specific comes to mind. I think you know who.

...Gawd, i still miss her, but I've since moved on </3

You have definitely not moved on. XD You won't until you forget all about PC and.. COtD >_>

..how do I remember that?

Metatron
September 6th, 2008, 09:43 AM
You have definitely not moved on. XD You won't until you forget all about PC and.. COtD >_>

..how do I remember that?

Nah dude, I wasn't talking about her. I was talking about that...other girl...

But thanks for reminding me of her just now. Really. I've managed to live the last 3 months of my life with her gone from my mind, and now, just because of that simple 2-sentence post, you've helped to remind me of all the things I once loved about her.

Now Im'a go see if I can track her down again somehow.

...Why am i only attracted to girls who i know hate me? T___T

22sa
September 6th, 2008, 09:46 AM
...Why am i only attracted to girls who i know hate me? T___TBecause it's exciting, as opposed to girls who are afraid of you or never says anything of any impact on you. The girl who hates you has a better chance of knowing who you really are.

Gunn
September 6th, 2008, 12:51 PM
Physically, long hair is a turnon.

I can't believe I forgot about that. Absolutely love long-haired males. One of the reasons that I have a crush on Alexi Laiho. And uh, his awesome guitar skillz, lawl.

squirtle rocks!
September 6th, 2008, 01:07 PM
beauty and brains:) and not to shy

Weatherman, Kiyoshi
September 7th, 2008, 11:29 AM
Girl I so agree. I like chubby guys... it's a fetish? XD

Aside from that, I like kinda long hair... but not too long, where they look like a chick from behind >.< And, they can't be total morons or jerks. I like really sweet guys :33

Ah! And I love glasses; hate facial hair.

EDIT: Kota you are my hero ;; *wi-fives* Hate shallow men >.<

...yeah.

I hope there is a guy/girl there for me with a chub fetish.
Cause I have to admit, I'm not the most fit person >.<"

anyway, I forgot to leave out a detail:

4 Girlies
If I were to get a girlfriend, I would rather have a younger one.
maybe like 1 year younger.
I found that girls in the last grade than me a lot more nicer than the girls in my grade.

4 Guys
Older. Like, 2 years older.
Because I want to be the one being held :3

...

Wow, It's like the oppisite wants when it comes to which gender >>

Pokemaster1993
September 7th, 2008, 11:36 AM
I'm attracted to white (mods, don't.), skinny girls

ShadowofTime01
September 8th, 2008, 12:33 AM
This might sound cliche, but I sometimes find girls' personalities attractive. I mean I fall head over heels if a girl is intelligent, witty, smart-mouth, feisty, and can hold her own in a discussion of any nature, with a hint of vulnerability. Oh and sarcastic, to an extent.

But as I am a guy, I have to say physically I'm attracted to great smile, athletic build, yet still has meat on her bones, blue eyes if she's a blonde, brown eyes if she's a brunette, cute as a button, and generally shorter than i am (as I'm about 6'4").

Jubilation
September 8th, 2008, 01:16 AM
Well, they must be able to dress, have a brain, which they use of course

Anti
September 8th, 2008, 11:38 AM
Interesting thread lol

For me, I basically have to be able to talk with the person and have a really good time with them. I don't really care about their hair color or height or whatever. I'm a pretty simple person with this kind of stuff. Looks aren't that important but I'd be foolish to say that I ignore them totally. I'm really not very picky since I'm more of a personality person.

As for weird stuff, I usually like girls that have totally different tastes of music than me. I would consider my narrow-mindedness about musical tastes a weakness of mine, so having somebody to counteract that a bit is really nice.

Also, smoking is a huge turn-off. It's not common since I'm younger than most of you (freshman gooooo) but I can only wonder how long that will last. Drugs and that kind of thing...no.

Yeah, I really kind of get along with everybody so it's not something I think about much. I have a lot of girls who are my friends so I kind of prefer to keep it that way. I wouldn't mind having a girlfriend or whatever but eh, it's not something I lose sleep over. That's pretty much what I care about though. I'm a pretty simple person lol

EDIT: I really don't care about the intelligence level either as long as the girl isn't totally brain dead. Some people are born smart and some aren't, so I try not to be too judgmental about that. If the person is lazy, that's another story, but whatever lol

Spider Call
September 8th, 2008, 12:19 PM
Hmmmmm weellll...

For men:
I like them to be taller than me, and I like semi long hair... However I do not like hair past the shoulders XD But it can be no higher than the chin.... Yes I am very picky C:
Personality is obviously needed, and I have a real thing about eyes... So if they have eyes I am about to get lost in I probably will not notice a lot else... As for hair colour and eye colour and stuff XD I don't really care C:

As for women:
Same height or a little shorter or a little taller... I don't like people being way shorter or taller than me... Soo 5'5-9" is good XD I love dark hair, and like it either short, or very long XD I loveeeeee femme butch women, so it really states my type there. I love eyes, and on women I like them dark like their hair... Although you can not go wrong with green or hazel :P

.inLOVE
September 8th, 2008, 02:03 PM
I like guys that wear pink. It shows they are bold.

kissing. raindrops
September 8th, 2008, 07:20 PM
I like guys that wear pink. It shows they are bold.
Same=). Makes them likeah... supah hero.

JESSE546827919
September 9th, 2008, 01:07 PM
I like personality,like if there funny,
also slender bdy and nice waste
love the hips XD

Roy G. Biv
September 9th, 2008, 01:26 PM
Yayz fer random threads ^^

Well, I suppose they have to look half decent. And smell nice. XD
And the eyes are a big plus. Nice eyes of an unusual color. Green is great :3
Must love music, and not mind the fact that I'm no tough-guy ;D

But personality is really what I go for ;D
They have to be kind and caring. That's a must. In fact, this is what turned me off of my most recent interest...
No laughing at other people's expense, y'dig? XD

Other then that, there are a few random personality traits I look for. Smarty-ness, creativity, an intelligent sense of humor, quick minded, clever and charming ;D
Being weird {like me} is also great XP

One more thing, I'm a shy person. I have to be able to talk openly to said person without questioning myself. They would have to love me for who I am 8D


And that's it :D

Assolute-Amore
September 9th, 2008, 06:52 PM
I like guys with good personalities. and they have to look nice (shower, take care of their hair, etc.) and eyes is a big thing for me, too. Not that I've seen ugly eyes, but I like to look in someone's eyes and see happiness. XD sounds cheesy.

and emo guys are hot ^_^;;

The Abyss
September 11th, 2008, 02:34 AM
I really don't like make-up...And giggles.

I just like someone down to Earth that can actually talk...