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Menasay
March 24th, 2010, 02:31 PM
I have about 1,000 problems people. And.. I can't figure out a single one!


1. Me & My Mother ARE going to loose the house.

2. Me and my fiancee argue ALOT. I can't make up my mind to leave him... he gives me about 75% of my needs.

3. I do NOT know if I should go to college cause of Debt crap.

Theodore Bruno
March 24th, 2010, 02:39 PM
1. Talk to your mother about this and figure out some options

2. Talk to him about this arguing and how it bothers you. He could be just stressed.

3. Find a job

Lie Ren
March 24th, 2010, 02:41 PM
Kay, I've been in similar situations before, so I feel like I can actually attempt to help a bit here. :/

First off, if your mother and you are going to lose the house, then I'd worry about finding a place to live before worrying about college. That can always come later once you get other things in order, so it's best not to stress about that too much. As for the house.. if you have to move out, do you guys make enough to maybe find an apartment to move into? Even if you don't have to stay there for a long time, some of them aren't very pricey, and it might help to live in one temporarily. If both of you were working, making enough to live in an apartment is very possible. o.o

As for your fiancee, I can't say much there.. every relationship will have it's fights, but if it's causing more stress than it is happiness, it doesn't seem like it would be good to stay in it. x_x; Have you guys tried to work things out?

Feign
March 24th, 2010, 02:43 PM
There are also debt Councillors, and marriage Councillors.

.Gamer
March 24th, 2010, 03:05 PM
I have about 1,000 problems people. And.. I can't figure out a single one!


1. Me & My Mother ARE going to loose the house.

2. Me and my fiancee argue ALOT. I can't make up my mind to leave him... he gives me about 75% of my needs.

3. I do NOT know if I should go to college cause of Debt crap.

1. *lose

2. *fiancé "People always argue in relationships," its part of a relationship, the people who make it are those who survive the rough patches. (Cheesy but true)

3. Get a job would help for this and the first problem.

Pokeyomom
March 24th, 2010, 03:18 PM
Join the Airforce. That came to mind... Sorry I couldn't be more helpful:C

Guillermo
March 25th, 2010, 01:31 AM
There are also debt Councillors, and marriage Councillors.
Funny how there's Debt counselors and to see one it costs money.

1. *lose

2. *fiancé "People always argue in relationships," its part of a relationship, the people who make it are those who survive the rough patches. (Cheesy but true)

3. Get a job would help for this and the first problem.
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Don't correct someone then make mistakes yourself. Plus "get a job would help" makes no sense, either. Try 'getting.'

Fox♠
March 25th, 2010, 05:46 AM
Posting this in the post your problems thread like everyone else would be an amazing start.