View Full Version : You hurt my feelings...

January 28th, 2013, 4:22 PM
It happens sometimes, right? Do your feelings get hurt easily? Or do they not get hurt at all?

To be perfectly honest all remarks soar right over a head like an eagel. They don't even damage me. My feelings don't get hurt anymore but when I was little, sure they got hurt a lot. After all, I was little.

What about you?

January 28th, 2013, 6:09 PM
It varies. For the most part, I don't really care. More often than not, I find it amusing (specifically if it's online). Even if it does bother me, I would just fake it and pretend I don't care.

January 28th, 2013, 6:27 PM
Depends on who says it. Normally if someone I don't know at all or well says something rude against me, I just get mad, but my feelings aren't really hurt. I just have a hot temper. Now, if someone that I really care about says something I don't like, I take it to heart way too much, without really realizing usually. It may take me a while to calm down. But it's just so much more difficult to take something that hurts from someone you never want or thought would hurt you. And the most random things can hurt my feelings too, so it's like...yeah I have to keep that a secret cause I don't want people knowing I'm that fragile when it comes to who I care about. >> lol

January 28th, 2013, 7:01 PM
It depends on the person, my current situation, and what exactly they say/do. Sometimes stuff doesn't bother me at all and sometimes I feel like a crybaby, it all really just depends.

January 28th, 2013, 10:03 PM
I am very sensitive if someone says something about me behind my back, but if they say it to my face, I'll just be angry.

Just don't trash talk me. If you want to have a discussion on why this/that is bad/good, then sure. Say it to my face. Insult my views, but at least say it to me and have a discussion.

January 29th, 2013, 11:29 AM
I can be a very sensitive person.. but it honestly depends on who is saying the hurtful things. I can brush things off quite easily, but if it someone who matters a lot to me, then I can really take what they say to heart.

January 29th, 2013, 12:11 PM
Often depends on who says it. If it's from someone I like in some way, then generally it's out of good fun. From a stranger though, it might sting a little bit.

Overlord Drakow
January 29th, 2013, 12:14 PM
Believe it or not, I'm actually quite the sensitive young man. beneath that cool exterior is someone who is quite vulnerable to other peoples' comments and such. I won't show it though because I REFUSE TO SHOW WEAKNESS TO THE PUBLIC.

Kikaito plush
January 29th, 2013, 1:02 PM
me ?

I get upset at the drop of a heart to tell the truth, it's that easy to upset me.

January 29th, 2013, 1:18 PM
If someone I don't know would say something about me, then I'd be like, "Pfft, whatever. You don't even know me."

However if someone I knew said something bad about me, then I'd probably get upset - especially if it was one of my friends.

Sweets Witch
January 29th, 2013, 1:48 PM
I'm comfortable enough with my insecurities to brush most things off, but there are moments when I feel like people cross the line. Just because someone shrugs off an insult doesn't mean you should say worse things until you get a response.

Corvus of the Black Night
January 29th, 2013, 2:10 PM
Yeah, I get my feelings hurt. I get scuffed. But I'm someone who literally has to take truckloads of **** before I give up on someone who I think is worth it. I've been manipulated before because of this trait, but I hope that one day this will be the thing that will pay off for all the hard times before.

When I finally give up on that ass, it may take a moment, but I realize that I became a better person because of it, so it at least is a learning lesson.

January 29th, 2013, 3:30 PM
I've kinda developed an ironskin, so nothing really hurts my feeling anymore.

I do get mildly annoyed when somebody talks poorly behind my back though, but only because it's so spineless.
If somebody is really my friend then they won't believe a bunch slurs and crap that anyone else tells them.
They'd talk to me and decide for themself. I:

January 29th, 2013, 3:35 PM
I know how to take a joke, but sometimes I can get sensitive, I guess. It sucks when my friends call me out on it, cause I deny it. But it's true sometimes. And when I'm sensitive, I can either get mad, or make a face and stop talking (and probably eating).

January 29th, 2013, 7:25 PM
some people tell me "you're a pretty much sensitive person" and always who say that are the closest ones to me....i only feel hurt when the person means a lot to me and he\she did something hurts..so i become sensitive with the ones who are close to my heart...other than that i don't care much i would just avoid that person for the peace of my mind sake.

January 29th, 2013, 7:44 PM
I pretend not to care and let it build up

January 29th, 2013, 8:18 PM
I get my feelings hurt all the time, whether it was intended or not.

January 29th, 2013, 8:54 PM
Trust me, my feelings get hurt very easily if I get teased or shouted at.

I can just never avoid bully attacks or altercations...

Starry Windy
January 29th, 2013, 9:00 PM
My feelings get hurt when somebody said words that is not right for me and when I'm doing serious mistakes... Although I managed to pulled it off.

January 29th, 2013, 9:30 PM
Sometimes. And not usually. But when it does it's baaaaaad. You know, duck and cover in case of nuclear attack, everyone who…didn't help the situation…will feel it. A lot.

I get over it, though, but it varies, depending on how the other person gets over their stuff.

January 29th, 2013, 9:34 PM
My feelings get hurt quite often when someone chides me or talks to me about sensitive topics, but I don't show it most of the time nor retaliate much. I have usually been referred to as a sensitive person as I tend to let things get to me too easily, but that's just the way I am.

January 30th, 2013, 2:39 PM
I used to take offense to a lot of things and I'd end up being emotionally dented for a lot of the time. Now, I just try to keep my head down and go my own way and let other people go their's.

January 31st, 2013, 11:11 AM
It depends on who says it, I don't care if someone that's not important to me says something, but I'm really really sensitive otherwise, and I also completely twist things up in my mind and imagine them far worse than they actually were and get really sad and worked up about it haha.

February 1st, 2013, 10:11 PM
It depends. Some I can wipe off easily as a small joke; some can be REALLY insulting and like, hurt my feelings for a few days ;~;

February 1st, 2013, 11:32 PM
If it's a loved one, I feel that's when it hurts me, but the world is cold and I've learned to take a hit, although I was very sensetive as a child

Shining Raichu
February 4th, 2013, 2:41 AM
It's actually surprisingly easy to hurt my feelings, but only if I care about the person doing it. Even when people do hurt my feelings though, I never let on because I know they don't intend to do so. I just shake it off and keep going.

February 13th, 2013, 3:55 AM
The sensitive Hannah inside me gets hurt easily, even by small puns or jokes, but there are two words that I always say to myself: Be strong.

February 13th, 2013, 12:36 PM
My feelings tend to get hurt a bit easily, but I try not to let a lot of things bother me. Every so often though, especially online, I'll take something personally when it was only meant to be a joke.

Rainbow Arcanine
February 16th, 2013, 12:52 AM
It depends really,if I know the person well and trust them as a friend and then suddenly they say nasty and uncomfortable things to me or bully, then I'd feel really gloomy and depressed for a week or two. If they're just playing a light-hearted joke and I know they don't intentionally mean it, I'd just laugh and get over with it. If I don't know them that well, I'd still feel annoyed at the slightest but honestly it's actually pretty easy to hurt my feelings. :(

February 16th, 2013, 1:25 AM
I've trained hard to master my patience and endurance to such things. So I hardly display my feeling so such.

February 16th, 2013, 2:43 AM
I'm not so sensitive but i guess it'd depend on what and who said it.

Magic Christmas Lights
February 16th, 2013, 7:17 AM
I used to be really sensitive when I was younger, but now it's pretty hard to really hurt my feelings. I'm just not bothered by stuff anymore, people are just people and I shouldn't take stuff so personally.