View Full Version : A bit of a problem......
Kitsune_girl
May 7th, 2005, 08:55 PM
Well, I know alot of people on here also have problems with there parents, so I figured mabey someone could give me some advice.:( Here's my situation, I'm at my moms house, and shes drunk, shes been acting real crazy, she tried to force me to give her a hug, and shes been yelling at me non-stop. She even pushed me! We have no phone, only my mom has a cell phone. I managed to call my dad(by stealing her phone, she took it back though), and he said hes to "busy" and I'll just have to wait it out.:\
Anyone have any advice? I'm pretty freaked out right now, so I could really use some.
Lust
May 7th, 2005, 09:02 PM
Go to another friend's or relative's house. How long will you be there?
PrinceOfDarkness
May 7th, 2005, 09:06 PM
*copies and pastes from his PM to Kitsune_girl*
Sorry to hear about ur mom, *hugs* I hope u can deal with her.
I think I might have some advice, I hope they help >_>
Maybe when she isn't drunk, maybe u could seat her down and talk to her. Have a chat with her and try to convince her to stop drinking.
Maybe if u could, maybe go with ur dad if he'll take you.
Maybe when shes drunk, it would be best to be away from her or the house. Maybe at one night, u could ask to go over a friends house or somethin.
I hope I could help, then again, I don't think it will since I'm just a kid >_> but anyways *hugs* sorry bout what happened, I hope u get better from that soon ~Johnny~
Kitsune_girl
May 7th, 2005, 09:06 PM
Thats another problem, my mom just moved a few months ago, and I don't know anyone here:'( She lives in a pretty bad neighborhood too, so I'm kinda afriad to try the neighbors house.Thanx for your help though, mabey I can try to get a friend to pick me up, but my mom hid the phone....
SADM
May 7th, 2005, 09:16 PM
Find the phone call the cops and fast.
Kitsune_girl
May 7th, 2005, 09:21 PM
Find the phone call the cops and fast.
I can't, my moms got it with her now I think. Thanx for your help everyone, I think I'll just stay locked in the room until the booze wears off.
Lust
May 7th, 2005, 09:25 PM
Go live with your dad. You will be safer and happier there.
DragonTrainer
May 7th, 2005, 09:26 PM
The smart thing to do would be to get out of there, find a phone and use it, and get your mom some help, before she hurts you or herself
PrinceOfDarkness
May 7th, 2005, 09:27 PM
I'm sorry sweetie, maybe u should try to make a friend or just try to adviod her, that might help alittle ~Johnny~
Lightning
May 7th, 2005, 09:29 PM
Mm, indeed. I don't really know your situation, but mostly anything is better than it I would assume. If it's that bad, I would suggest calling the police. I think it's a free call from any pay phone. o.o; A parent shouldn't be irresponsible like that, so something really needs to be done, be it counselling or whatever. From the way you're describing it, it sounds like this is a recurring thing? ._. Regardless, after she calms down or you get access to a phone, you need to call for help from someone you trust; if you don't know anyone or can't get ahold of them, go to the police about it. o.o
@_@ *hug* Good luck and be careful~
Kitsune_girl
May 7th, 2005, 09:54 PM
Thanks so much everyone:classic: I think the booze is finaly starting to wear off. *sigh* I guess I'll be fine now. I don't think I'll be coming over to her house anymore.Thanks for all your help guys.
MewSkitty
May 7th, 2005, 10:44 PM
I'm going through the same thing, but I got on my mom's nerves so much she's going to let me go live with my dad. I wish you the best of luck with your family, but be as careful as you can.
SADM
May 7th, 2005, 11:37 PM
Be careful, I would recommend haveing another person around next time you visit your Mothers house. Also I would report this incident with your father and to any legal authority involved with Divource.
ASG
May 8th, 2005, 02:09 AM
seems wut happened to me i only live at my moms my dads kinda wacked all the time
chrno
May 8th, 2005, 03:06 AM
yeah i agree with sadm, talk to her, call your father and the cops, and be carefull
Allstories
May 8th, 2005, 03:57 AM
Jesus Christ...
...This thread makes me sick. It makes me really sick at mankind. Your mom needs help, before it escalates into something larger. This kind of thing just shouldn't be going on.
MewSkitty
May 8th, 2005, 04:01 AM
I hope the police help you, they never helped me. When I ran away because my mom got drunk and was hitting me, they just took me back to her house and blamed everything on me! I don't like police anymore because of that. i never do anything wrong, and they blame me for everyhting that goes wrong just because my brother has been in jail a few times.
Lust
May 8th, 2005, 04:50 AM
You might be safe for the moment, but your mom might now. Be sure to get her some help, quick.
SADM
May 8th, 2005, 12:31 PM
This is one of those things that cannot wait ,you have to let people now and make sure this does not continue.
Shana
May 8th, 2005, 12:41 PM
Aww, I'm sorry to hear of this situation at all. I agree with everyone to inform someone about it. Most importantly, did you tell your dad what happened?
Kitsune_girl
May 21st, 2005, 09:28 PM
*Finnaly get back on PC* Wow, thanks for the support everyone. I'm fine now. Back at my dads, and my moms gone on vacation. I told her I'm never coming over as long as there is alchol at her place, that way if she wants me over, she'll have to get rid of the stuff.
Sorry to hear what happend to you Rukario Master. I hate the police too because of stuff like that.
Thanks again for the help everyone :classic: