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punkie90
January 13th, 2004, 04:42 PM
Well. I think I miht be getting a little low and feeling bad for myself. But I was woundering. I had a lot of fun with ya all. But. No one really notice's me. I admire Lightning Kayleigh and a bunch of friends here.But no one cares about me. Should I leave pc???Please tell me.

Arwen
January 13th, 2004, 04:46 PM
No, it just takes time... It took alot of time for the whole PC to know me...

Timbjerr
January 13th, 2004, 04:48 PM
no...you shouldn't leave PC just because you feel unwanted...

If that's the way it works, I wouldv'e been gone after my first five months here XP

Frostweaver
January 13th, 2004, 04:49 PM
first of all... asking PC to judge if you should leave PC is extremely stupid... it's like asking your spouse "Can I marry someone else"... the answer of course is "no" so... why ask ^_^;

I never got to know you that well due to personality difference like me with MANY OTHER PEOPLE, so I don't know what's the hindering factor within PC that's making you feel this way... but if it's the moderator test result related, that'll be foolish as there's nothing special between mods, smods, preator and admins compare to "normal" members. We're all human, and each of us makes up an equal portion of PC. Just because someone's position is higher or more post count, that doesn't mean one member is more important and valuable in PC (that's why i hate that MOTM valuable question). One title and some color change in name won't do anything really...

However if it's a certain person or the atmosphere within PC that's repelling you from PC, then either do something with those people/situations. Tell them to a staff member/close friend in PC and see how they can help you (like telling them to your friend Lightning and Kayleigh will be a good start already).

To be honest... no one should say rather you should stay in PC or not. We are all selfish human beings and we want others to act in our favor. So whatever answer we give, it may not be really what's best for you... you should decide for yourself.

punkie90
January 13th, 2004, 04:59 PM
Hmm.I know. but see. Offlibne I'm known as the guy thats always the popular omne. And funny. Always in the midle of things. On pc I'm not. It's weird!

Frostweaver
January 13th, 2004, 05:06 PM
lol I live my reputation and my name in both worlds... I'm exactly the same ^_^;

I never understood popularity so I don't know the pain of not having it suddenly... But it's not like it's vital for you or something compare to O2 and H2O. So don't feel too bad without it.

Kayleigh
January 13th, 2004, 05:10 PM
You mentioned that no one cares about you, but that's not true. A lot of us are busy, and don't have time to talk to everyone, but I definately don't think that people are deliberately ignoring you. You're a great member for the community; you don't really SPAM, plus you've already got 1,660 posts. ^_^ That's very good for someone who just joined not too long ago. But, if you still feel left out then leaving is your decision, but I really don't think you should. Even if you can't be active right now, as long as you stick with us then your post count doesn't matter. ;P

Arwen
January 13th, 2004, 05:17 PM
Me too... I got increased responsibilities too... :o...

DragonTrainer
January 13th, 2004, 05:42 PM
Well, it's entirely up to you, but it just takes time to be noticed.i mean, when I was new, no one even knew I was around, but with time and not giving up, this is where I am standing now

John Denver
January 13th, 2004, 06:47 PM
don't turn into another Dizzy PK...eesh

I mean, everyone KNOWS who you are, but just because no one kisses your feet doesn't mean your not respected. The first while that I was in PC, no one had a friggin CLUE who I was, but I became friends with good people (syrus, kennyc) and bam it got better...

give it time and never ask for pity...

Dizzy
January 13th, 2004, 06:50 PM
Why do you have to use my name in this? Everyone always has something bad to say about me. Punkie dont leave, I'll leave for you, Since I'm already a prick..

sdp
January 13th, 2004, 07:11 PM
Well. I think I miht be getting a little low and feeling bad for myself. But I was woundering. I had a lot of fun with ya all. But. No one really notice's me. I admire Lightning Kayleigh and a bunch of friends here.But no one cares about me. Should I leave pc???Please tell me.
Leave, no one cares about you.

Arwen
January 13th, 2004, 07:17 PM
^don't listen to him... not true...

We are showing you that our jobs or role at PC makes us busy... though....

you're understand...

Alakazam
January 13th, 2004, 07:23 PM
Leave, no one cares about you.

That's pretty bold for a newbie.

John Denver
January 13th, 2004, 07:23 PM
Watch it sdp...me and everyone else could care less what you say or think unless it's something positive.

Arwen
January 13th, 2004, 07:25 PM
Well, I can ask one of the moderators to edit it out or delete your post. If you have nothing nice to say, don't post it at all...

sdp
January 13th, 2004, 07:30 PM
I'm not a newbie, and i'm sorry if i find threads that have "attention *****" written all over it annoying.

Rift
January 13th, 2004, 07:33 PM
Not cool or funny sdp.

Dont leave PK your an awesome member! and i joined in July and it took till almost October before i started being noticed and stuff, just gotta give it some time! ^ ^

[Edit] sdp why do you go in this thread if your just gonna post negative comments?

sdp
January 13th, 2004, 07:36 PM
Like i posted before you, I really dislike threads of people "I'm gonna leave!!11" everytime they feel they don't get the attention. If people didn't do it every month just to get people to say "don't leave" and they don't leave i wouldn't be so harsh.

Rift
January 13th, 2004, 07:38 PM
Like i posted before you, I really dislike threads of people "I'm gonna leave!!11" everytime they feel they don't get the attention. If people didn't do it every month just to get people to say "don't leave" and they don't leave i wouldn't be so harsh.
Its called editing, and PK just doesnt feel like he fits in or somethin, so just dont go sayin "No one cares about PK" okay?

Miyu-chan
January 13th, 2004, 07:39 PM
Of course not! Don't leave~ T_T You're a fantastic member for the community, and you don't spam or anything, and you're a great person to talk to~! ;_; Don't leave....
If you really want to leave, remember that I will always be your friend.

sdp
January 13th, 2004, 07:40 PM
It's not like he was going to leave anyways, he just wanted ATTENTION which all of you guys are giving him....
Why do i always end up like the bad guy.

John Denver
January 13th, 2004, 07:41 PM
Like i posted before you, I really dislike threads of people "I'm gonna leave!!11" everytime they feel they don't get the attention. If people didn't do it every month just to get people to say "don't leave" and they don't leave i wouldn't be so harsh.

However true that may be it still doesn't give you right to dis someone for your own personal enjoyment, especially when you put on this "pity me I'm sad" facade yourself.

22sa
January 13th, 2004, 08:06 PM
It's not like he was going to leave anyways, he just wanted ATTENTION which all of you guys are giving him....
Why do i always end up like the bad guy.
Wrong question lol, you should ask why not instead of why. ;)

Cosmos
January 13th, 2004, 08:07 PM
Well, I have been thinking about it and I was planning on leaving PC because I feel unwanted too. I don't think you should leave PC though

flygonruler1
January 13th, 2004, 08:11 PM
nah dont leave!
I think you have a better reputation than me!
ohh wait.. you do....

Kairi
January 13th, 2004, 08:14 PM
It's not like he was going to leave anyways, he just wanted ATTENTION which all of you guys are giving him....
Why do i always end up like the bad guy.Maybe because you express yourself constantly with sarcasm and negativity? Just a thought, but its almost flaming.

flygonruler1
January 13th, 2004, 08:19 PM
It's not like he was going to leave anyways, he just wanted ATTENTION which all of you guys are giving him....
Why do i always end up like the bad guy
maybe because what kairi says,and p90 has alot of friends,and they stand up for him

but thats just a thought.....

Arwen
January 13th, 2004, 08:27 PM
Well, we are taking a close watch on your action so please don't do anything that breaks the rules...

flygonruler1
January 13th, 2004, 08:30 PM
if you leave ill..*tinks*
*stabs self*
"ohh wait thats sabosed to be after....."

Kairyu
January 13th, 2004, 08:40 PM
I can almost agree with you sdp, to an extent. A bit harsh but sure, its about as annoying as a person asking if he/she should eat the sandwich they just prepared. Of course my answer would be yes, he/she made it. I mean, what else can I say?
That also goes for your question too punkie, I'm fairly new and I definitely notice your presence here at PC. Just because you notice mods and other members getting more attention than yourself doesn't justify you to make a thread about it (Personally PMs would've been more effective since you can send them to several members all at once.)
I guess what I'm really trying to get at is, lighten up! Its a fairly large forum, not everyone will praise you or me. So be tough about it and have fun around here. I'll be looking forward to reading more of your posts in the months to come:).

And yeah, don't leave or anything. That would be silly.

TVR
January 13th, 2004, 09:04 PM
and I almost agree with sdp. Except he was too harsh. Ya know, you don't gotta make a thread about this or nothing. I mean, I feel that way too. I don't know many people. But then again I havent been here that long. I mean, look at your buddy list. I probably won't have one like that in like 4 or 5 months. And another thing. Look how many people answered to this thread telling you to stay. That should tell you something right there. You think if I or someone else unknown made a thread like this people would answer. HA, it would be like a joke to them. They'd take one look at it and say who's that guy. I don't give a rat's *** if he goes. I don't know who he is. So look at all your friends telling you to stay.
So just stay. Leaving would be foolish. You know plenty of people here at pc. I would kill to be in your postition.

22sa
January 13th, 2004, 09:17 PM
and I almost agree with sdp. Except he was too harsh. Ya know, you don't gotta make a thread about this or nothing. I mean, I feel that way too. I don't know many people. But then again I havent been here that long. I mean, look at your buddy list. I probably won't have one like that in like 4 or 5 months. And another thing. Look how many people answered to this thread telling you to stay. That should tell you something right there. You think if I or someone else unknown made a thread like this people would answer. HA, it would be like a joke to them. They'd take one look at it and say who's that guy. I don't give a rat's *** if he goes. I don't know who he is. So look at all your friends telling you to stay.
So just stay. Leaving would be foolish. You know plenty of people here at pc. I would kill to be in your postition.
Exactly, I didn't come back to PC for anywhere near as much people as he had on his buddy list. But I don't agree he's, or anyone's leaving is foolish :P

TVR
January 13th, 2004, 09:31 PM
Exactly, I didn't come back to PC for anywhere near as much people as he had on his buddy list. But I don't agree he's, or anyone's leaving is foolish :P

yea, you're right. He would'nt be foolish if he left. But I'm saying he would be, to leave now in the position that he aquired here at pc. You've come to far to go now PK. you're known by alot. If it were earlier itd be a different story. He's not even in bad shape.

Iveechan
January 13th, 2004, 10:04 PM
Be like me... take week or month long "vacations" from the site, and come back to see what's cooking. Personally, I don't care about you, but that's not to sound harsh... I don't care about anybody on the forum because I don't really know them and don't feel a close bond. But not caring doesn't equal hate, it just means that when I'm offline or elsewhere on the net, I don't think about you or most forum members.

This is just a forum. Ignore the post counts and member of the month, just post and have fun with your forum comrades. To answer your question... leave PC if you feel like it, then come back whenever.

Phantom Angel
January 14th, 2004, 02:21 AM
It's not like he was going to leave anyways, he just wanted ATTENTION which all of you guys are giving him....
Why do i always end up like the bad guy.Why do you end up like bad guy? Because you are the moron who post before think.
Once you get an answer, get lost.
And PK, don't leave.
PC won't be PC without you. ;P

punkie90
January 14th, 2004, 05:08 AM
Ok. Well. I didn't relize that somany people knew who I was. I guess , I will do a little posting and I will. I guess. I dunnno. Stay. And All you that said I made this thread to get attention. Go away if ya don't like it. I just wanted some feedback! So. I guess I willl make a few post before I go to school. Bye!

Phantom Angel
January 14th, 2004, 05:22 AM
Ok. Well. I didn't relize that somany people knew who I was. I guess , I will do a little posting and I will. I guess. I dunnno. Stay. And All you that said I made this thread to get attention. Go away if ya don't like it. I just wanted some feedback! So. I guess I willl make a few post before I go to school. Bye!Well, you shouldn't leave PC.
Because there is no crazy poster left.:P
Well, don't leave.
k?

DragonTrainer
January 14th, 2004, 05:36 AM
OK, he's staying, so I guess this topic will go nowhere soon if we let it stay open

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