View Full Version : Ever had a crush on your bestfriend?

January 18th, 2006, 1:37 PM
I currently have a crush on my best friend, and i need help sooooo bad!! I've been best friends with him for 6 years and he sed i was his best friend that was a girl. then i got a crush on him. he sed that i am soo cool and stuff and that he didnt know if he'd go out with me or not and that he'd think about it. well hes still unsure, he ses we're too good of friends but that he doesnt know. i flirt with him and he flirts back. ITS SO CONFUSING!!!! if any of you have advice on this, HELP ME!!! I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO!! i want to go out with him but i dont want to lose our friendship in the process.

So... go ahead and talk about your crushin' on your best friend problems.

Lady Akita
January 18th, 2006, 8:47 PM
Oh, I did last year. I hung with him all the time during school, and we often pass notes in class. My boyfriend didn't mind at all. But it wasen't that big of a deal. I don't intend to cheat on someone whom I already like.

Chase Leader
January 18th, 2006, 8:49 PM
Actually I did have a crush on a freind on the track team but I flirted and she flirted back but neither of us made a move...trust me I know the feeling.

So here is some advice, if you really like him don't rush things, just continue to be friends and oh yeah flirt every once and a while and hes bound to ask you out...the worst thing that could happen is that your only freinds at the end of it...but if you never started anything then it won't be ackward between you and him.

January 18th, 2006, 9:13 PM
My best friend was a boy. he was my best friend for 7-8 years, and then he moved to chicago. i was mad at him at the time, so he got rid of my number and didnt give me his. now i really regret it because now that i look back, he was the best friend a person could have. every time i would see something cool, i would say "i have to show this to ben." whenever i would buy something, i would be like a normal perosn, and think of who you could use it with. it would always be ben.
ben used to go here under the name pinkman. now hes gone and doesnt remember his password. i wish i could give it to him but i cant contact him in any way

im ranting. please, next time, tell me when to stop.


January 18th, 2006, 9:24 PM
I have a crush on my best friend, she has been my friend since she was 2, and that was 14 years ago, but I don't want to go into a relation yet, because if it fails it may also ruin our friendship.

Advice: you two might just want to get together and talk about your feelings, maybe go out as friends to the movies and a dinner, and learn more about each other.

cυтe тogepι
January 19th, 2006, 11:11 AM
.... Oh, I bet this is the common issue... x_x; now, what I suggest you is that you try out to see if, this will last. Because, probably when you brake up. He won't be that close to you... =/

Don't worry. I have a crush on my beast (guy) friend. >_< But, I don't want the friendship to be damaged. >>;

My advice: leave things flow. Maybe it'll work just right for you two!

January 19th, 2006, 11:47 AM
Actually, yeah, and now she's my girlfriend.

We'be been best friends since Fifth Grade... and we became boyfriend and girlfriend since 2005, but now she's gone, but i'm waiting for her now ^^.

January 19th, 2006, 1:20 PM
My best friend is a dude..that'd just be wrong.

Soul Eater
January 19th, 2006, 1:41 PM
Yeah. Online plenty of times XD Most of my best friends are guys. So yrah Theres been a few times that I've had crushes on them XD

January 19th, 2006, 1:45 PM
Yeah. I currently have a crush on one of my best friends....

January 19th, 2006, 2:18 PM
I've had a crush on a friend in the past, yes. Not necessarily a best friend (since that's so hard to judge anyway) but a friend. I just did nothing and it went away eventually, though. o_o;

poke lover
January 19th, 2006, 5:40 PM
Yes I'v had a crush on a female friend. We eventually started going out and its was all good sailing. But then she had to move to another state so we broke up *sob* lol. But its all good. Bocky, ask him out if you want.

January 19th, 2006, 5:42 PM
Yeah. I currently have a crush on one of my best friends....
When that happens it's weird, but it does... o.o; Same here....

January 20th, 2006, 10:19 AM
yes i do at the moment shes beautiful but im not sure she feels the same way about me what do i do

January 20th, 2006, 6:12 PM
When that happens it's weird, but it does... o.o; Same here....
You, too?! This is...ironic o.o;

My friend will never know ever.....Because if I told them, they would be so shocked they would probably have a heart attack or something D<

Ark Kuvis
January 20th, 2006, 6:27 PM
Not best friend. A friend. I didn't want it to happen. I liked her before I talked to her. We became friends and stuff. But the bad thing is, she already got a boyfriend. I'm glad to have her as a friend and all, but I didn't expect to like her more than that.......

January 20th, 2006, 6:36 PM
Yeah. I currently have a crush on one of my best friends....

Yeah, same with me... Maybe someday...

January 21st, 2006, 3:20 PM
Yes.. I currently have a crush on my best friend ^^', she was one of the first friends I made when I first started High School in grade 9, and right now I can say that she's my best friend.

January 21st, 2006, 7:58 PM
Never! I was friends with a girl that always let me borrow money 2 years ago, but my best friends were boys(people that i talk to the most etc etc).

January 21st, 2006, 9:01 PM
I currently have a crush on my BESTEST friend and we are gonna go out and we promised to be friends if we ever break up. I love her and I am moving by her when I turn 18!

January 21st, 2006, 10:53 PM
No... I've never had a crush on a girl that was actually my friend. I never knew a lot about girls I liked.

It'd be nice to have a best friend from the opposite sex, though.

January 21st, 2006, 11:38 PM
In both times that I paired up, I always happen to pair up with my very best friend, IRL and online all together... Shouldn't the one you love be someone who is like a best friend but only even better and have other qualities as well? Listening to you, helping you out, staying by your side... and many more.

January 22nd, 2006, 7:49 AM
Let's see... who hasn't had a crush on their best friend...

That happened to me in sixth grade though. I don't know if we were best frineds but we were pretty good friends and I told the guy I liked him at a dance and then he became an *** hole and a b1tch...

But that's just me...

you should do whatever your heart tells you to. If you can truly see you two together as a couple and getting all lovey dovey and cuddle-ish, then go for it. ^^" But be aware of what could happen afterwards as well...

~sc~ ^^ XD

January 22nd, 2006, 8:23 AM
Actualy, yeah. But it was a looong time ago, and its someone that goes on PC. I dont even know him personaly ^^'. BUT, he's paired now so what can you do?

January 22nd, 2006, 3:05 PM
No, I don't like girls now. I only talk to one that sits by me.

January 22nd, 2006, 5:01 PM
I met this girl in a class, we went on a field trip and she found out there thanks to my friends big mouth. We just became best friends but i stillhave some for her.

January 22nd, 2006, 7:03 PM
I once had a crush on my best friend, Heather, and we were girlfriend and boyfriend for a while...

then about 3 months later, on the phone, she broke up with me. I asked why, and she hung up... we haven't talked since; we no longer have any classes at school together this semester.

So, I say don't get hasty and be happy with what you have. I wish I had did that....

EDIT: I just read XiaolinDragon's post. the same thing happened to me before we we started dating, but with Heather's best friend. I told her, and she's sich a big mouth, she told the whole school, who then told Heather...

January 23rd, 2006, 9:46 PM
In both times that I paired up, I always happen to pair up with my very best friend, IRL and online all together... Shouldn't the one you love be someone who is like a best friend but only even better and have other qualities as well? Listening to you, helping you out, staying by your side... and many more.I agree your lover should come from your circle of friends, though I'd rather have a true friendship then a true love anyday....

January 23rd, 2006, 10:18 PM
I know my best friend had a crush on me for a while, because he told me last year. We've been good friends since year 9, and he's my closest friend IRL. We joke around a lot, and it doesn't mean much since all of my best friends are guys~ We're not as close as we used to be, though, because we all went off to different places when we finished school and I rarely see him now.

January 24th, 2006, 3:46 PM
None of my best friends are guys. Even if they are, all of my friends would never admit it, anyway. It's just morally wrong here~ No one talks about it that much. I don't know whether it's out of mere embarassment or sexism. o_O;

Arken Daemon
January 24th, 2006, 7:33 PM
Yes and it didn't work out at all because...... well I don't know yet she still hasn't told me..... well it did just happen Yesterday so I may or may not post back with the reason

January 28th, 2006, 7:27 AM
Yes,but I never confuess my feelings to them...I think I have one right now...but I'm confused if I really do like him!>.<