View Full Version : I Hate Being Jealous. :(
February 5th, 2006, 8:20 PM
I never want to be jealous again...today was a bad day all because I let it.(Yes, there is a story behind it)
I didn't realize I had feelings for this girl until it was too late...I once again missed my opportunity. The thing is I have never been this jealous in my entire life...and there was nothing I could do...as far as I knew she had broken up with her boyfreind and just like that, the day I could really show her that I liked her (her Birthday), her boyfreind came into work today and as far as I know they hung out for her entire break...
Is it bad that I am jealous...do I have a right to be? I feel depressed...:(
February 5th, 2006, 8:44 PM
Well, jealousy isn't bad. It's a feeling that people get. Just don't take it too far. I mean, if they did actually break up, you can rightfully go up to her and confess, the boyfriend wouldn't care. Because in most breakups, the two will remain friends.
Heck, who am I to say this. I've only ever got one b/f and he's choosing to ignore me now.
February 5th, 2006, 8:49 PM
I know what its like, cause I have been there myself...there is the saying the first break-up never takes...I haven't shown any jealousy I have kept it in...and will do so...if I went up to her and told her I feel...ahhh this sux...why is it so hard to express my feelings...
February 6th, 2006, 9:18 AM
I have been in almost the exact same position before...actually exactly the same except school not work.
February 6th, 2006, 11:05 AM
Aww...do you know if for sure they're back together?
February 6th, 2006, 11:29 AM
Well not a 100% sure...but why else would he come see her at work on her birthday and hang out with her for her entire break...normally I would just say how I feel but since we work together it would be very ackward if she didn't feel the same way.
February 6th, 2006, 11:35 AM
Aww well. People break and can still be friends. I know that I still try to be nice and friendly to my ex-girlfriends. Maybe that's what he's doing? You never know? Maybe you should ask during your break or at a time when it's not awkward? Or maybe you could be having a normal conversation with her and sneakily slide in a "oh is that guy your boyfriend?" or something like that XD.
February 6th, 2006, 11:39 AM
I have thought about it...you know asking if she got back together with her boyfreind, kind of like a freind would...I guess thats all I can be for now (a freind)...just wait it out, and hope for the best.
February 6th, 2006, 2:00 PM
Awww, well I think you should just tell her anyway, if she does like him, at least youll feel glad about you telling her, so if she doen'st feel the same way you can move on with your life.
(Is it just me or did I go in the entirly oposite direction from what this was about?)
February 6th, 2006, 3:49 PM
well, if your real jealous you must really like her, my only advice is that your time will come
February 6th, 2006, 6:59 PM
Your not the first lad. Your not the first.
Ya,i had many expireinces withthi sort of situation,and only time will heal that wound.
February 6th, 2006, 7:06 PM
Well I spoke out my feelings and am now so very happily and madly in love with the most amazing person in the world =]
I Want Your Skull
February 6th, 2006, 8:53 PM
Jealousy is normal...I like this someone, and someone else who likes me keeps reminding me of how jealous he is...it's interesting, but I dunno'...confusing at the same time.