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Yuoaman
July 8th, 2006, 07:22 PM
How do I talk to a girl I like, I really need help here, please!

donavannj
July 8th, 2006, 07:50 PM
I don't know... I guess just relax and be yourself... unless being yourself involves being ultra-rude and very perverted.

Timbjerr
July 8th, 2006, 09:13 PM
Get to know her on a casual level. Something as basic as noting that you run into her a lot during the day or as polite as saying that she looks good today will flatter her into conversation.

Females give off certain signs when they're interested, such as the seemingly subconcious playing of the hair, or a slightly different smile than her normal smile, etc.

so if you get to know her on a casual level, and then notice that she's giving off those signs, you can feel free to ask her for a date anytime.

Krafty Quill
July 9th, 2006, 02:56 AM
Wish I could help ya buddy but I just realised that I really suck when it comes to girls. :\

Want to dump me do they... >_>

Whiplash
July 9th, 2006, 03:18 AM
Dont start swearing and showing of just be yourself and dont go too hyper get to know eachother. Complament her in a nice way e.g Well done for getting 100% on that test we done.

Yuoaman
July 10th, 2006, 10:48 AM
I met her at camp, she and her friends hung out with me and my friends, because one of her friends was my friend's girlfriend. So; I already know her at a casual level, but I don't know how to tell her how I feel.....

ArKiVe
July 10th, 2006, 02:59 PM
These questions really shouldn't be discussed among the people here and it won't really help you out unless you actually did what they told you to do. Although you shouldn't have had to have them help you if you could do what they were going to tell you to do. I hope that makes sense. MY suggestion is to get to know her more on a personal level for a while until you are absolutely confident that you can bluntly state that you like her. It should show in your acts anyways. Ex. Being a gentleman. I couldn't help you if you can't talk to her at all.

bna_li
July 11th, 2006, 06:31 AM
What you should do, and lots of people do, and what I did, is just tell her. I know how it feels if you leave it inside, and everyday you wish you could tell her how you felt. Trust me, tell her. If she doesn't like you... do something that could make her change her mind...

Flame Demon
July 11th, 2006, 07:12 AM
Its a very perplexing feeling. Its not always that simple for some people.

pokemaster7
July 26th, 2006, 04:58 PM
You can't talk to a girl. they have a magical forcefeild that repells boys. :laugh: Listen to misty's song on www.pokemon.com

Krafty Quill
July 29th, 2006, 03:10 PM
They should really have a class in school for this. I can see the giant F on my report card already =\

For something that is destined to happen in a man's life at one time or another, learning how to talk to girls doesn't have nearly enough teachers, in my case anyway. So, you have to be your own teacher and learn through mistakes and experience, which I personally think is the most effective method of tution. It would also be good to learn from guys who have got it figured out already by watching them. There's no shame in asking them either, and if they are cool they will help you out.

Just be who you are and hope she will admire you for that.

Shaydeh
August 1st, 2006, 11:27 PM
Myesh, myesh, I see your problem young lad. The object of your affection is such a brutally attractive beast that she casts a flock of butterflies into your belly who intertwine in all sorts of aeronomic patterns until they fill up into your oesophagus and have you coughing out miniature wings into her face at which you tell her the wings are beating like your heart is for her. Either that or they get stuck in your larynx and limit your communication abilities.

Why else should we fear talking to other normal (I’m assuming she is normal) members of society? If all else fails, I recommend that you get a gun and stage a bank robbery, but remember to cross-dress before you do so, that way you will get thrown into a women’s prison and most probably acquire the experience you seek in these matters, myesh?

Kyosuke
August 1st, 2006, 11:58 PM
Okay honestly, I'm not trying to sound like a "ladies man" or anything but if your afraid to talk to her.. its because your thinking too much and you need to just go for it.. easier said then done I know, but seriously just relax ^^. If you still find it hard to, think of her like one of your friends in a sense and how easy it is to just talk to them about anything.. but you don't want to seem like your coming off too strong, because that way you'll most likely scare her away.. so just talk to her about something she did recently or something that has happened recently to get the conversation started and go from there and hopefully you'll be able to tell her how you feel.

*Difficult typing on a PSP, but I just had to ;;*

Shorty
August 2nd, 2006, 09:33 PM
Wow. We really do have a lot power over you boys. Girl Power! ^_^

Kylie-chan
August 2nd, 2006, 10:35 PM
Pretend she's a boy, except for in certain things. xD; i.e. my point -- ignore the fact she's a girl ^_^ Most girls are reasonable & we do stupid things, too, in front of others :333~ if they laugh at you [nastily] for all existence, then they aren't worth your companionship anyways >O

Krafty -- I know it's not face-to-face, but we talk o.o But I think I weird you out anyways xD; + you never get a chance to reply o.o~~~ by the way, talk to me again ;~;