Heartbreak

[CHaRiSMa]

Have you ever been heartbroken or have you ever broken someone's heart? Nothing of that happened to me and I also wish it never will.

[Auron]

Both. But now my love life is calm, I mean, nonexistant, so now I'm relaxed xD

[Suki]

Yeah, I have been heartbroken really bad and it just felt so horrible. The night I was heartbroken I couldn't be happy and I wanted to cry. My friend hugged me and stuff which helped but luckily I'm over it now.

I think I have broken someone's heart too and I felt a bit bad. I shouldn't have said what I said.

[Sorairo]

I have a system. I dont ask people out for fear thatthey might turn me down. I wait for the to ask me out. Then I dont get broken up with, I beat him to it, and break upwith him. So I've never gotten my heart broken cause I'm just that smart.

I know, I know that makes me sound like a bad person, but its considered smart in the school that I go to.

[22sa]

Er... of course. xD; I'm going to step out though because it's much heavier then the above posts........... ;o; O_o

[~*!*~Queen Boo~*!*~]

No I never had that happen to me before

:t354:~*!*~Queen Boo~*!*~

[Sorano]

Um, neither, really. I have broken up with someone before only because they turned out to be total jerks and they didn't really like me anyway, so I couldn't have broken their hearts. And I've turned some people down before but as far as I know they weren't completely heart broken. XD;

As for me being heart broken, that has yet to happen. I've been hurt but never really torn up over it. I have better things to do than get all torn up over a BOY. D;

[Forever]

I haven't.
Though, I've broken a mirror with a heart reflecting into it..yeps.

[Allelujah Haptism]

Nope. Nada. Not really.

Unless I did it unconciously. xDD Or maybe when some guy confessed to me in front of like, EVERYONE, and I was like, 'Oh my god, this guy is a twit' and I was like, "EW!"

... Yeah I probably broke his teeny puppy love heart, but I can't confirm that, so yeah. Probably not. xDD

[Reine Blair]

I haven't had my heart broken yet and I'm not looking forward to the day that I do. However, I have broken a guy's heart before and he cried in front of me too. If felt really bad, but it had to be done. =/

[Kogenta]

Ironically, I am currently listening to a song that includes the lyrics "Heartbreak, baby, is half the fun . . .".

In any case, my heart has not been broken. And, as far as I am aware, I have not broken another heart either.

[Lunux]

Neither and probably never will in the future, i'm just not that kind of person.

[Frostweaver]

Hm...


I guess that I belong to the first type, but not exactly (it's just that out of the 4 choices, that's the closest.) Though I've been ditched, I honestly think that it works out for the better when I think back about it... Things were going too fast and it is not overly catastrophic if things come to a cool before things go out of hand. XD; Plus, I learned a lot from that... felt miserable, but only for exactly 5 days, and that's very short compare to other "heartache" experience from stories... Technically a heartache, but relatively compare to others, not really? XD;

As for the other part, I *hope* that I didn't break anyone's heart? I didn't really couple up with anyone else, so I shouldn't be capable of breaking anyone's heart (nor have I rejected anyone, really), but who knows... Maybe I broke someone's heart unintentionally o.O;;;

[Abby]

Oh, how cute that I'd post immediately after my Martian friend. ♥ I suppose the second option would describe me.

I haven't had the best luck with relationships, and it's come to the point where I've decided to forego them indefinitely. Honestly, I'm much too free-spirited to deal with the dependancies that come with love. o_o; I like being able to do things my way, to act on my beliefs, and to not really have to restrain them arbitrarily. Besides, being single means I can always devote my time and resources to more awesome stuff like computers, video games, and other geeky stuff. 8D

[Yoshi_Master]

Nope, this has not happened to me and I hope it never happens to me. Besides, I don't think it'll ever happen, I'm not that type of person either.

[Frostweaver]

Oh, how un-cute that my Venusian friend had decided to post right after me. </3

(XD)

Either way, back to the topic at hand. I'm not surprised that there are so many people for the 4th choice. Afterall, many people in this forum are still young, and may not start relationships early. However, I'm more surprised that so many people are so sure that they'll always remain #4 that they'll never break someone's heart and will never be broken... especially never breaking someone's heart. I mean, the most random guy/girl can suddenly pop up and express the love, which you may reject because you are just not interested... and by doing that, you've broken someone's heart already o_O;

Really, it's pretty easy to do either one, and if not both of those... it's just so very difficult to start only one relationship, never get asked again, and this one relationship last to marriage and beyond~

[Ryoutarou]

Option 3 for me~

I've done some pretty stupid things in the past that I really regret now. Even though I found them to be too confining at times, I always liked being in relationships, not so much anymore though. When you find that you can never really live up to set expectations that people have of you, I guess it's a pretty good indication that those two people aren't really fit for one another. It's a pretty rare thing to find someone you never tire of and who you never see faults in and vice versa. Though there is someone I have a pretty big crush on, we almost never talk. I doubt anything would ever come of that. I don't want to be definite and say that I'd never want to be in a relationship again or I'd never give up on someone, after all, new experiences can vastly change a person's point of view over night. I'd just rather see where life takes me, which is generally how I've been viewing day to day life lately.

[Uiariamu_Shibu]

yea,see I took my hands,and just forced it through-

no,jk lol

but yea.both.I don't wanna bring back painful memos,so I'm not discussing...:P

[Ben Kenobi]

I've never been involved with that stuff, so it's never happened to me.

[Himawarii]

..I'm currently heartbroken to the point where..eh,I don't know, ._.;

I've never broken anyone's heart though <3 [as far as I know]

[Abby]

Oh, how un-cute that my Venusian friend had decided to post right after me. </3

(XD)

Either way, back to the topic at hand. I'm not surprised that there are so many people for the 4th choice. Afterall, many people in this forum are still young, and may not start relationships early. However, I'm more surprised that so many people are so sure that they'll always remain #4 that they'll never break someone's heart and will never be broken... especially never breaking someone's heart. I mean, the most random guy/girl can suddenly pop up and express the love, which you may reject because you are just not interested... and by doing that, you've broken someone's heart already o_O;

Really, it's pretty easy to do either one, and if not both of those... it's just so very difficult to start only one relationship, never get asked again, and this one relationship last to marriage and beyond~
I have a friend who at least is trying for that. He's been with his first girlfriend for several years now, and it certainly seems like they're going to get married. (He's about my age) He did have crushes who kind of broke his heart before, though, so you don't even have to initiate a relationship to break a heart or have yours broken, as you said.

[Lily]

Broken, yes. Broke, yes. Meh.

5 days? You were writing 10+ pages worth of solid emo-ness per PM, frosty. =x

[Frostweaver]

Broken, yes. Broke, yes. Meh.

5 days? You were writing 10+ pages worth of solid emo-ness per PM, frosty. =x

All of that accomplished in 5 days though =P

(Sept 27 4:00-ish - Oct 2 7:00-ish, to be exact)

Fine, 6 days including the Oct 2nd...
Those solid emo-ness PM is awesome. They're the most and only poetic stuff I've ever written in my life <3 I'm amazed at my metaphoric abilities which I can never reclaim again after that XD

As for Abby's comments, I think a *lot* of people always try to have their first relationship as the only one... the only other people who won't want that are those who want to have different relationships just to gain experience, sort of... to see what life is and what it has to offer; to see which sort of lifestyle or guy/girl to be with will work best for them.

[Goku Goku]

I haven't been heart-broken yet, nor have broken someone's heart. :\

[bubbleicious]

well lets see i've broken a few hearts got myne broke by the same guy many times...yeah the weird parts that i bounce back really fast and now the guy that broke my heart is wrapped around my finger lol.
having my heart broken made me stronger than i thought i was when it came to love,but thats just me.i hope i never break someone elses heart cause the guy i did it to turned out to be a really nice guy and i know that i really screwed it up...so yeah no more of hurting guys for me.

[Digital Mage]

I've never really had my heartbroken. Just been hurt, and exaggerated a bit. But I may have almost broken someone else's... Luckily, that hasn't lasted. And I hope it'll never return.

[Ayce]

Nope and nope, and nope for the future as well.

All eye candy thus far. I've fallen for no one. The most intimate contact I've had with a girl, is eye contact. My heart's not getting broken anytime soon. For me to break someone's heart, that person would actually have to at least like me ... I'm not breaking anyone's heart anytime soon.

[Fitzgeraldo]

My heart has been shattered, but, as far as I know, I haven't broken anyone's. 'Cause no one would ever like me in that way. ;3

[Lt. Surge's Raichu]

I'v broken somebody's heart, but never been heartbroken....

[Nagori]

I'm not so sure I've broken someone's heart, but my heart has been heartbroken. o_O;

I'm all "OMG I KNOW ISN'T HE SO CUTE 8D" And then the next day after he turns me down I'm like "OMG I HATE HIM OMG DDDD: HE MADE ME EMO."

..Yeah. </3~ xD

[_Prince_]

Heartbroken? lol, no, never, I get over with things quickly so it never really hurts me.