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CHaRiSMa
March 28th, 2007, 01:45 PM
Will you ever marry? Or should I say do you wish to meet the special person (or if you have already found one) and get married to him/her or do you just want some day to live with him/her?
Personally I want to get married. It's kinda a romantic act for me. Not in the meaning like I would want a guy to marry me so in that way he won't betray me.. coz frankly that can happen either you are married or not. So what marriage means to me.. is more like a symbol of love than anything else. But I do not plan to marry in a church coz I'm not religious.. not unless I met a guy who would be.. than I would also have a church marriage.
Auron
March 28th, 2007, 01:58 PM
I dunno what to do. This is one of the things I most fear.
I...can't be tied to anyone.
22sa
March 28th, 2007, 02:30 PM
Yeah. xD; It is truly pointless for someone like me to have a lonely destiny, despite being a genuine loner. =x
Suki
March 28th, 2007, 03:28 PM
I'd love to be married to someone when I'm older. We all need that special someone to be with.
Sakuya
March 28th, 2007, 03:35 PM
I'm agreed with ^. I think that we should all have someone that we care deeply about and want to be with for the rest of our lives. :3
Lt. Surge's Raichu
March 28th, 2007, 04:28 PM
I'm getting married, i feel sorry for those who doesn't....
Spaekle Oddberry
March 28th, 2007, 11:08 PM
lol @ commitment.
No. I'm not getting married. :3
Forever
March 28th, 2007, 11:31 PM
I might, though if they try and take my internet I'd get a divorce straight away~
I would need everything the same, but maybe not because, why bother and live together for all your lives, or get married and lose a friendship.
Uiariamu_Shibu
March 29th, 2007, 12:16 AM
yea,I wil...I mean,I'm gonna enjoy the singleness until the age of.....25-27?....then get married.
Miyu-chan
March 29th, 2007, 12:27 AM
I'd love to be eventually, if I find someone whom I'll be willing to spend the rest of my life with, haha.
Absolitude
March 29th, 2007, 12:42 AM
I'll probably never marry. I hate commitment, and the path that i want will not be very permitting to have a long meaningful relationship. Plus if become rich they'll only want me for my cash, and i don't want that.
Sana
March 29th, 2007, 03:25 AM
I'm getting married, i feel sorry for those who doesn't....
Why? They might be happier single than married. :/
Personally, I'd like to, but we'll see what happens. I don't know, I could see myself still single at thirty. But then again, so much can change in thirteen years. o_o;
Kayleigh
March 29th, 2007, 03:34 AM
I'd love to, as long as I was convinced that I was with the right person. I'm against divorce in most cases (unless there was abuse or something like that in the relationship), so he'd have to be someone that I'd want to be with for the rest of my life. XD That's why I always try to take things slowly.
But anyway, aside from that, I think marriage is wonderful. I'm really looking forward to it once I get older! :3
Kogenta
March 29th, 2007, 06:45 AM
"I think marriage is a fine institution. I just don't think I'm ready for the institution yet."
^-^;; Eheh . . . Seriously, though? At the moment, I do not plan to get married. I enjoy solitude and dislike people's extended presence too much. Plans and opinions are subject to change, but that is what I currently believe.
Astinus
March 29th, 2007, 06:54 AM
I've known for a long time that I don't want to be married. I enjoy my freedom and the chance to do what I want without having to consider other people's opinions. And if I was tied down to a husband, I wouldn't be able to hit the open road. Perhaps if I'm older (than 20?! o.O ), then my plans might change. Right now, I don't see any changes happening in my life.
bubbleicious
March 29th, 2007, 07:59 AM
well i really want to as long as its the right guy 4 me.marrying for love is the best reason for marriage but its kinda dumb to marry some one and then divorce them one year later because you just don't like them anymore.marriage to me is a very important thing and you have to be sure about who you marry or you'll regret it sooner or later.
Cowrie
March 29th, 2007, 02:31 PM
I plan on getting married sometime soon enough, hopefully within the next few years. I already have someone with whom I wouldn't mind spending my life, but there are certain things that need to be done first...such as finishing up with school (soon, hopefully, soon!).
Ben Kenobi
March 29th, 2007, 04:42 PM
Probably will, though I don't see myself geting married for quite a while yet.
Razer302
March 29th, 2007, 04:51 PM
I will probably get married when i am older but i dont want to think about that much at the minute i got other more impotant things to do.
Lunux
March 29th, 2007, 04:53 PM
I want to get married but i won't because no one would want to marry me. it's sad :(
Auron
March 29th, 2007, 05:09 PM
Nah, nobody likes me...xD So don't worry.
The best thing isn't feeling sorry because of your singleness. You have to enjoy your life now, and those things will come when they have to !! So be patient ;)
Digital Mage
March 29th, 2007, 06:19 PM
If the person I'm with wants to get married, I will, happily. But otherwise I'm content to just spend forever with them. I'm not sure I like the actual process of marriage. If I was to, then it'd be much more comfortable to just.. Be married. Without the wedding service. It'd make me horribly anxious.
Goku Goku
March 29th, 2007, 08:58 PM
Depends if I choose to get married. It'd be nice to share your moments with that special someone, and have children to love and care for, but being single does have it's advantages: you can flirt and perve as much as you can! XD To an extent of course, because going beyond that could ruin your life, and you may just end up having to be married in an unloving relationship, and when I get married, it must definitely be marital bliss. However, I'm not planning to get married until at least into my 30s, because then I can spend my time enjoying life single, and perhaps have the chance to date people, to maybe find the right one. ;D
Sorairo
March 29th, 2007, 09:02 PM
At some point. Not till Im like 20 something though.
Aegis
March 29th, 2007, 11:13 PM
Yeah, only if I'm truly happy with them. I can't imagine being alone for the rest of my life.
.Bastion
March 30th, 2007, 12:04 AM
I'm going to need alot of time between now and the time I get married. I do wanna get married, but not until the very distant future. I need to think things through instead of rushing into a marriage I can't commit to. I also need to be sure I find the perfect person for me first.
Cex
March 30th, 2007, 01:14 AM
I haven't thought about marriage a lot. The only time it comes to my mind is if I get a girlfriend, and obviously I know her a lot, but I haven't discussed marriage with her, so I wouldn't know if she's the type of girl that plans our marriage from day 1 (face it, you girls are out there somewhere), or is just as far-away from marriage at her current age as I am.
Since I'm not a fantasy guy, I know high-school relationships will not last. So any talk about marriage from a girlfriend of mine is far too extreme for me, and I wouldn't break up with her just for mentioning it, but if it becomes repetitive, I'll get freaked out and end it there.
Although, I don't want to bash marriage, as I do plan on getting married during my lifetime. Just not at my age now... I'm still an adolescent you know.
Yep, those are my thoughts on marriage.
Nayuri
March 30th, 2007, 03:20 AM
I would love to be married one day. I hope to find the right person, of course. I would like to be with someone who shares some of my interests and is funny and really social, much like myself. I don't expect him to be like, "WHOA HYPER OMG OMG *bounces around*" or anything - that's what I'm here for. XD Just as long as they're fun and active and stuff, I'm good. :D
~Kelsey
Ayce
March 30th, 2007, 10:43 AM
That's way too much thinking ahead for me to bare. I've been desperate and dateless since the day I was born. I've never been attached to anyone since my umbilical cord was snapped. I couldn't find a date if you gave me a calender.
Marriage, pfft, yeah right.
Lily
April 1st, 2007, 06:55 AM
Marriage? You mean the whole funky ceremony where you essentially pledge your life to one person and have to tolerate him/her until you die?
No, thanks.
Frostweaver
April 1st, 2007, 08:26 AM
Marriage? You mean the whole funky ceremony where you essentially pledge your life to one person and have to tolerate him/her until you die?
No, thanks.
LIE DETECTOR : BEEP, BEEP, BEEP, BEEP, BEEP
Lily
April 1st, 2007, 03:37 PM
LIE DETECTOR : BEEP, BEEP, BEEP, BEEP, BEEP
IThere's a difference between marrying for a) a game, and b) life. =_=
Ryuuji
April 1st, 2007, 05:53 PM
marriage well i think girls want them because its romantic and stuff
but i'm still too young to think about it
well in my opinion marriage is for the weak hearted because you dont want to stay single forever
*i'm so cruel*
but i still want to be engaged to someone though
Starfish Prime
April 1st, 2007, 08:06 PM
I don't know if I could deal with having someone there for me all the time. It'd keep me in check a lot better, I guess, but...
I could never ask a girl to marry me.
If I do make it in what I want to do, music, I'd never be home...and it's not like there's a girl out there just jumping at the thought of never truly having a home.
I couldn't live with myself knowing I ruined someone's life like that.
J
April 2nd, 2007, 11:01 AM
I'd like to get married before I get all rich and famous and stuff. 8)~~~. I wouldn't want to live alone/with my parents for the rest of my life. D:
_Prince_
April 2nd, 2007, 02:30 PM
Yeah probably when I'm a bit older, ready and met the right girl. I don't know yet. we'll see.
~*!*~Queen Boo~*!*~
April 2nd, 2007, 04:54 PM
I'm not sure if I want to get married yet, probably after I get settled meaning getting a Master's degree
:t354:~*!*~Queen Boo~*!*~
Sorano
April 2nd, 2007, 07:38 PM
I'd like to eventually, but only if I'm sure that I found the right person for me. Of course, this would also be after I finish college, etc. :x
Signomi
April 2nd, 2007, 09:59 PM
I don't think about marriage much nowadays; but when I was younger I always feared the possibility of being alone in my life. Not a pleasant thought. I thought of marriage as a blessing from God to be brought onto two people who seemed destined to be together. Being older and more wiser, I have my doubts about a life long companionship. Will I be able to tolerate one person for the remainder of my days? And how would I know if this particular person out of the bunch is ideally for me?
It certainly is something to think about.
deathbyalice
April 2nd, 2007, 10:04 PM
Maybe eventually, if it feels right. You never know until you meet that special person I guess..