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Hey, don't I know you?

Posted February 15th, 2013 at 09:42 PM by Vintage Arachnid

It's weird, there are people on PC that I know from previous forums that we used to go on. We used to be friends, like, really good friends but now it's weird because I want to say something to them but ya know you can't just rekindle friendships from where they left off. It's been awhile since we've spoken but I'm sure they would remember me, I mean, let's face it I'm unforgettable. If you knew me you'd know I'm a very curious individual and I always wonder how people's life go even when I'm not in them anymore. We were friends, we shared laughs and with some of them I actually fought with but then we just ceased talking. They probably don't recognize me with this username because, well, I changed it (when we could still name change of course) after we stopped talking. Some of them have changed and I'm not talking for the better, they're waaay different than how they were when I knew them. Some of them are staff, regular members, and even supporters. I like seeing them around, it's good to know they're alive at least.

I do this in real life as well because there are plenty of people that I've had friendships with that I now walk passed like they don't even matter. It's crazy, like in High School I dropped a lot of my "best friends" because we honestly didn't get along anymore and I'm very blunt with my feelings. I'm still curious as to how their life is going... is that weird? Also, I'm in University and moved away from all my High School friends. We barely talk and sometimes they tweet me saying how much they miss me or write on my Facebook wall. I guess this is just a painful part of growing up, you lose friends. I just want to be friends with everyone still. My group of friends promised each other that we wouldn't lose touch with each other and we slowly are. I only keep in contact with one of them because they go to the same Uni as me so it's easy. I just always imagined my friends with me all the way throughout my life but I'm gradually realize that's a foolish idea because I know I won't stay where I'm at forever and neither will they. I just don't want them to forget about me or me to forget about them because they meant so much to me, still do. It's just hard keeping in contact when you all live in different areas and go to different Universities.
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  1. Old Comment
    Kura's Avatar
    You could always start by just saying hi. You'll be surprised how many people appreciate a nice catch-up.

    As far as irl or online goes, if someone mistreats you, even if they were a good friend, they aren't a good friend anymore, sadly, and not worth your time no matter how much they say they miss you- sometimes it's just for appearance's sake. :c Though that's just me; you're welcome to give them another chance.
    Sometimes people do also just drift, but it's natural- though if you make an effort you can find it's pretty easy to become close again. Sometimes friendships never leave you, even if you don't talk that much.
    Posted February 16th, 2013 at 08:10 AM by Kura Kura is offline
  2. Old Comment
    Kura's Avatar
    You could always start by just saying hi. You'll be surprised how many people appreciate a nice catch-up.

    As far as irl or online goes, if someone mistreats you, even if they were a good friend, they aren't a good friend anymore, sadly, and not worth your time no matter how much they say they miss you- sometimes it's just for appearance's sake. :c Though that's just me; you're welcome to give them another chance.
    Sometimes people do also just drift, but it's natural- though if you make an effort you can find it's pretty easy to become close again. Sometimes friendships never leave you, even if you don't talk that much.
    Posted February 16th, 2013 at 08:10 AM by Kura Kura is offline
 

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