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    eleven years

    Happy PC-versary! :3
    Posted July 14th, 2015 at 12:05 AM by Kura Kura is offline
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    eleven years

    commitment o:
    Posted July 13th, 2015 at 11:05 AM by Mana Mana is online now
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    Anna Life: Relationships

    Quote:
    Originally Posted by Aquacorde View Comment
    I mean? Iit's not that she was a nasty person just to me. She was rude to all of us. And Ian and I have been friends long before she was ever around? He is extremely loyal and dedicated to whoever he is with and all of his relationships not just romantic. So it's like... she should have trusted him and not tried to destroy the bffs relationship he and I had. Thats some nasty muk. She also could have tried to get along with literally any if his friends but she didnt. The problem was way beyond just her being mysteriously insecure about him being friends with me.

    Like I said Kura, i didnt give a psyduck about beinng her friend. I cared about her destroying the relationship I had with my best friend, and her pulling him away from his other friends. Because I care about him in any capacity and that is not good in a relationship.
    That's fair enough, I'm just saying that there's two sides to every penny and I don't think you've actually considered her side. You're fine to disagree but when you say "well I dunno why she feels that way!?" I'm telling you that when I see her perspective, I actually see legitimate reasons. Even if they are reasons sparked by her own insecurities. You have a history of being a very trusting person and giving people the benefit of the doubt, but not everyone is like that and a lot of people rightfully hold onto skepticism, especially if they've been hurt in the past.
    I don't know if you've ever confronted her and actually told her that you thought her actions were rude, but perhaps in her eyes, she was acting normally. If you did tell her, then it's great that you were vocal about it- and I believe that you would be vocal about it in a mature way (as that's the vibe I get from you.) But even still, she might have not thought that that was the case either.
    I don't think "that's some nasty muk" at all. Some people want more attention from their partners in a relationship and want to be their partner's world. If that's what she wants in her relationship- whether YOU think it's healthy or not doesn't matter. It's for her and her current boyfriend to decide. And it was something that, at the time, Ian would've needed to make a personal decision about. If your now-boyfriend didn't feel like he could give that to her, then it wasn't meant to be. I realize I don't know the full situation, but perhaps you should also consider that you might be a bit biased because you don't see eye to eye with her and made assumptions based on her behaviour. I'm also not saying you are completely wrong- she could've indeed done some nasty deliberate stuff.. I'm just saying that I do see her point of view with how you've described it. To be fair, she probably doesnt even need a mention now, since she seems to be completely removed from your current life.
    Posted June 17th, 2015 at 02:55 PM by Kura Kura is offline
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    Anna Life: Relationships

    they my bros they know whats going on ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
    Posted June 15th, 2015 at 05:35 PM by Aquacorde Aquacorde is offline
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    Anna Life: Relationships

    am I the only one kind of weirded out because their pictures were posted...
    Posted June 15th, 2015 at 01:46 PM by Ayselipera Ayselipera is offline
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    Anna Life: Relationships

    I mean? Iit's not that she was a nasty person just to me. She was rude to all of us. And Ian and I have been friends long before she was ever around? He is extremely loyal and dedicated to whoever he is with and all of his relationships not just romantic. So it's like... she should have trusted him and not tried to destroy the bffs relationship he and I had. Thats some nasty muk. She also could have tried to get along with literally any if his friends but she didnt. The problem was way beyond just her being mysteriously insecure about him being friends with me.

    Like I said Kura, i didnt give a psyduck about beinng her friend. I cared about her destroying the relationship I had with my best friend, and her pulling him away from his other friends. Because I care about him in any capacity and that is not good in a relationship.
    Posted June 14th, 2015 at 07:58 PM by Aquacorde Aquacorde is offline
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    Anna Life: Relationships

    So? She doesn't sound like a nasty person. She just didn't like you. What's the big deal? If she doesn't like you and she felt uncomfortable when you were mentioned, I don't see why that's necessarily a problem. Maybe it was her own insecurity over the situation, but she's still not obligated to be your friend. She's moved on anyway so I guess there's not even any point dwelling on it. However, even if there "wasn't anything going on" at the time, she may have been receptive to subconscious vibes. I still don't blame her for her thoughts or actions seeing as you were his ex after all.
    Posted June 14th, 2015 at 03:08 PM by Kura Kura is offline
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    Anna Life: Relationships

    I think insecurity can hit anybody no matter how accomplished they are. In fact, perhaps the fact that Ian takes an interest in you despite you not being super educated (compared to her apparently) as well as speaking five languages is what freaked her out. Like from her perspective: what is her (your) secret sauce, right?
    Posted June 14th, 2015 at 07:41 AM by Kanzler Kanzler is offline
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    Anna Life: Relationships

    But like. There was nothing while they were together? I was crushing on or with Caleb that whole time. And it wasn't just me that she never made an effort with- she didn't try with any of the home crew. She was perfectly fine with me when we first met and then just decided like three months later that she hated me or something. He never chose me over her and always put her first above anyone and she still? Didn't see that? idfk. Like I said I never cared if she liked me or not; I would have been perfectly content to ignore her existence like she tried to ignore mine. But she went out of her way to make a problem?

    As for parents they never really approved of us together? His mom blames me for a few of his lower grades in senior year and while they like me, I'm not exactly worth anything. They think their son could do better, probably. Sonja was you know, educated and spoke like five languages and was better than me in every way. Which is another reason why it's a mystery why she would feel at all insecure in their relationship. :/ And the fact that we're living together and sharing a room and obviously doin' the do is probs not going to sit well with them.

    My life is psyduckin weird and I don't know how it happened ahaha. Thank you :3
    Posted June 13th, 2015 at 06:03 PM by Aquacorde Aquacorde is offline
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    Anna Life: Relationships

    Dude, I honestly don't blame Sonja's attitude at all. She's not stupid and she knows there was something going on between the both of you even when there "physically" wasn't. I would feel the same way if I were her and I'm actually glad for her that she's out of that whole ordeal now. And honestly? She's not obligated to like you, and she obviously was uncomfortable with your relationship with him and for good reason- you guys ended up together. So yeah, there was something underlying there and I'd feel the same way if I were her.
    Sounds like a soap opera lol.. but I don't know why his parents would flip out if you're a nice girl and he's happy, though. Seems unnecessary to have that reaction unless the reaction is due to you guys hiding it from them..

    This whole thing sounds unneedingly complicated, but like I said, as long as you're happy and it works then I wish you guys all the best!!
    Posted June 13th, 2015 at 03:10 PM by Kura Kura is offline
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    Anna Life: Cast Index

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    Originally Posted by Kura View Comment
    You're looking good!
    Holycrap though I wouldn't be able to handle your household. I like my space and peace and quiet. I think you guys would drive me insane, haha! I'm glad you're having fun though :3 it's nice to see and hear!
    Thank you! :D

    Yeah, there are times when I just have to shut myself away or chill at my mom's for a while but for the most part we all have adapted to chaos and are settling in pretty well~
    Posted June 13th, 2015 at 12:02 PM by Aquacorde Aquacorde is offline
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    Anna Life: Cast Index

    You're looking good!
    Holycrap though I wouldn't be able to handle your household. I like my space and peace and quiet. I think you guys would drive me insane, haha! I'm glad you're having fun though :3 it's nice to see and hear!
    Posted June 12th, 2015 at 01:38 PM by Kura Kura is offline
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    Anna Life: Quick Overview

    austin bb hiiii i love youu
    Posted June 11th, 2015 at 01:46 PM by Aquacorde Aquacorde is offline
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    Anna Life: Quick Overview

    so so so busy ;__;

    But I'm glad you're back anna, we all missed you!
    Posted June 11th, 2015 at 12:35 PM by Jupiter Jupiter is offline
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    Posted June 11th, 2015 at 09:37 AM by Aquacorde Aquacorde is offline
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    Anna Life: Quick Overview

    Your life sounds hectic as psyduck
    Posted June 11th, 2015 at 09:20 AM by Nah Nah is offline
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    I'm A Housewife

    thank youu :D
    Posted April 21st, 2015 at 08:19 PM by Aquacorde Aquacorde is offline
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    I'm A Housewife

    This is really awesome to hear, hope everything works out for you!
    Posted April 21st, 2015 at 12:25 AM by curiousnathan curiousnathan is offline
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    I'm A Housewife

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    Originally Posted by El Héroe Oscuro View Comment
    Can you make all your blog entries with those pictures? It's really cute!
    I'm planning on it! the main problem for me is actually having somewhat interesting things to say haha.
    Posted April 19th, 2015 at 09:12 AM by Aquacorde Aquacorde is offline
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    I'm A Housewife

    Can you make all your blog entries with those pictures? It's really cute!
    Posted April 19th, 2015 at 12:19 AM by Shovel Knight Shovel Knight is online now

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