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As I mentioned in a previous blog, I stated a not-so-good year (2012) and that I had wanted a new fresh start in 2013. I know that it won't all happen itself, I am the main cause of what will happen to me in 2013, mostly.

I wanted to raise the question; what will make me a better person? What sort of things do I do wrong? I really would like to know how I can improve, how I can become less of a pain amongst the community.

I see a lot of people who are liked around the community, and I honestly look up to them and ask myself; what can I do to become as likeable? Anyway, I know I can't make people suddenly like me, and that I won't be able to please everyone, but I want to make progress here and I think this is a good way to do it.
 
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Forget about the past and look only forward. Get the mental strength (and physical) to endure a tough situation. Be tough on yourself and nice to others.

Also, this is what I feel, but don't look up to anyone. It's nice, but in the end I feel like it's best to become your own person to look up to yourself. You're asking "how can I get people to like me"? No, don't ask yourself that, NEVER ask yourself that. A better question would be "how can I be able to be responsible of myself?" or "how can I start to manage myself?"

Focus on being comfortable with yourself first, learn from your mistakes, be tough, be confident, always look forward, and never ever try to become someone else or get people to like you. The key to becoming a better person is by depending on yourself, not others.


Of course if you're just focusing on a happier time, just look forward really. What's done is done, and if anything happens don't cry over it. Just be...bright about everything and hope for the best.
 

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In my opinion, forum popularity is really overrated. However, if you want to know how the well-liked people do it then... why not PM them and ask them?
 
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