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August 27th, 2012 09:24 AMFuyucool
August 27th, 2012 09:22 AMShaymieTheShayminRight now, I'm working on learning the lyrics to Extra Ordinary by Lucy Hale.
August 27th, 2012 09:18 AMFuyuThat's right!
Yeah it doesn't always work, but it isn't going to. What counts is that you tried and occasionally it does.
August 27th, 2012 09:13 AMShaymieTheShayminI just have to persevere. And believe in myself.
It's hard to get them to feel anything. It worked, like one time in P.E. The other girls were messing with me, and I yelled at them. I told them that I have feelings too. That is how I became friends with Ariel and a bunch of other people.
Yeah. That's how I became friends with Faith. and Genesis. I never told you about her, but she was nice.
Those people do deserve it. A lot.
August 27th, 2012 09:01 AMFuyuIt takes lots of tries.
The trick with it is to be friendly enough that it's genuine and tricky enough to make them feel absolutely horrible for being mean to you. It is hard, won't lie.
You can't be friends with everybody, but you can try with most people.
I used to... but those people usually end up deserving it.
No problem. I like helping people.
August 27th, 2012 08:57 AMShaymieTheShayminHm.... I guess that could work.
One time I tried to be nice to someone that I didn't like, I got slapped in the face and basically abused. But then I tried again, and it kind of worked. I heard what that boy was saying about me behind my back, though and I tried to ignore it. It;s hard, though.
I've done that a lot... sometimes it scares people away, but other times I make new friends.
I've kind of accepted myself a while ago... I just feel sorry for the people who have had to experience my violent side...
OMG, thank you, Fu-chan! You're someone who I can always count on for advice!
August 27th, 2012 08:30 AMFuyuHmm... it's different to everybody. The first thing is stating that sort of thing as fact. Because somebody believes something is a certain way, it tends to make that more possible. If you believe that you can be noticed more and remembered more, you start to feel that way and people can sense it. It's like with bullying. If all anyone sees you as is the one who gets picked on and beat up, they'll forget you're anything else and you'll feel the same way because you won't have the courage to fight back.
Something else to do is be nice to the people you don't like. It's the ultimate kick in the pants. Don't take their guff but turn it back and be ultra friendly. They have no clue what to make of it.
I'd also try to focus on things that make you stand out. People remember what sticks out in their heads. So use those traits of yours and think of more zany ways to show them off while still being who you are.
Bu also accept yourself. I'm not saying: accept that you're forgettable 'cause that's an impression. Accept that you like books and video games, accept that you're weird, accept that there is a violent side to you and kinda hint at it. Then RUN WITH IT. Cause that's you and if you don't like you and think you're forgettable, everyone will get the vibe.
That's kinda how I had to do it. Though I'll admit it takes time and sometimes you don't even notice the changes. And sometimes you don't feel like you made progress at all. But that's what makes it worth it... when you realize you did.
August 27th, 2012 08:21 AMShaymieTheShayminHow do I change it?
August 27th, 2012 08:19 AMFuyuWell, why don't you try and change it?
August 27th, 2012 08:09 AMShaymieTheShayminI am positive. I'm just stating the truth.
August 27th, 2012 08:07 AMFuyuWell if you say stuff like that then you definitely are. Gotta be more positive.
August 27th, 2012 07:48 AMShaymieTheShayminI'm the kind of person that people can forget about, though.
August 27th, 2012 07:45 AMFuyuDoubt they would.
August 27th, 2012 07:36 AMShaymieTheShayminI hope they didn't forget about me.
August 27th, 2012 07:32 AMFuyuI get that.
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