Thanks so much for your sympathy and imput. It really means a lot. Unfortunately my Grandpa has gone to a better place now...it's been a month, maybe two, I don't even know anymore. I miss him dearly. Your thoughts meant a lot.
I am very sorry to hear about your granddad, I know it can be difficult when someone you care about is ill, I am not at all religious but I hope that it helps you to know that I am at least thinking of your granddad.