I prefer using VMs for an opposite reason; my inbox filled too quickly and I have to delete those messages, while using VMs you can easily review a conversation history and not have to delete anything (barring messages deleted from a user's page, thus causing a blip in the conversation). You always get alerted to VMs on-site, even if not by e-mail. I'll try looking through the settings for an answer, but if I don't say anything about it, it means I have no answer.
Well, are there any other items you are seeking? I don't mind so much hatching it, and can attach an item if you need it. I can't guarantee it will be a female starter, however; after all, I once hatched 18 Charmanders before that last one ended up female. Which starter should I go for?
Also, I happoen to have a couple of starters kicking around without having to breed. Let me know which ones you want and I'll check that before I breed any.
I read your request again. Tip on the Magmarizer; if you save next to the Treasure guy on Route 13, he will eventually hand one to you if you ask him over and over. This applies for Black/White only. Took me half an hour once, but I eventually got something I wanted from him.
In B2/W2, an Ace Trainer is in that spot and gives you Flutes instead, which can be taken to Undella Town and sold to a maniac for several thousand PD each. Here, the Magmarizer can only be found in B2 on the Plasma Frigate, and not in W2 anywhere. I have W2 also. The reason this item exclusivity happens is because Magmar's line is B2-only, and Electabuzz's line is W2-only (so it's the Electrizer instead).
If you have W2, what I can do is clone the Magmarizer I have from Black using a clone Pokémon code (it will hold the item, which I can then retrieve). I can then attach it to a Pokémon (perhaps a III/IV starter, though if I breed one I'd have to hatch it first). This is exactly how I'm going to get my own Magmarizer in W2 as I have a Magmar standing by.
I'll get back to you on the other half of the trade before trading. I have to figure out what I could use.