How old are you? 12, 13? I had my first girlfriend at 12 years old, haha. She broke up like a month later because we didn't really do much as a couple and she found it better when we were just friends x)
And being an adult really depends on you
I'm still living with my parents but I'm moving out next year when I get a job as a Mechanic and not a mechanic's aid anymore. And having a job could be either really fun or boring. Since I love graffiti and cars, my jobs weren't really considered as work for me, they were considered as having fun while getting payed
Confucius said it best 'Choose a job you love, and you will never have to work a day in your life.'