Nica, how long have we known each other? Since what, 2005? 2006?
I've seen you "transition" (for lack of a better word) to many different phases. You and your clique with Malyka and Jess, and always starting MSN group convos literally just on a whim, and from that girl that posts 10 blogs a day to reporting every single thread in the b/w section and eventually modding it, to starting off on smogon and finding a place in The Smog and then being that girl that would lead mentorship. I won't go into personal life details because I'm respectful of that (even though you are somewhat open with it, but I digress), but throughout your life, you've gone through a lot to get to the point that you are currently, that much anyone who has ever spoken to you knows.
However, realize that, even though yes, you have encountered numerous obstacles throughout your life that sometimes may cause you grief or despair, realize that other people are doing the same with theirs. I feel happy for you that you're going places, that you've met so many people on the internet that are friends of yours and are finally, after so many years, making your dreams (I hope?) a reality. However, that is no excuse to act patronizing on someone else's blog, which is the primary reason why I had your post deleted.
I did not ask for any sort of real life advice in my blog whatsoever, concerning my social skills or my friend circle or whichever you wish to call it. What you did was rather rude and unnecessary and to a degree, rather judgmental, presumptuous, and not to mention "uppity". Yes, I have IRL friends, and I have an IRL best friend that I do my best to speak with once every few days or so, even if I haven't seen him for 4 psyducking years. My other best friend? I haven't seen him since I graduated high school.
I made new friends at work, I got references, and during my jobs, I've made really good contacts and I've made good memories. That's all I can ever ask for in a job, even if they weren't the best fit for me. However, it is disrespectful of you to post a comment like that in my blog when you have no idea what my life is like (considering how very closed up I am regarding it, I find it rather surprising you would make a comment like that to begin with), so I'd appreciate it if you would at least have a bit more sensitivity, tact, and consideration, and I urge you to please think before posting something of that nature to a blog which isnt asking for IRL advice. That kind of stuff can borderline on hurtful, because it's insinuating that I have no social life and no friends in the slightest.
This was a rather lengthy explanation and I really apologize for that, but I really wanted to get this out of my chest. Thanks for reading.
StarryWindy: I wonder why my feelings now...
@glitchguy: damn my team suks
StarryWindy: perhaps that was just me...
~skylight: you should write a book.
~skylight: "the tragedy that is windy's life."
StarryWindy: what kind of book?
~skylight: so y/y
StarryWindy: I was just... wondering why now.
~skylight: ...keep going, we have to reach the conclusion!
%Aurora: My Emotions Are Carried By The Wind
StarryWindy: Speaking of Wind in novels...
StarryWindy: I wonder why I'm reminded of a certain phrase called...
StarryWindy: "Gone with the Wind."
~skylight: why... windy?
~skylight: is it a... good... phrase...
~skylight: i looked up to the sky...
~skylight: i found nothing...
~skylight: except... the wind...
~skylight: it was... windy...
~skylight: i felt...
~skylight: a chill...
~skylight: it was chilling...
@glitchguy: then you saw a light...
Dter ic joined
Dter ic: But you refuse to go there.
~skylight: *go there...
~skylight: i just...
~skylight: didn't know...
~skylight: what to do...
~skylight: windy i wrote your story
~skylight: hope you enjoyed!!!
[15:39:13] ☆ <+sleeping> what name does skylight use there
[15:39:18] ☆ <Honus> maybe it was the same essay
[15:39:19] ☆ <Honus> justinrpg
[15:39:20] ☆ <Honus> is her un
[15:39:23] ☆ <+skylight> no
[15:39:25] ☆ <+skylight> that is not
[15:39:28] ☆ <+skylight> ihu karp
[15:39:30] ☆ <+skylight> lol
[15:39:36] ☆ <+skylight> i said my username up there if you read cbt :(
[15:39:42] ☆ <Honus> but im in honors english and AP history
[15:39:46] ☆ <Honus> so its expected i suppose
[15:39:48] ☆ <Honus> essays :|
[15:40:07] ☆ <serrah> english honors is stupid easy
[15:40:53] ☆ <+skylight> what if vrai was my age
[15:40:57] ☆ <serrah> ugh school
[15:41:25] ☆ <+sleeping> my guess
[15:41:30] ☆ <+sleeping> is twilight sky
[15:41:34] ☆ <+skylight> ...no
[15:41:36] ☆ <+skylight> lol
[15:41:45] ☆ <+sleeping> forever
[15:41:47] ☆ <+skylight> y
[15:41:57] ☆ <+skylight> why would i be twilight sky :(
[15:42:05] ☆ <serrah> "sky"
[15:42:13] ☆ <+skylight> oh
[15:42:14] ☆ <+skylight> right
[15:42:15] ☆ <+skylight> lol
[15:42:26] ☆ <+sleeping> it has sky light
[15:42:33] ☆ <+skylight> i never noticed
[15:42:34] ☆ <+skylight> !