Meh, I think when we go through a situation like that you shouldn't feel bad for turning it to you. I mean a lot of people do that (I've know I've done it) and that's kinda what we're there for, support. We need to know what's wrong in order to support ya so telling us isn't being self-centered! :)
Hey, I saw your post in the RC before you deleted it. And I just wanted to let you know that I'm always here if you need or want to talk. It's unfortunate that this had to happen to you and I know how (we all do in the RC) it feels to have someone defriend you for an insane reason like that. Keep your head up.