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  1. Patchisou Yutohru
    September 24th, 2011 12:33 PM
    Patchisou Yutohru
    But how?

  2. Patchisou Yutohru
    September 24th, 2011 07:29 AM
    Patchisou Yutohru
    You know, I was taking a shower earlier today (It's where I do a lot of my eureka moment thinking!) and thinking about some things. One of the things that popped into my head was our conversation (I promise I don't think about you in the shower!).

    I was like "You know, that's kind of genius of her to do. Separating her emotions so efficiently as she does. I wonder how she does it." I tried to think back to a post you made where you seemed at all offended about something said against your argument, and I realized that there weren't any! There aren't many people I know of that frequent OC who don't have any obvious "I'm offended!" posts and I think it's really interesting how you manage to do that. It's mighty useful!

    So, how do you manage to do that? Separating your emotions completely from the argument. I would think that you got insulted at least once during your time here at an argument, but you don't show it at all. A lot of people have a problem with controlling or understanding their emotions enough to be able to stop themselves from reacting rashly, but you don't seem to have that problem at all.

  3. Patchisou Yutohru
    September 23rd, 2011 11:39 PM
    Patchisou Yutohru
    Try to use it just as that. A resort. But make it a last resort. If you really want to be in a thread, and you feel someone is starting to debate your opinions (many of the time, threads posted in OC are discussions turned debates; they aren't made to be debates), then you can go into legal arguments. Until then, focus on your own beliefs and opinions. That's what people want to hear from you, after all! Not all the legal stuff, but how you feel and where you stand in your opinion.

    Well, I personally believe that the only way to understand someone and what they do is by talking to them. I had a picture of you in one way, and you helped me see a little bit more of the picture by talking to me about why you post the way you post. I could have complained about it all I'd like, but that wouldn't solve anything. I think a lot of people here should be more confrontational about the issues they have with another member, instead of turning to their friends and complaining and reinforcing negative emotions and misconceptions. I try my best to be as non-judgmental as I can be. Mostly everything I say to someone is observational.

  4. Patchisou Yutohru
    September 23rd, 2011 11:23 PM
    Patchisou Yutohru
    I can respect that instead of getting too personal with debates, which tends to lead to a lot of frustration at opposing parties, you go into lawyer-mode. As someone who was interested at one point or another to studying law, it does seem very smart of you - even on a Pokémon forum.

    Why don't, in the future, instead of focusing all of your posts on the law-side of things and why something may or may not be against the constitution, thus unlawful or inconvenient, post your personal belief and view on the matter, and gently ease into the political side of the discussion? That way people get the sense that the topic actually matters to you as a person, and touches you in some way.

    I think the issues between you two will iron out on themselves if you both take the time to learn the opposing side and talk to eachother. I mean, I came to you today because I was really getting pissed off with -- not what, but how -- you were posting what you were posting in the recent threads I've been in, and all of the threads that I've seen you post in. I think the only thing you need to really realize is that, a lot of the time, people are just posting their belief on a matter. They're not really saying this or that should happen. But I don't think you choose to get people angry, that's just what happens as a result of your matter-of-fact posting.

  5. Patchisou Yutohru
    September 23rd, 2011 10:54 PM
    Patchisou Yutohru
    This is a Pokémon forum. Forget the Pokémon part, this is a forum - where people are supposed to express their beliefs. You're not in the court of law, you're at your computer. I think I speak for a lot of people in saying that threads aren't based on making proper decisions. They're for discussing and reflecting on your personal emotions and opinions on the matter.

    Though, I can't deny with what Mr. X said below. While I don't agree with you in most of your posts, you do back them up as much as you can. And I suppose getting the opposing side flustered in what you say is kind of the point of a debate.

    But wouldn't you rather avoid a suicide in the first place? A wrongful death suit isn't going to bring the victim back and isn't really going to help their loved ones emotionally. It makes most sense to prevent that tragedy from happening at all than to settle it in court after it's happened. To think that's okay seems really insulting to the victim and his/her loved ones.

  6. Mr. X
    September 23rd, 2011 10:32 PM
    Mr. X
    And if I wasn't pretty sure that you forgot to add a not to your sentence, i'd recommend that you do it on a VM wall that gets a bit more traffic.

  7. Mr. X
    September 23rd, 2011 10:30 PM
    Mr. X
    Ja, had this happened about a week earlier i'd have had a couple screen's that show one of his disreguards for some rules. The computer that they were on died though.

  8. Mr. X
    September 23rd, 2011 10:07 PM
    Mr. X
    Da.

    While I might not agree with some your specifc views, I do like the fact that you back them up.

    IMO, Livewire doesn't like either of our views on certian subjects and just deletes them out of spite.

    Although I do admit that the post of mine that was deleted on the suicide topic was a bit to harsh.

  9. Patchisou Yutohru
    September 23rd, 2011 06:50 PM
    Patchisou Yutohru
    Things can be done about it, but things aren't done about it. And that's the problem. Most schools turn the blind eye, and give them a slap on the wrist at most, which doesn't fix anything. Kids are scared to inform their teachers of the things that go on behind their backs of fear of an altercation or of the teacher not doing anything. I do agree that prosecuting school children in federal court is extreme, but I don't think that's what she's really looking to do. Just establish some sort of formal punishment for the consequence of their hurtful actions.

  10. Patchisou Yutohru
    September 23rd, 2011 05:27 PM
    Patchisou Yutohru
    So you don't believe that bullying is right, but you don't think anything should be done about it?

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