You should definitely keep Gothitelle on your team. I assume you have Pokemon Black? (Since Gothitelle is version-exclusive, you can get it on Black only). In terms of gym battles, I would suggest you to choose Snivy as your starter. Catch a Pidove, and a ground-type because they will be pretty useful. You can also experiment with electric types as well, a good suggestion would be Blitzle and Emolga.
You mean the DCC? I've seen them. Some members & staff members are really picky when it comes to people's grammar. If they don't understand what you say, *that* happens. I really don't mind you talking to me in LOLcat form. I think LOLcat form is fun.
Well, it's just understandable that you're new and all. The moderators are just there to force the rules, and they want to make sure that you're not a spammer or anything. I'm sure you'll learn a lot here. Don't feel bad just because they deleted your post. It's about learning your mistakes, and it's a better way to prevent yourself from getting banned from this amazing place.
*cough* excuse my lengthy speech. lol, becaiuse I've been through your footsteps before.