Please, Read both links before posting ANYTHING ELSE!
Seriously, you're not going to make this forum into anything YOU want it to be. If you can't handle it, I'm sure that once you break enough rules/annoy the staff enough, that they will find a reason to remove you. Or you could take the nice and easy way out, log out, and never return. A lot of people do just that.
I know and understand that some rules here are annoying, but they are there for a reason. If you cannot consider or accept this...you're only hurting yourself.