Edited: Sigh... still need a trade partner
BTW you trade by saving a new txt with the pokemon you are receiving in the "Trades" folder. Then you go to the trade screen in Pokemon Raptor and click "get pokemon". You then load that screen with the pokemon you just saved in a txt file.
From there you do the "confirm trade" part and you create your confirmation code. This is in the confirmation folder. You then save the other person's confirmation txt also in a .txt file (create a new one). Then you click load confirmation and you load their confirmation. From here you can click finish trade and the trade is completed.