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Jake♫

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1. How many times do you think you've had it?

Somewhere in the double digits. Probably around 40-50 I guess.

2. What age did you lose your virginity, providing you have lost it?

19. Came out of the closet, got a boyfriend, and had sex all within three months =P

3. Have you done the dirty deed with guys and girls?\

Just my boyfriend!
 
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Oryx

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Legal age is 16 here so technically I don't count towards that. :P

I'm not surprised it doesn't deter people, especially in America were it is 18, I wouldn't expect anyone to be deterred when the law is that strict.

It still isn't nearly as bad as having to be 21 for alcohol though. (That's 18 here)

Legal age varies by state here. The youngest is 16 in places like New Jersey, up to 18 in places like Wisconsin. Just throwing it out there.
 
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Before I post my response, I just wanted to respond to a report's request to give my opinion on these threads (or this thread I guess). I'm perfectly okay with a thread like this existing, so long as the replies are not too graphic or verbally explicit. Sex is a normal thing that many of us have/will probably experienced/experience. So, with that aside, on to the OP.

Nope. I'm a virgin!

1. Providing you're of legal age, what is stopping you from having sex? Religious reasons? Lack of interest, from either you or another person? Lack of sexual desire for anyone? Fear?
Lack of a girlfriend, perhaps? Hah, seriously though, that's probably it, or as close to the answer as I can get. I've never been in a relationship that was that deep, and I'm not exactly a womanizer. Oh, how I wish I could be Barney, but nope. Religion nor fear are not reasons that I'd avoid having sex, simply because I'm not religious, nor am I afraid. I mean, I know the risks, and I've taken sex education. When the time comes, I'm not going to be an idiot


2. Are you okay with being a virgin? Do you care about what society/the people have to say in regards to it?
Yeah, I'm fine. I mean, considering I'm 17, it's not exactly a big conversation topic, or at least not a prominent one. I know a few people that do talk about it every now and then, but considering they're the same people that do it in the school theater hallway, I can't say I'm exactly stressed or anything. Won't lie, though, wouldn't mind going through that one time, just for the thrill that probably comes with it haha.

3. When do you plan on having sex? Do you even want to have sex?
Whenever I feel like I'm ready. Yes, I do plan on having it, but I've got to wait for someone to come along. I don't particularly care about purity, so sex before marriage isn't an issue for me. But I'm not going to go around to the next hot girl who walks buy and ask them if they want it in. I'm not like that!
 
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Chikara

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1. How many times do you think you've had it?
Uh oh god. A lot?? After the 10th time with whatever boyfriend I had at the time, I stopped being like "we did it again this is so special let me remember it forever :3"

2. What age did you lose your virginity, providing you have lost it?
18, it's kinda funny how I lost it. Location wise. Though I won't go into details >w>;

3. Have you done the dirty deed with guys and girls?
The most I've done with a girl is some drunken heavy making out. So nope!
 

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Several times.

I was 17, girlfriend was also 17.

Only with a girl.

I'm not surprised it doesn't deter people, especially in America were it is 18, I wouldn't expect anyone to be deterred when the law is that strict.
First off, I agree with you, I think 18 is too strict.

Secondly, in the U.S. age of consent is enforced state by state. It ranges from 16 - 18, most states have it at 16 (I think about 30 out of 50 as of this writing).

California is one of the few that has it as high as 18. However, that's the state where most U.S. entertainment - including adult entertainment - gets produced, so I think pornography laws are enforced nationwide based on Cali's standards. But don't take my word for it, I'm not 100% sure. Also, it's still illegal to take minors over state borders for sexual purposes, even if the state you visit has you both at a legal age. I think you both need to be certified residents of the state. Each state also has it's own set of rules regarding deviations such as close in age exceptions, age difference, et cetera, et cetera, some strict, others not strict, some straightforward, others utterly confusing, and some states have it somewhere in between. To be honest, it's a real f***ing mess. Pun intended.

I lost my virginity at 18, to a guy who was 17. I'm not sure if this makes me a pedo or not
No, that is not pedophilia.
 
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omg, like, you can't have a sex thread here, think of the children!
/sarcasm


1. Providing you're of legal age, what is stopping you from having sex? Religious reasons? Lack of interest, from either you or another person? Lack of sexual desire for anyone? Fear?
I'm not interested, and I don't feel comfortable enough with my body to want to have sex right now. Honestly I'm not even interested in a serious committed relationship right now. And I have no idea exactly what my sexuality is :s

2. Are you okay with being a virgin? Do you care about what society/the people have to say in regards to it?
I'm perfectly fine with it. If I weren't, I would've lost it by now, I'm sure. If people want to complain about it, whatever. It's my life -- I shouldn't lose my virginity until I'm ready.

3. When do you plan on having sex? Do you even want to have sex?
I won't until I'm in a relationship with someone and feel comfortable with it.

What do you think of people who have sex often, with many different people?
Ain't my business. They can do whatever the hell they want. Preferably safely, though. d("d)
 

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Time to reply to my own thread!
Although I admit the fetish question was too much, I do not see the harm in promoting sexual discussion on a forum populated by clearly very sexually active teenagers and young adults, as evidenced by some of the replies I have seen :) Some of you people have sure gotten up to some fun times! Not naming any names, though! (Scarf)
Thank you for all answering with maturity and bringing intelligent discussion to a thread which could have just degenerated into dirty recounts of experiences best kept off a Pokemon forum! Sex is natural! It's great to talk about it! Hell yeah!

1. How many times do you think you've had it?
....This is all with one guy, but over 200 times omg
We just liked doing it lmao

2. What age did you lose your virginity, providing you have lost it?
About 18 and a half!! I know I'm sounding childish, adding the half and what not, but I wanted to keep things accurate!!! It took me longer than average to lose it because it took me forever to come out of the closet irl & it took me a while to find a guy I felt comfortable with losing it to, lol.
When I was growing up I was all about 'I'm gonna lose it to the guy I love, it's dirty to do so otherwise' and although I think it's absolutely wonderful to keep your virginity for someone you love, I was just tired of waiting to see what this sex thing was all about, I guess. I'm not saying I didn't throw my personal morals out the window, I just loosened up a little bit!

3. Have you done the dirty deed with guys and girls?

i never want to see a vagina in my life

Bonus question:
What do you think of people who have sex often, with many different people?


People who ****-shame are one of my biggest annoyances, as you're essentially shaming people for being free with their sexuality and you're shaming them for having sex the way they want to. They know the physical risks of doing so, or they should so anyway. They are aware of STDS just like you are aware of them! Some people simply just move from person to person, or they're sleeping around with multiple people because that's what suits them. I do have a problem with those who cheat on others, as that is completely different to ****-shaming and cheating on the person you're dating (unless you guys are open about that sort of thing) is just low in my opinion, having gone through such an experience myself. But, my point is, don't judge others for being free with who make love to, because for all you know they could love that person, just in a different way than you comprehend.
 
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1. Providing you're of legal age, what is stopping you from having sex? Religious reasons? Lack of interest, from either you or another person? Lack of sexual desire for anyone? Fear?
Well it first it was a combination of religious beliefs and lack of interest. Now it's just a personal preference. It helps that I'm not stunningly attractive and rather have my nose in a book or a DS lol. I think one of the biggest reasons is because I'm just not emotionally connected to someone enough to even convince myself to try it. I'm not interested in one night stands, or to have sex for fun. I've had bad, rough luck when it comes to relationships. I'm not ready for one. Period.

2. Are you okay with being a virgin? Do you care about what society/the people have to say in regards to it?

I do care, because it's annoying. It's a problem that needs to be fixed according to everyone, where I'd just rather be left alone.


3. When do you plan on having sex? Do you even want to have sex?

Well eventually, yes, or course I do. I'm however quite jaded. I have no interest in getting close enough to someone.
 
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Q: 1. Providing you're of legal age, what is stopping you from having sex? Religious reasons? Lack of interest, from either you or another person? Lack of sexual desire for anyone? Fear?

A: My girlfriend would kill me if I slept with someone else now and for the meantime it's a long distance relationship so it's gonna take a while to get under the sheets.

Q: 2. Are you okay with being a virgin? Do you care about what society/the people have to say in regards to it?

A: Honestly I'm okay with it given the fact that if I ever slept with any of the women in my town I'd probably get more STDs than phone numbers on a yellow page book.

Q: 3. When do you plan on having sex? Do you even want to have sex?

A: When I get married I'll be all for it. I'm trying to be commited now.
 

Varion Bluefire

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How many times do you think you've had it?
About 7-8 times with the same girl. c:
What age did you lose your virginity, providing you have lost it?
About 17, here in the UK the law is 16 you can do it. The first time was with my girlfriend, and we were both ''in that mood''. So yeah.
Have you done the dirty deed with guys and girls?
All the time with my girlfriend, almost once with my best buddy, we had both had a few too many drinks, and were in the mood, and were about to, but his mum came in, luckily we were dressed. >.>
 

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1. How many times do you think you've had it?
Uhm, probably about 90+ times for the past 4 years. Im not that active at it XD

2. What age did you lose your virginity, providing you have lost it?
It was around 4-5 months before turning 18, with my female BFF.
I mean it just happened, and to be really honest I had a crush on her too since I hang up alot with her.
The problem just was that she was in a relationship for around 3 years+ that time, she just claimed that time it happened between me and her that she doesn't love him as much that time as she used to.
Plus he lived kind off far away so it wasnt really a problem having a affair with her.
We both were in the same class so we had to predent theres nothing.
And she said she was going to leave him for me >.>
Anyways that kept going for around 4 months until I didn't care the she wasnt leaving him for me, we got attracted only physically to each other and decided that we'll leave it that way. She was a too good friend to loose because of that.
After that Ive went with around 7 more girls several times with each other, I like to be more attached emotionaly to someone rather then physically.

3. Have you done the dirty deed with guys and girls?
I love only girls and never will like boys in that way.
This doesn't mean I have something against boys loving boys as long as it isn't on me, there Im very stricks because I really dont like it when something similar happens to me.

Also with the deeds?
With my BFF since it was a affair she showed me things I never knew back then XD
i kind of got my experience with her.

What do you think of people who have sex often, with many different people?
Tbh really honest I don't have that much against it since Im not any better.
In the land I live (Kosovo) having sex with more then 1 people is kind of disgusting to some, people want that a girl is married before having it.
But boys >.> they can do that off course, the girls arent allowed though! >.>
Idk why this is so here, probably because were muslims and they claim to be muslims which live after the religion. They dont follow it that much though.
As said I dont have anythign against it as long they know what theyre doing but girls will mostly being called S**** by the ones who dont get to have sex with them.
But I would not be that comfortable if I would get into a relationship with a girl which had sex with more persons then I did, idk why I just dont feel comfortable with it.
 
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First of all before I start, I want to thank Harlequin for starting this thread. I think that sex is something everyone should talk about. Whether, or not you're opposed to what some see as a 'touchy' subject I think it's still necessary to appease your brain's demand for sexual maturity.

Anywho.. On to the good stuff.

1. How many times do you think you've had it?

Holy... the number probably well exceeds 5-600. Granted 4-598 of them were with the same girl. My high school years I had a girlfriend, and we were quite the horny couple. We dated for two, and a half years. Through the later end of high school, and a year after going into college semesters, and so forth. I won't gush into details, but if you've had a partner you've been seriously involved with you'll know it gets out of control after a while of becoming addicted to the endorphin rush.

2. What age did you lose your virginity, providing you have lost it?

I was 16 when the deed happened. The girl I was mentioning above came over one day after school, and we were just hanging out. After a while it just happened. Two weeks later we started dating. :15:

3. Have you done the dirty deed with guys and girls?

Fortunately for me, I've only been sexually active with females. Although I wouldn't willingly submit to homosexual actions I wouldn't be opposed if there was a Ménage à trois going on.

BONUS. What do you think of people who have sex often, with many different people?

I think that having sex frequently isn't a bad thing. Nor is anyone a bad person if they are sexually active often with a plethora of people.

I will say that those people are well aware of the consequences. Of course there is the issue of contracting a disease, but furthermore there's the possibility of having a child. If you're not ready for the consequence attached to the responsibility, you might want to refrain from bumping uglies for a bit.

PERSONAL BIT.

As much as I love sex. I will have been sexually abstinent for a year, two weeks from now. Prior to breaking up with my ex-girlfriend around this time last year. I had two flings since, not long after the breakup. Since then, I've been taking time to put together the pieces of the broken puzzle I call my life, and things are starting to return to normal. I came to the realization that I can't be caught up in chasing sex, because it was keeping me from what I really wanted to accomplish in my life.

At the same time I haven't found any women I'm really interested in, or haven't met any women that have wanted me in the same way. I can't take the risk of having accidental children with someone that I don't care for, and my bankroll is too small right now to support a child, or a college fund for that matter.

So as a friendly reminder, and a closing statement

Do what you love in life. Don't let anyone tell you different. Change on your own terms. And be protected at all costs, it will only benefit you in the long-run.


 
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1. Providing you're of legal age...
I'm not.
2. Are you okay with being a virgin?
Yes, & in a society where you must be married to have sex, I'm okay on my own.
3. When do you plan on having sex?
When I'm married, IF I marry.
 
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Alternatively, for those who haven't had sex:
1. Providing you're of legal age, what is stopping you from having sex? Religious reasons? Lack of interest, from either you or another person? Lack of sexual desire for anyone? Fear?

It's because I don't care. I didn't see what the big deal was when I was younger, and I don't now. Also high school gave me quite some culture shock so I didn't even know how to react with people there until I was about 16, so I avoided people for the most part.


2. Are you okay with being a virgin? Do you care about what society/the people have to say in regards to it?

I don't see what the problem is. If I felt like it was a problem I wouldn't even be one right now.


3. When do you plan on having sex? Do you even want to have sex?

When it happens. That's all I can say.
 
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1. How many times do you think you've had it?
-No clue and unconcerned. I've done it a fair amount of times and that's all.
2. What age did you lose your virginity, providing you have lost it?
-Depends on what you define as losing it. I've had some unfortunate experiences throughout my childhood and I'll leave it as that. I'll stick with 14 though, however, it was probably younger. I was always curious.
3. Have you done the dirty deed with guys and girls?
-Regrettably, yes. I, like a few other gay men, never want to see another vag again. I'm a bio major and I still cringe at the sight of one.
 
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I have not because I'm only 15..... I don't mind it because the vast majority of people I know are virgins as well... at least to my knowledge. I'm that kind of person that only wants it to be with only one person and the right person... so I'll wait till marriage, although it has nothing to do with religion.. People that have sex often don't bother me, but the multiple people...ehhh it's not my life, but I'm sticking with my one and only.
 
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1. Providing you're of legal age, what is stopping you from having sex? Religious reasons? Lack of interest, from either you or another person? Lack of sexual desire for anyone? Fear?:
Basically because it takes two to tango and I don't have a partner.I don't really believe in religion so that's not really a problem.

2. Are you okay with being a virgin? Do you care about what society/the people have to say in regards to it?:
Yes, I'm okay with it.I don't see why people would have a problem with that.One rule I live by: Don't give a **** about what people think about you.

3. When do you plan on having sex? Do you even want to have sex?:
It will happen when it happens.If it happens.

Bonus question:
What do you think of people who have sex often, with many different people?
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As long as they aren't cheating kudos to them, hopefully they are using protection and all that jazz.
 
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Alternatively, for those who haven't had sex:
1. Providing you're of legal age, what is stopping you from having sex? Religious reasons? Lack of interest, from either you or another person? Lack of sexual desire for anyone? Fear?
2. Are you okay with being a virgin? Do you care about what society/the people have to say in regards to it?
3. When do you plan on having sex? Do you even want to have sex?

I'm asexual, so I don't plan on having sex. I'm alright with being a virgin, and since I have no interest in sex, I probably will be for a really long time. The problem is the social stigma attached with virginity.

Bonus question:
What do you think of people who have sex often, with many different people?
Honestly, If you judge people for how much sex they have, grow up. People are allowed to do whatever they want with their bodies. Whether someone has had hundreds of partners, one partner, or no partners, there is absolutely no reason for anyone to judge them.
 
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1. I've lost count over the years to be honest, but it was only with 4 different girls.
2. I was 18 and it was after 4th of july BBQ, I could have lost it a lot earlier but back then all i cared about was skating lol
3. Just girls.
 
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