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Old January 1st, 2013 (3:48 PM).
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Have you ever said anything to someone, perhaps after losing your temper, that you see tears their feelings into a million pieces, effectively causing you to wish you could take back what you said as soon as you say it, but know that you cannot?

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Old January 1st, 2013 (4:11 PM).
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Saying to my mother that I feel endangered at her house because sometimes she gets into little rage fits and throws things at me.
She was kind of depressed after I said that, but the next day she was fine. I wish I hadn't told her, because lately she's been even meaner. :\
And I do love my mom, but she needs to know that I don't like it when she throws fits and launches half of my room at me.

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Old January 1st, 2013 (4:23 PM).
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I wished I hadn't told my best friend about previously being a "cutter". That was the first time I've ever seen her so upset. So calm, but obviously was not happy with me. But everything is cool now- she actually is more affectionate for some reason -so I guess it's fine that I told her.

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Old January 1st, 2013 (9:41 PM).
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I think our mistakes sort of make up who we are and I've never anything so bad I wish I'd taken it back.
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Old January 1st, 2013 (9:54 PM).
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i have never said anything bad when im angry i just shout loudly i don't say anything bad xD

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Old January 1st, 2013 (9:57 PM).
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I would take back the words I never said

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Old January 1st, 2013 (11:39 PM).
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Far more often than I should, I say things to people that end up hurting their feelings. I think I notice when I do it fairly quickly though, and I can't stand to not resolve any problems that I've created. For that reason, there are very few things that I've said that I wish I could take back.

It sounds silly and melodramatic, but the only things that I would take back are the things that I can't fix. Everything else is kind of like a learning experience.

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Old January 5th, 2013 (6:57 AM).
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I can honestly say that this has never happened to me. I've lost my temper but even in a fit of rage I could never say something to somebody that's so bad it would make them cry. I'm always hyper aware of other people's feelings, even when I've lost it.

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Old January 5th, 2013 (10:37 AM).
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I used to have more of a temper a long time ago, but after just kinda breaking a sandbag I decided that I really needed to learn to control it...
I never really get angry any more, but on rare occasions i'll get into this weird cold hearted state of mind. :l

But to answer the question at hand no I don't. Cruel things are always said at one time or another, I try to learn what I can from them, and then treat it as it is - history.

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Old January 5th, 2013 (12:05 PM).
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I will occasionally lose my temper and say things I dont mean. I would take them back because I didnt mean them and I never intend to hurt others.

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Old January 10th, 2013 (3:33 PM).
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I tend to say the worst things at the worst time.. but what's bad is that a lot of the time, there is some truth to what I say so I don't think I could take it back wholly. I've never purposely said anything to try and make someone cry, though. I guess I just usually just end up voicing my pent up frustration, however, I don't think I've ever regretted anything I've ever actually said.. we work it out in the end because that's what people who care about each other do.

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Old January 11th, 2013 (4:27 PM).
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I'm one of these people that when I say something wrong, that I cannot repair the damage. There's always gonna be feelings broken and other things, and not once has anything worked out better. It's like setting fire to something, with me.

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Old January 11th, 2013 (5:13 PM).
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Kind of. I've said something that I needed to get across but needed to embrace them getting really upset afterwards. However, both occasions where this happened I was able to repair them the same day they happened.

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Old January 19th, 2013 (7:02 AM).
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Hm. I didn't say it directly to them; I wrote it in my diary, which was soon discovered. I regretted having a diary, ever since that day. I wish I could take back what I did -- what I wrote.

I even made a teacher cry.

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