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Old January 29th, 2013, 05:30 AM
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What do you consider to be your biggest insecurity and why?
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Old January 29th, 2013, 05:43 AM
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Hmm not sure. People picking on me for being such a weird ass perhaps.
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Old January 29th, 2013, 07:29 AM
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My forehead, it's pretty big. It isn't Tyra Banks big but it's still a little bigger than average, which is why I wear full straight-across bangs.
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Old January 29th, 2013, 07:38 AM
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Too many things to pick from. My hands bother me, so I'll go with that, as for a visible thing.

Myself as a person probably would be it, as for something that isn't visible. I really get on my own nerves.
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Old January 29th, 2013, 08:14 AM
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My forehead, my eyebrows, my chin, my teeth, and my ankles. I think that's all. I'm not going into detail lol. I mean, I don't look horrible, but those are my worst features and I wish I could change them. I mean, I can cover my forehead, fix the eyebrows, but I can't change my chin, I can't do anything about my teeth, and ankles are stuck being what they are as well.
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Old January 29th, 2013, 08:44 AM
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I would guess my feet bother me as the are so big for someone my age/gender
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Old January 29th, 2013, 09:22 AM
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My hair. Have never been able to really get it to how I felt comfortable with it. I've tried a lot of different styles and nothing seems to work.
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Old January 29th, 2013, 11:01 AM
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My insecurity with failure. If I feel like I can't get something I get really down about myself and beat myself up, and I won't stop until I get it right. If I can't get it right, I take it really seriously.
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Old January 29th, 2013, 11:16 AM
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My mistakes. When I mess up I am really hard on myself. I'm not a perfectionist per se, but I have standards for myself and when I don't meet them, particularly when it comes to other people and how I interact with them, I usually feel dumb and incompetent. Like if I'm absentminded and I forget to do something and someone else ends up having to do it for me I feel like such a jerk even if it's something small. Actually, it's the small things that make me feel worst because they ought to be the things that I should do without any trouble.
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Old January 29th, 2013, 02:49 PM
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I'm paranoid about how much people know about me and I constantly think they know more than they actually do, so my biggest insecurity definitely deals with how I haven't come to terms with some of the more complicated things that I like.
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Old January 29th, 2013, 03:18 PM
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The fact that I'm 19, everyone has a proper beard, and I'm the guy with crap genes, having to grow it out slowly but surely.
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Old January 29th, 2013, 04:13 PM
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The fact that I can't have an intimate relationship.
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Old January 29th, 2013, 04:20 PM
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Having to function as a normal person within First World society.
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Old January 29th, 2013, 04:56 PM
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My hands and feet.

They are so.. small. I'm talking TOO small.

All my friends think it's cute, but honestly, I think my hands look grubby and fat. And when I put them up to my face, they're not proportionate at all.
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Old January 29th, 2013, 08:47 PM
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The fact I am so prone to bully attacks, especially given I think my face looks silly.
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Old February 1st, 2013, 10:45 PM
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I'm just completely out of the normal, I just don't belong in this generation, I need a more sophisticated society where men's biggest issue isn't getting laid, teenagers aren't abusing everything they can get their hands on, grammar is an international rule, people don't judge you for liking something oriented toward a different audience (Pokemon, MLP, cat obsessist, etc xD)
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Old February 3rd, 2013, 01:18 AM
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My face. I still get acne and I'm turning 23 this year. I hate my genetics sometimes. I'm not unattractive, but I do get self-conscious about that.
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Old February 13th, 2013, 03:57 AM
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I often feel insecure of those girls on Facebook who gets more photo likes than I do. It's stupid, I know.
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Old February 13th, 2013, 04:15 AM
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My confidence in my ability to achieve. I always doubt my abilities and while I've proven I can aim and achieve high, I... never feel I can. My fear of failure is probably the biggest cause of this. I'm a perfectionist at heart so when things are out of place, I get stressed, and when I get stressed that adds to my self-doubt and then the mix of those two leads me to failure. Haha.
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Old February 13th, 2013, 11:37 AM
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I'll be one hundred percent honest, but I can't really think of an insecurity that I haven't overcome. Granted, in the past I was insecure about several things, but nowadays, whenever I think about them, I just laugh it off. I think I have the "I don't care what other people think" mindset. I dunno if that's a good or bad thing, to be honest.
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Old February 13th, 2013, 11:51 AM
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I have a twin problem. Or rather dual personality problem. At timea I can be all dandy and cream and sugar. Or just plain happu go-lucky... And then next thing I can be a real ****. Not mean but just realy crumpy. Or just too sophisticated and arrogant. I dont know how to explain this. I cant realy be with people the right way. Im either controlling myself too much or too little. And yeah... It realy makes things sometimes hard for me when I think about how others feel about me and how I should act and be.
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Old February 13th, 2013, 12:08 PM
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My forehead, my eyebrows, my chin, my teeth, and my ankles. I think that's all. I'm not going into detail lol. I mean, I don't look horrible, but those are my worst features and I wish I could change them. I mean, I can cover my forehead, fix the eyebrows, but I can't change my chin, I can't do anything about my teeth, and ankles are stuck being what they are as well.
You are nuts. You're absolutely, stunningly beautiful... don't be insecure, please?

And for me, I'm insecure about my skin and my hair. I hate how often I get pimples still and I'm 26. Luckily, I don't have a lot of acne, but really I'm quite tired of it. My hair also has random cowlicks, which is why I usually buzz it. Before I buzzed it though, I kept it rather short and gelled it.

I used to be insecure about my weight, since I was underweight. But 45 pounds later and that's no longer a problem.
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Old February 13th, 2013, 03:54 PM
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I have really hairy legs. :l

Psycologically i'm machiavellianistic, vain, deceitful, anti-social, brutal, despicable, sadistic, and overly secretive. As well as morbid, discompassionate, slightly perverted, at times merciless, disenchanting, socially awkward, irritating, wretched and I laugh at the worst of times, partially because of my taboo veiws on life. Constantly self contradicting, critical, inconsiderate, barbaric and honestly at times have multiple personalities. Overall the only way to my heart is with an axe.
And you know what, I both recognise and accept that.
But I refuse to wear shorts. l:<
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Old March 13th, 2013, 08:02 PM
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My biggest insecurity would be... doing too much mistakes, because I don't want to make mistakes anymore.
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