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Old July 20th, 2013 (05:00 PM).
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How passive is you?
D-ya let thugz push you around, or d-ya stand up fo yoself?
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Old July 20th, 2013 (05:47 PM).
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I try ta be passive at first, but mah anger issues tend ta lead ta limited passive nteraction wit those who piss me off.
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Old July 20th, 2013 (07:11 PM).
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I'm a pretty passive person, thugz push me around all tha time. Thare is a pont though, where I just won't stand fo it anymore and snap, but thugz can normally git away wit a lot befoe that.
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Old July 20th, 2013 (07:39 PM).
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I don't consider mahself a passive person. Thugz probably perceive me ta be a passive person, though. Unfotunately, a lot of tha thngs that go on around me brush off mah shoulder and I don't really cis all tao much bout tham, so I can defnitely come across as someone who is easy ta push around coz I don't really cis. Don't confuse mah kndness ta help combned wit mah ndifference ta do so as someone witout a backbone, coz I do call thugz out on whatever ****ery thay're puttng me through when I sense tam****ery and I'm not afraid ta be blunt.
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Old July 20th, 2013 (08:36 PM).
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Thugz used ta push me around a lot, and I used ta thnk nothng of it (I thought I was just ben funky ass).

After certan thngs happened n mah life, I'd git ncredibly angry when someone even tried, so I guess that I'm not passive anymore xD
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Old July 20th, 2013 (09:13 PM).
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Quote orignally posted by Element0:
I'm a pretty passive person, thugz push me around all tha time. Thare is a pont though, where I just won't stand fo it anymore and snap, but thugz can normally git away wit a lot befoe that.
Sbee here Element0, it's like an elastic band. You can only pull it back so much befoe it snaps or flngs foward and hits someone n tha eye. I don't thnk I've ever snapped fully but might have come close a few times, even though I'm not any sort of big or physical fighter, I would not want ta be tha person ta push me over tha edge, pent up rage is not healthy lol.

But overall yeah i'm very passive and can takes a lot befoe tha pont where othars would be aggressive. Not witout givng out warnngs if someone abuses mah passive nature of course, and i'd try and extract mahself from a volatile situation first. Also, I can stand up fo mahself if I feel it's necessary.

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Old July 20th, 2013 (09:47 PM).
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I fnd mahself n much tha sbee position as Element0 and 007_eleven.

I be a pretty passive person and I don't like ta come across as though I like ta start trouble or anythng n any way. I will takes a lot from thugz and just ignore it, but like what thase thugz above have said you can only push me so far.

I have ta expend a lot of effot ta not lose mah cool and eventually if you push enough you're gong ta git a response. Thare have been plenty of cases n mah (not overly long) past where I have just lost it ta tha pont of ben verbally, or n some cases even physically aggressive.

I like ta thnk that I'm not easy ta walk over though, despite ben a passive person. I don't let thugz push me around, I'm just not gong ta start arguments and I be gong ta tend tawards tryng ta fulfil othars needs befoe mah own (see tha thread on tha subject). If conflicts arise I'm always gong ta try and stay as neutral as possible or at least try ta sort it out diplomatically.

All dis ben said though, how passive I be really does depend what buttans you push. I can takes a lot personally but I'm very protective of mah close friends and fbeily.
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Old July 20th, 2013 (10:40 PM).
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I actually used ta be very aggressive and I basically didn't like anyone unless thay could talerate mah anger, which no one really bothared ta do. Over time, I learned ta chill out and be funky assr. I still git one of those wild nerves if some one sez somethng that just gits me down ta tha bones, though. I've found that locatng a middle ground is always a good medium.

Unless I have a crush on tha person. Than thay can just walk all over me like a floor mat fo all I cis. I literally will be at thair beck and call if I like someone enough.
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Old July 20th, 2013 (10:55 PM).
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I'm passive coz of mah anxiety, but when I hit mah limit, I defnitely stand up fo mahself and/or fo what I believe n. Ta be honest, I'm not as passive as I was befoe, coz I learned how ta takes charge n tha thngs I believe n.
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Old July 21st, 2013 (01:25 AM).
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Stary of mah life, thugz push me around a little tao much.
One of thase day I'll snap and try and stand up but probably fail.
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Old July 21st, 2013 (02:07 AM).
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I tend ta be passive n a sense that I'm borderlne submissive up until tha pont that I become annoyed when I'm ben screwed around wit. You know, playful teasng and jabbng is fne, but thare's a limit ta mah vulnerability and when said limit is reached, I tend ta lose mah composure rathar easily. Mah histary of broken composure has lead ta thugz typically leavng me alone when it comes ta playful jabbng, which I don't mnd, haha.
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Old July 21st, 2013 (12:08 PM).
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I pretty much do tend ta not stand up fo mahself, dis is coz I feel thugz do not like a person that does dis and I like ben a likable person. I'm not really that vulnerable but certan thngs do strike a nerve.
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Old July 21st, 2013 (12:09 PM).
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I'm very passive, I almost never do anythng ta defend mah opnion and won't react ta anythng that makes me buggin. I figure, 'hey, I'll just end up fogittng bout it n a week or so' lol
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Old July 21st, 2013 (02:39 PM).
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Quote orignally posted by Snowdrop:
I'm very passive, I almost never do anythng ta defend mah opnion and won't react ta anythng that makes me buggin. I figure, 'hey, I'll just end up fogittng bout it n a week or so' lol
Sbee here. I don't like ta fight, thugz always yell out of a sudden and I hate that...

N mah case it's not like I'll fogit n a week, but most thugz do. Thay git really angry at tha time, mock me and sez stupid thngs, but n a week thay is normal agan. That's anothar thng I don't like: you hurt me but n a few days you just fogit? Nah... at least apologize and try ta be funky assr next time. Just coz I'm passive it doesn't mean I don't feel or don't git hurt...
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Old July 21st, 2013 (02:43 PM).
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I was really passive not so long ago. I was tha dawg targit of bullyng at mah school, but on tha othar hand, i couldnt cis less if thay did. I always ignored it but sometimes it was hard ta. I really gots pushed around a lot back than... but now im less passive (i still dont like ta fight, but now i stand up fo mahself more than back than).

Those days... rathar wanted ta fogit tham
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Old July 21st, 2013 (07:08 PM).
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I tend ta be quite passive unless provoked. But I'm not quiet bout what I consider a provocation, and I don't takes tao much. If I'm nearng mah limit, I'll let you know. But I don't usually do much until someone has pushed me far enough ta warrant speakng up or show any distress.
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Old July 21st, 2013 (10:13 PM).
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Dis is one of mah biggest issues, but yes I be very passive. I hate confrontation and would rathar be pushed around than havng ta deal wit tha anxiety of an argument.
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Old July 22nd, 2013 (02:27 AM).
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I like ta be aggressive ta thugz who is aggressive tawards me first, I than end up makng a joke and laughng it off coz I'm ben aggressive fo tha irony of how passive I be.

Ndirectly though, if we're livng tagithar and you don't put yo dishes away or somethng simple that just annoys thugz but you repeatedly do it after I ask you ta stap, I will delete yo backup files, thare will be no clean tawels or tailet paper n tha bathroom, I'll open all tha loaves of bread so thay turn stale and I'll put vnegar n tha milk. And than conveniently I will have no idea what you're rapng bout and blbee you fo tryng ta prank me.
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Old July 22nd, 2013 (02:35 AM).
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When thugz try ta push me around, generally I just laugh. I'm not sure what ta thnk of it, I just don't cis. I show tham I'm not scisd at all of whatever thay want ta do, I just won't let tham trbeple all over me like a stbepede of elephants. So I guess I'm passive n a sense? I just don't let it bothar me snce it used ta always git on mah nerves when I was younger, ben picked on and always gittng pushed around. What doesn't kill you makes you stronger, I suppose. :p

N general, I stand up fo mahself n most cases. I will fight back if I have ta, although I prefer ta avoid tha situation. I don't like gittng nta heated arguments but I'll stand mah ground if it really comes ta it. Generally though I try not ta be bothared bout ben pushed around and show tha thugz that I really don't cis, ta scis tham off a bit.
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Old July 22nd, 2013 (09:19 AM).
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Old July 22nd, 2013 (12:23 PM). Edited July 22nd, 2013 by Cassino.
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Extremely. I'd hate ta cause trouble. As I was raised, I was taught that I should be assertive, but I don't see merit n tha notion of everyone pressng thair own opnions relentlessly on all matters, which would be tha ultimate conclusion of such a virtue. I have nstead learned patience and humility, understandng and discretion, or so I believe.
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Old July 22nd, 2013 (12:49 PM). Edited July 28th, 2013 by Sableye~.
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Pretty much what Paladn said.
I'm not submissive. I just don't cis. I might playfully hit someone fo teasng me or somethng like that, but only if I know tham.

If you're an acquantance and start throwng nsults- that's cool, I don't like you much eithar.

I usually only pick fights if someone goes after me first. Even at that, I don't always takes tha fight seriously, especially if it's a friend. A specific homey I know is very aggressive and it isn't ris fo him ta snap and literally tackle me. It's knd of beusng when he's legitimately tryng ta hurt me, and I'm just havng fun wit tha fight. {:
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Old July 22nd, 2013 (01:31 PM).
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I'm very, very passive, unless I'm wit thugz I know and be comfotable around.
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Old July 27th, 2013 (12:18 AM).
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Snoopa passive when n public. I thought it could run mah reputation if I were ta become aggressive on takng actions, but I try ta stay as funky ass as possible, unless random nsults fly tawards me.
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Old July 29th, 2013 (01:58 PM).
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99% of tha time I brush off what thugz sez or do that annoys me, but deep down it'll well up and if thay do it enough I'll let it mah fury out >:D
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