Just my reaction to a few things...
First of all, I think it's clear that we all just have to be nicer. I think everyone agrees on that.
I would like to explain the intent of the tutoring program though. When I thought it up (the new one, the older one was just "4 activity" lol

) it was for the sole purpose of counteracting the trend of no one rating teams and helping out, the one Oppo just described as well. I think Wolf's point is interesting because I too got requests...the interest is there, we just have to make use of it. I can't really tutor Gen V (yet) though, so I think it would be splendid if other people stepped forward.
(20:40:58) +Dark Azelf: but how are we actually gonna
(20:41:02) +Dark Azelf: like MAKE it active
(20:41:04) +Dark Azelf: lol
I feel like this becomes the primary question. Of course, it really won't be if we don't follow through with actually not being trolls/mean people/words I'll get infracted for saying!!!!! But yeah, assuming we all understand the need and urgency of cleaning up our image...
For me, it all starts at the core of the forum--team rating. I went over this in my first post so I won't rehash it. The important thing is putting it into practice though. I didn't want it to come off as "forced rating--Anti's death camp," but more that we should all just be more aware that we have to take ownership of this forum's future ourselves. For the first time in over two years, we have a playable metagame (actually more if you count the Advance metagames). As B&W's English release nears and then happens, we will probably get the same activity boost that I believe we did for Gen 4.
As many of us have said,
there are plenty of RMTs in S&M right now, but it's a matter of rating them. As more activity comes, we should get even more. So how can we get ourselves to rate? If we have to force ourselves to do it, there won't be a point since coming on PC will be a pain.
First of all, I feel that we should lower our expectations. This goes along with being nicer and all that since perhaps this forum's biggest problem is in its mentality. The metagame was not the only thing to evolve dramatically in Gen 4: RMTs went from each Pokemon, its information, and a short description to all-out artistic presentations with full threat lists, custom sprites, colored fonts, and just an overall flashy presentation. That's the kind of thing that regulars do well, but newer users will NEVER put in that time or effort because they don't know to and it's a waste of their time anyway. Even with no descriptions there really isn't any reason to ignore or lock a thread. Yeah, it would be great if people actually read the rules, but the sooner we accept the reality that most new users won't, the better. I certainly didn't read them lol. Once we accept that the first RMTs (and even some of the subsequent ones) will be low quality, the better.
Similarly, I don't think that linking to the Smogon intro to competitive Pokemon (or even ours--yes, we have one) and then saying "yeah this team needs to be redone" is sufficient. If we put ourselves in the new user's shows for a second, how much could that really help? Okay, I know my team stinks. Now I read this article and it's a nice introduction but now what do I do? Read the Smogon strat dex? For some reason, I don't think that many new users will want to do that. That goes back to adapting to give even the worst noob (see: 2007 Anti) a good shot at getting better. Instead of that, we should fix the team that's given to us, still probably link to the competitive Pokemon intro, and explain not just how to fix the team but "where to go from here." Definitely a server plug isn't a bad idea. And if indeed we are nicer, they will have a friendly environment to get tutored up by everyone collectively. We all know that ultimately it's battling that gets you better, so why not tell new users that? Make fixes but invite them on the server to test. That's a positive for everyone involved.
I think it's clear that those of us who aren't really into Pokemon right now want to get back into it and will soon. Given that, we should be able to have an army of team raters. Old-timers like D_A and myself are/were (are in his case, were in mine) great team raters, so if any established regulars want to know "how to team rate," it's an easy lesson, and you'll find that it's very rewarding--that's not just lip service, it really is. And it's not supposed to be the death camp thing, as every member can't rate every team, but if you notice a team that has been neglected, it's a good idea to rate. That's ultimately how activity will be brought back IMO.
If and when our community is revived by new users and rejuvenated veterans (I hope to be one sooner rather than later), then I think that we can get into things like official tournaments and community nights and big tier discussion threads like the old Garchomp and Wobbuffet threads (except better hopefully lol).
Until then, I don't feel like we should just be "the RMT forum," as Wolf said. But we should remember that for now at least we are low in numbers and cannot realistically pull off anything big. I believe that D_A said that PO has a tournament function that we could put to good use. It would be like the old mini tourneys except we wouldn't need the thread. Small things like that sound like a better idea to me. Maybe a Pokemon of the week discussion thread or something...just to diversify the forum. I don't know. I think you guys probably have better ideas than me in that department.