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.little monster
August 4th, 2009, 7:17 PM
Has anyone every confessed their love for you, only for you to not love them back? Or vice-versa?

August 4th, 2009, 9:44 PM
Ehh, an 11 year old said she would want to tap me. So if you consider it that way lol.

August 4th, 2009, 11:59 PM
Well I'd be too scared of rejection to confess any love to anyone without me knowing for sure that they'd say it back :]

August 5th, 2009, 12:08 AM
when i was younger but now ive been with my love for over 2 years so no need for that anymore =D

August 5th, 2009, 12:33 AM
Well I've never really proclaimed otherwise buuut I have had quite a few people confess to me like that in the past, it was very awkward and kinda saddening to know how they felt was just pure unrequited love, because I found it so hard to actually have proper feelings for anybody and those who were interested in me often just found themselves disappointed. Still, it's nothing that talking doesn't solve in a major scope, so I'm thankful for that.

Bianca Paragon
August 5th, 2009, 12:36 AM
I love you, Signomi!
Do you love me too? Will you call me poppet? :D

August 5th, 2009, 12:39 AM
At the risk of moving a slight bit off topic?


...what are you people looking at? Shoo! >:O

Bianca Paragon
August 5th, 2009, 12:42 AM
Hee!~ People can't resist a good show <3

Soo..yes! On topic; I *have* confessed my love to people who haven't felt the same way..and I also have been in love with someone who thought they loved me but didn't, you know? Kinda poopy situation, but I got over it.
Right now I'm sorta loath to use the L word with any seriousness nowadays because I've been hurt in the past; but I think one day I'll be ready to use it again.

~*!*~Tatsujin Gosuto~*!*~
August 5th, 2009, 7:44 AM
I don't like rejection so I wait for the boy to ask me out, many people in my school know that by now. Then I make the choice.........lol


A Real True Winner Is Me
August 5th, 2009, 8:56 AM
Yes, my then-friend, now-girlfriend. It was at lunch, I think.

August 5th, 2009, 9:09 AM
I volunteer with kids a lot and I've had a few of them ask if I'd be their girlfriends and such... some guys passing notes... but nothing huge.

August 5th, 2009, 9:12 AM
I have, and unfortunately I said yes out of politeness, and was unhappy for quite some time.

Don't do that, kids. Say no if you don't have feelings for them. =|

.little monster
August 5th, 2009, 2:30 PM
No one has confessed their love to me. : 3

Gold warehouse
August 5th, 2009, 2:40 PM
Yeah, once. Obviously the poor girl didn't know me as well as she thought she did. I was happy to remain as her friend, but never anything more.
I've never told anyone that I love them.

August 5th, 2009, 2:47 PM
No. I don't ask people out. And people don't ask me out.

Although, I have probably liked someone who doesn't like me back, although it was never said.

August 5th, 2009, 2:57 PM
It was certainly nothing like confessing my undying love for someone, but I've certainly had my advances rejected, and rejected rather rudely, if I do say so. :<

August 5th, 2009, 3:02 PM
Twice from me to them, meh - I'm kinda used to it now -.-

August 5th, 2009, 3:33 PM
No-one's ever confessed their love to me- I tend to fall for people who have issues declaring their feelings. Being the shy, insecure person I am, I don't like to make the first move- the one time I did, it was reciprocated. But I guess earlier this year, before my ex (the one I confessed to XD) and I broke up, I told him that I loved him and he didn't really respond in the usual way. He told me that he was unsure if he really knew what love was, and I had the urge to dropkick him. Two and a half years of my life, dammit. XDDD;

August 5th, 2009, 5:27 PM
Once I confessed my love for a friend when I was very young.
Since then though I haven't and although there have been people who told me they liked me I just didn't have the same feelings for them.

August 5th, 2009, 5:52 PM
No one has ever confessed their love for me ;___________;

Nah, but I've had the normal high school relationship record I guess...I've rejected and been rejected as well.

Retro Bug
August 5th, 2009, 5:58 PM
Yeah, I told that person, now they hate me but it was to be expected.

August 5th, 2009, 6:23 PM
Just like, no love. Never felt love before. Yet. :321

I liked this one kid in seventh grade and he turned out not to like me when I told him. It's ok though, he turned out to not be as awesome as I thought he was so it's for the better. OHOH! In third grade, I liked my best friend. He liked our other best friend. I got over that fast and we were still good friends for several years. OHSHOOT, that happened in fifth grade too! I liked this kid who I had just met that year in my class. He ended up sitting next to me so I could tutor him (he=failing student me=good) and I liked him until seventh grade. He turned out to be a loser. As in bad person. Mean. Awful. etc. Everyone I've liked since seventh grade have been secret. I wait for the guy instead, since I'm too afraid to make a move now I guess. I mean, I'd make a move if I knew the guy liked me, but I know that the one's that I've liked haven't liked me back.

Switching sides, I haven't returned feelings for four or five guys. Three of them just this year, actually. I felt so bad in doing so, but I can't force myself to like someone. :/

August 5th, 2009, 6:26 PM
I ignored it because I didn't even know her well.

I was too slow to give a response. I probably have a bit more courage at the present time tho...

Oh, there's been lots of times I wasn't loved back, but they didn't revolve around confessions. When you chat with someone, it's obvious when you're not thought very much of in return, imo.

August 5th, 2009, 9:20 PM
A few people have confessed their love to me. Two of them came on kinda. . Strong. O.o" The others were just like, "I think I love you~" and then stalked me. . >.>

. R e ð e m p † i o n
August 5th, 2009, 9:22 PM
Yes, my then-friend, now-girlfriend. It was at lunch, I think.

Very very similar (It's alike actually), except it was at dinner.

August 5th, 2009, 9:33 PM
Ehh, an 11 year old said she would want to tap me. So if you consider it that way lol.

An 11 year old? XD That's hilarious.

It's happened to me. I don't feel like going into detail. >_>

August 5th, 2009, 9:37 PM
I...guess i turned down a pairing offer from paige, if that counts

August 5th, 2009, 9:38 PM
Most of the girls I've dated have said they loved me and I've said it back, but I never meant it and I don't know if they did either. And when I say love, I mean IN love. I love them as friends, but never in the way it should be. It was just words to say, I suppose. :x

August 5th, 2009, 9:48 PM
I...guess i turned down a pairing offer from paige, if that counts
I don't think so, but rofl! :P

Banjora Marxvile
August 6th, 2009, 11:01 AM
I don't confess love for that very reason: The rejection. Also, no-one does the same back, as who possibly could love such an unsocial, slightly jerk-ish idiot like me? (That is my "real side"). Weird, though, as I have a girlfriend, so... I doubt myself too much...

August 7th, 2009, 6:20 AM
I never rejected anyone, because no one ever confessed their eternal love and adoration for meeeee /shot
Who could ever love a BEAST!? /high u_u

I've only confessed once. as a matter of fact, i was too pathetic to confess myself, a friend did for me
and the boy just LOL'D D8

August 7th, 2009, 4:33 PM
I've been on both sides of this picture more than once.

The first I recall was in the summer before 9th grade, I went to a summer art program for the last year before I would be deemed to old, after having gone every summer for several years. The previous year I made friends with a boy there, and by that year I had grown feelings for him. In short, I was rejected, and he even changed into a completely different person.

Then late in high school, my friend at Tech told me of his feelings, and though I didn't really feel the same, the pressure of the fact that he told me and that my mom was encouraging me to date him made me go ahead. Bad idea. It lasted only a month or so, and the friendship crumbled too.

Last year, in mid-July, I made a friend in one of my classes, and she introduced me to her then-apartment-mates. One of them I fell in love with very fast, and it seemed he liked me as well in the beginning, but by that October/November it was pretty clear he really didn't, if only because he turned into a shallow prick (or perhaps he was one to begin with, who knows).

Right now, I'm currently playing both roles at once. A friend of mine has feelings for me, and I don't for him, and I have feelings for someone I met in a class this past January (whom I often talk about), who doesn't feel the same for me.

The world of love is a madhouse, that's for sure.

August 8th, 2009, 7:27 AM
No one has confessed to me yet, but then, I never did anything to get someone to.