View Full Version : Are you gonna kiss and tell?

April 5th, 2010, 5:25 PM
I was listening to "KIss n Tell" by Justin Bieber...haha which explains the title...

Anyways, have you ever had a boyfriend/girlfriend that you kept a secret from your friends and family?

I did, but it wasn't a secret for very long...like, not even a day...haha.

April 5th, 2010, 5:29 PM
Justin Beiber has a stalker...And no. I have no reason not to tell lol

April 5th, 2010, 5:47 PM
Bieber's a ****** >_>

Anyway, no, why would I hide?

April 5th, 2010, 6:10 PM

Embarrasment? That's one reason...

Captain Hobo.
April 5th, 2010, 7:45 PM
No, I have never kept a girlfriend serect.

April 5th, 2010, 7:47 PM
Ughh, Justin Beaver. xD

No, if I like a girl enough to kiss and go out with, then there should be no reason to hide her.

April 5th, 2010, 9:31 PM
I've never hidden having a boyfriend from my family, but I also don't volunteer that information xD. If they find out, it's usually from another source ie: annoying brother.

Kikaito plush
April 6th, 2010, 1:09 AM
My family know about me and Curtis, they found out two weeks after we started seeing each other.

April 6th, 2010, 9:04 AM
I have. It was some chick online I was "dating" and it was a few years ago.

April 6th, 2010, 11:50 AM
Honestly it depends on how she feels about it. If she has a reason to keep it secret at first, I respect that. I do tend to expect it to be made public within a reasonable timeframe.

As far as kissing...I dont have any impulse to brag about it.

April 6th, 2010, 12:21 PM
Yes, and I still do as a matter of fact. It's been... lemme see, we got together in December... five months. : D

And still going strong. ily Mithila! <3

April 6th, 2010, 12:27 PM
Nope, I don't think so. Anybody I was with usually never had much of a problem telling their family and friends about me.

As for me, my conscience will always win over and I care a lot about my family to ever keep something like that a secret. If there is somebody in my life, I will want to let them know about it, my family cares to a great degree about me and I know they worry a lot, so being open with them and letting them into many aspects of my private life feels wonderful.

I admit, I've been afraid to talk to my parents in the past because everybody around me seemed to have issues trying to tell their family about the person in their lives, and usually have to scheme in order to find their way around spending a life with them; completely disregarding the feelings of those that have been with them and cared for them as they grew up.

I didn't want to be that sort of person, I love my family too much to ever let anything like that happen, that is why...my parents know that I have a boyfriend and any I've had in the past, I talk to them about things that happen between us and even tell them a lot about him. Not only does it boost their trust of my boyfriend, but it also makes them more certain that I'm being straight, and not downright secretive.

April 6th, 2010, 12:51 PM
I've had one. Some dude I dated for a day, but I had loved him for quite a while. lolol My parents + online life = do not need to know

I'm crying cause I love Justin Bieber!!

April 6th, 2010, 2:43 PM
I tend to just avoid it directly and let my mom connect the dots. When I tell her I'm going to a movie with [girl's name here] and then the next week I'm going to the park with [same girl's name here] I figure she gets the idea.

April 6th, 2010, 2:48 PM
Ewwww Bieber
Every relationship I've had like that didn't last longer then a week =/
However no matter what I always tell my closest friends... The ones I trust.

April 6th, 2010, 8:29 PM
Have you ever had a boyfriend/girlfriend that you kept a secret from your friends and family?

nope. why? because im single. love is a complicated thing for me... i'm picky about who gets to be my gf.. heh.

au bon
April 9th, 2010, 2:06 AM
Uuuugh. A nice topic for a thread, but such a horrible inspiration for it. Justin Bieber. u_u

My dad doesn't understand my right to privacy, let alone my reasons for having a long distance / online relationship. So yes, I have kept a relationship secret from my parent. My friends, on the other hand, know about my relationship.

Crystal Glaceon
April 9th, 2010, 6:14 AM

Embarrasment? That's one reason...

If you're embarassed, then you shouldn't be with that person at all

April 12th, 2010, 5:39 AM
No. Because my parents didn't care, or already knew. And my girlfriends aren't ones to keep secrets anyway. Unless it was important.

Ninja Caterpie
April 12th, 2010, 6:11 AM
Haha, let me see...

It's been two years and counting. =P Everyone that I know except the adults knows. I'll tell 'em sometime, if it keeps lasting. xD

<3 Alice

...I'm probably so good at this because we live pretty far apart and we can't do much often ;_;

April 13th, 2010, 7:02 PM
i have never had a bf/gf that i have kept a secret. i believe that if you want to be with someone and you love them then it doesnt matter what other people think.

April 13th, 2010, 7:45 PM
Nope, Ive never hidden one.... probably because Ive never had one, I had my 1st kiss to get it the HELL over with but... Am I pathetic?

April 13th, 2010, 7:47 PM
Nope, never hidden a Girlfriend. Probably because I've never had one, I had my 1st kiss to get it the HELL over with but... Am I pathetic?

Angel Protection
April 30th, 2010, 5:06 PM
Um, if currently counts. And actually I'm not the one hiding it, she is. She says her parents won't let her have a boyfriend. Though, I've got nothing to hide.

April 30th, 2010, 5:17 PM
A long time ago, I had an e-boyfriend. Embarrassing, I know. Anyway, I kept it a secret from my mom because she's one of those 'everyone on the internet is really a psychotic pedophile rapist' type person.

Watch her find this post. :|