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au bon
January 29th, 2013, 5:07 AM
What age were you when you had your first kiss?

Recall the event as best you can. Where were you? What time of day was it? Who was it with? Other details you want to include.

January 29th, 2013, 5:25 AM
Normally a lady doesn't kiss and tell but...

I was 19 and a half and it was terrible. A friend of a friend at Uni asked me out on a date and it seemed that my family were just so excited that I wasn't a lesbian (Ahem.. yeah.. I know >_> what should it matter? *rolls eyes*.. so it seemed like I couldn't turn him down and disappoint them,) so even though I wasn't physically attracted to the guy I figured "hey why not? I hardly know him, he seems nice enough, maybe I'll find that I really like him." No spark after the first date at a museum, but I decided to give him another chance. My family was like "OH WHY DIDN'T YOU KISS HIM MAYBE THERE WOULD'VE BEEN A SPARK!"

Yeah so the second time I saw him, he leaned in for a kiss so I figured.. what the hell, I'll give him a peck to see if there's any of this "spark" everyone keeps talking about. But that is NOT what went down:

So my first kiss ended up being this freaking gross french kiss that caught me off guard and with him grabbing me behind my head, pulling me forward suddenly, and trying to force his nasty-tasting tongue into my mouth, and me trying to push it away with mine and I scraped my tongue on his teeth and it was the most unpleasant experience ever. >_> The WORST first kiss UGHHHH...

Yeah.. no more dates after that LOL...

Alternately, though, I thought that my first kiss with my current boyfriend was really sweet and I enjoyed it. I wont go into detail about though :3 I won't kiss and tell about that.

Miss Doronjo
January 29th, 2013, 5:43 AM
Let's see... I was about 17 years old, and my date and I went up by Niagara Falls on New Years. It was quite vibrant - everyone was celebrating, and they've even decorated the place with lights and some fireworks. As soon as I knew it, my date and I were... pretty close; it was not like the "close" we've had during our relationship. And then, moments later, it all went down.

It was pretty pleasant~ ^^

January 29th, 2013, 6:29 AM
Okay I was 17. It was uh, the day after Christmas. Due to knowing I was going to meet said user (well, an ex-member of here that is) I was like feeling sick all of Christmas Day, and Nan/Pop were expected to go out on the next day but they came home early. Anyway, we met etc! And then we were sitting on the white cushion thing in the backyard which I have purposely avoided sitting on ever since lmao. Anyway it kind of happened while we were sitting there and really it was awkward I had no clue what I was doing (this is somehow sounding sexual idek) and then he used hos tongue which I did not want and it just was weiiiiird.

I hope that when I meet Ole it'll be better? :x Except I still don't know how to kiss now really lool.

January 29th, 2013, 6:36 AM
Hasn't happened yet. Sadly. Forever alone.

Hopefully when it does, it's with someone I love with all my heart.

January 29th, 2013, 8:14 AM
I was 13 and it sucked; not because it was bad but because it was way too sudden and right off the bat haha. We were in my house chilling on my bed and it was just out of the blue, I don't think the other person even knew that it was my first time.

January 29th, 2013, 8:17 AM
I was 14 and ugh it was so unromantic. We were in history class watching a movie and the lights were out and my boyfriend at the time kinda just moved my face away from my view of the tv and kissed me. It wasn't THAT great lmfao. Just weird. idk a lot of people that can say they got their first kiss in class though I suppose. >>

Corvus of the Black Night
January 29th, 2013, 9:19 AM
I think 18. I don't generally like being kissed. My love life started a little late it seems, people having boyfriends when they're 13-14 @[email protected] but yeah I think we were just in the car and by (then) boyfriend kissed me.

I've been kissed by three dudes, but only one of them I felt comfortable with him doing it.

Kikaito plush
January 29th, 2013, 9:29 AM
My first kiss happened when I was 17 and it was my daughter's dad who gave me it. We were in the cinema watching an movie which I don't remember the name of, He turned around to me and laid in on me.It wasn't as good as people have told me though.

January 29th, 2013, 11:58 AM
I was 17 and it was with my girlfriend at the time. It was after our first date and we saw Despicable Me (lmao) and I drove her home. It happened in the car before she got out so yeah :)

January 29th, 2013, 1:12 PM
When I was 11 a guy kissed me (but I didn't kiss him back!), but as for me kissing a guy... never.

January 29th, 2013, 1:19 PM
Never. Mainly because I've been hesitant on this whole relationship thing.

January 29th, 2013, 1:34 PM
I was... 12, I think? It was nothing particularly special honestly and even now I don't find it that awesome. Maybe I'm just a crappy kisser lol. It was at some end-of-school party thing basically full of 12 and 13 year olds who'd had way too much to drink for their lightweight selves and it just sorta happened. Sorta the same as it happens now, haha.

Sweets Witch
January 29th, 2013, 1:37 PM
11 or 12 and we did it because her brother said that he'd buy us a pizza if we did.

It was a joke but we really wanted that pizza.

Evil Stud Muffin
January 29th, 2013, 2:16 PM
13. It was awkward and a bit out there. Basically was invited to my friends birthday party, he's about 1 year younger then me. So before the party, straight after school we went straight to his house, we were discussing how we're gonna play spin the bottle but like a super dirty version(our 13 year old minds were basically steaming from the gears grinding so fast) and so on. Go to the party, and somehow he lets slip a lot of what I said, but it didn't matter cause it was stupid stuff, like how I would like to kiss her or grab her, and so on so far. Whatever. The bottle lands on me by this one girl, who is pretty, but found out and was a bit creeped out. The rest of the kids were being forceful about it, so they locked us up in the bathroom, with someone watching to make sure we kissed. Long story short, we did, and it was awkward cause looking back, she didn't want to so much, but I was being pushy to get myself a kiss.

January 29th, 2013, 5:03 PM
Never had my first kiss yet.

I haven't had one REAL LIFE relationship yet, so it won't be until a while.

There is this girl I like though. But chances are slim.

January 29th, 2013, 7:04 PM
Umm,never..if we count my sweet cutie nephew kiss though!hahaha

i'm 22 and that never happened with me....but i'm sure when that happens it will be be special *rolleyes towards...*whispers*xulek* *giggles*... though,i think it's suppose to be a secret..nobody should know about it! or at least i prefer to keep it that way!^^

January 29th, 2013, 7:33 PM
Clicked this cause I was curious... anyways it hasen't happened yet :P

January 29th, 2013, 7:37 PM
I'm still waiting for the one, surprisingly.

Although I've kissed many people on the cheek. And they've kissed me. Don't count though. =/

February 1st, 2013, 8:06 AM
Oh god. I was 17 (a bit late to the party I know) and was at a party. I went out for a smoke and this girl followed. Big girl. It must have been like 10 degrees outside so she warmed up next to me. she asked me for a light and then forced herself in my mouth. Was a bit drunk at the time. Whats worse is that afterward she called me a bad kisser even though I technically didn't kiss her. I'm not shallow but this girl was acting pretty obnoxious the whole night and was not digging it at all.

February 1st, 2013, 8:30 AM
I don't always post, but when I do, it's about my first kiss!

I was 12, a huge nerd, the nerdiest pokémon player you could imagine. Kissing a girl was just a dream. But I had this very cool friend whose party I went to and in that party I met a very nice and also very nerdy. We did some "female behavior" decoding during that party and figure out she was interest in me, even though she was quite older than me. Like seriously older than me. But nothing happened there so it gets boring after that.

Anyways after some time and some talking with her through MSN (yes it was quite a bit of time ago), I managed to meet her again at a place where they keep horses and horseriding, because she was a big fan of that stuff. So there we go. And then, with help of that same friend, we managed to get alone and boom it happened. Awkward and everything, but first kisses tend to always be awkward don't they?

Well, that lady then became my girlfriend for 9~10 months, it was fun and everything, but ended because after some time we couldn't see each other much.

That's about as detailed as it gets for my first kiss! Unless you want the boring deductions and serious hardcore stalki-- I mean, the parts when I talked to friends about the hypothesis of me ever dating before becoming her boyfriend.

Shiny Celebi
February 1st, 2013, 10:21 AM
I havent had my first kiss yet, but I hope that it's a wonderful experience I'll always remember, I know that sounds really cheesy and hopeful but I'd like it to be like that.

February 1st, 2013, 1:33 PM
Everybody here who's had their first kiss has had it so much later than I did. I was six years old when I had my first kiss. It was back in the first grade in the school auditorium. Every morning the entire school would meet in the auditorium for announcements and to say the Pledge of Allegiance. I was sitting next to a girl named Jessica that I had liked; she liked me too! We started holding hands and then one thing led to the next and all of sudden our lips met. Then sparks flew. Just kidding, sparks didn't fly. I didn't know what I was doing, but it just happened.

February 1st, 2013, 2:04 PM
I was 15 and it was with a guy who ultimately sort of just threw me aside (should have saw that coming) it was so romantic!

February 1st, 2013, 2:16 PM
I was 17, almost 18...taken place at the local mall at my hometown. Kinda wish I'd take that back and use that "romantic" moment on someone else tbh, because the kiss didn't seem serious.

February 1st, 2013, 11:07 PM
Well, I've never had it, I want to, but damn it, I'm just so complicated, I'm not looking for anybody perfect, but someone who gets me, and that I get back, not some flimsy relationship, love, because most of the time, it's not love, you're just lucky if it is.

Shining Raichu
February 3rd, 2013, 1:56 AM
Well mine isn't very difficult to remember, because it was less than a month ago!

It was January 6, 2013 and I was 22 years old. It probably doesn't speak great things of my character that I have engaged in sexual activities but never been kissed, but I guess life works out in different ways for everybody lol.

It was with a guy named Jesse who I am still dating, even though I haven't seen him for about two weeks now. We were standing at a lookout that looked over a beach to the water, and it was nearly midnight. It was our first date and it had been going really well. Earlier in the date he'd said "Can I ask you a question", and I said "sure" and he said "Can I hug you?" and I thought that was really nice. So we just sorta kept hugging increasingly often as the date progressed and kept lingering closer to each other after each one.

Then my heart was pounding because I'd decided to go for it and I'd never done it before and I had no experience whatsoever in kissing (well, kissing mouths anyway). Eventually after one of the hugs we stayed really close to each other and he smiled this adorable little grin and I said "Can I ask you a question?" and he said "Sure" and I said "Can I kiss you?" and then he smiled again and lent in. We both turned our heads to our respective lefts and kissed. Then again.

I think it was about seven times before we came up for air lol

February 3rd, 2013, 2:30 AM
I've never had my first kiss mainly because I've never had the confidence to share an interest in someone. I've had feelings for certain girls but I've never took it upon myself to make something of it.

February 14th, 2013, 5:32 AM

Forever alone. I haven't had my first kiss yet, since I'm only eleven.

February 15th, 2013, 9:57 PM
Still haven't been kissed nor even hugged by a girl like that before xD since not a single girl's had a crush on me before. 16 and still alone ^^ stop making me jealous guys :P

I hope it'll be sweet ^^

February 15th, 2013, 10:16 PM
well im with laugh there, forever alone XD

but im only 13, still waiting, still waiting......

February 15th, 2013, 10:18 PM
I'm also forever alone, despite being 20 which most people would have been expecting me to have had a kiss.

But no, I never kissed any boys that came across my eye.

February 17th, 2013, 6:58 AM
I had my first kiss at thirteen. She was twelve and Australian actually. She lived in West Virginia though and we were at Myrtle Beach in South Carolina. Her name was Ally, short for Allison I believe. She was super cute and friendly, had a good time with her. Too bad distance at that age never works. :(

February 17th, 2013, 10:24 AM
i was 16. was a few months after i had first started college... was with a guy i had a HUGE crush on, like.. the biggest crush i'd ever had on a guy in my life. i told him i liked him and he said he liked me too (lol what a lie) and then we were on break at college and he asked me if wanted to go a walk, so we went a walk and he took me to some empty part of college (like deserted..) and i was like "why are we here" and he just suddenly kissed me and then said "thats why" and i was like "fijeofklsdnlks" and said that that was my first kiss. X'D he kinda used me a bit and we never got together, but two years on we're still good friends. :')