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the past week has been crazy ~

Posted January 29th, 2011 at 8:45 AM by professor plum

As indicated by the title, the past week of my life has been crazy.
It started off awfully: I awoke last Saturday morning to find my phone was dead. This wasn't weird; it happens. But, when I got it to charge, it said I had to connect it to iTunes.

Which, basically means my phone needed to be restored and I needed to use a backup on my computer.

HOWEVER.

Since like January 7th, I've not been able to access my computer.
Of course, due to my luck, my computer came with a faulty HD. And, as a result, for some weird reason, the HD light was constantly like on, which meant something was CONSTANTLY contacting the HD, even when nothing was running. 8|

So, my brother ordered a new HDD from Sony, and it just now came in on like Thursday after like 2 weeks of waiting @[email protected];

Therefore, I was without my computer, and, subsequently my backup for my iPhone. Luckily, my Dad had let me use his computer, so I was able to sync my iPhone, but I lost everything. 8(

So, the next crazy thing that happened was.. the next day, my boyfriend and I broke up.
I've been thinking about breaking up with him for a while now, but not wanting to do it. I just could never hurt anyone like that.
One night, a week or so before we broke up, I said, "What would happen if you broke up with me?" And, then I changed the scenario and we talked it out.

Ever since then, it was on his mind constantly.

I mentioned how I want to become more independent, and not rely on him for stuff, and..well, he mentioned he'd work on his attitude. We'd been fighting every so often beforehand. [Which, consisted of him screaming at me.]
Another factor was that we're both so young to be making a lifelong commitment. Sure, it might've been appropriate to make such commitments in the past..but I'm only nineteen. I don't want to get saddled down this early. :/

I want to live. I want to make mistakes. I want to have an experience before I settle down for good.

Finally, a major factor was that we got too routine - our relationship was just boring. lol. We didn't do anything. :/

Thus, we finally came to the tearful conclusion that we simply should break up. We would remain friends, of course.

The break up, though, was so hard. We both cried so much. lol. The worst part was changing our facebook relationship statuses...which is significant because when I asked him out, we said it wasn't official until it was on facebook.

So, yeah. After six months, one week, and two days, my boyfriend and I finally broke up. And, I miss him. But, I'll move on. I hope he does, too.

And, you never know - we could get back together.

Things, however, have gotten better. I got my computer back last night, and I moved all of my files to their correct folders. I reset my iPhone again, and then synced it to my computer and I got all my data back. [I put my backup from my old HD into the correct folder on my new HD]

So, yeah. My life is getting better, I think. I just gotta work on being me, now. '-'
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    Ho-Oh's Avatar
    Oh wow. DD: Glad everything is getting better though :)
    Posted January 29th, 2011 at 8:54 AM by Ho-Oh Ho-Oh is offline
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    Sydian's Avatar
    Oh bby, you get over things quicker than me. :( I'm at three weeks and it's only gotten worse.

    But yeah, get out and........................................

    ~LIVE YA LIFE AYYYYYYYYYY~
    Posted January 29th, 2011 at 10:00 AM by Sydian Sydian is offline
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    Her's Avatar
    ;-;

    Well, I already knew all of this, but still. ;-;
    You'll get through it, Tyler. It just takes time. Did you take down his stuff yet?
    Posted January 29th, 2011 at 6:48 PM by Her Her is offline