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This is just getting goddamn ridiculous...

Posted February 8th, 2011 at 6:46 PM by Kura

.. I always seem to get hit on by LARGE, OLD, black men.. and it's freaking awkward as heck.
By old, I don't mean your 22-24 year olds.. I mean.. middle aged black guys. Obese or quite overweight black men, too!
I don't get it. I've never been hit on by a white guy in my life (aside from my current boyfriend but we met online.) And I'm not black, myself, either.
I'm your 5' tall white girl :C I'm not even a blonde or anything.

I mean.. black guys are cool guys! There are some really good-looking ones around! But I'm just not romantically attracted to them! (I'm just tend to naturally physically like paler men.. german.. irish.. that sort of thing.)

But.. come on! Does it HAVE to get so damn creepy? Like the other day when we had a meet-and-greet thing within the program for the upperclassmen (us 4th years) to meet some of the freshmen and other years. It was nice to meet some people who wanted to help with our films, too.. That was the POINT of the meet and greet. It was PROFESSIONAL and to meet people that you'll be seeing in the workplace in the future because it's a small industry.. but then it just got creepy..
He was talking to me like.. he was too good to be talking to me.. but also like he was trying to like.. get me interested in what he was saying or something.. and hot damn it was so awkward..

And he nabbed my email from somewhere, too :C.. and gave me this like email that was all "Call me I look forward to getting to know you" and it was just.. "how the HECK did you get this?" sorta thing.

I don't understand.. and freaking heck.. it just sucks my boyfriend lives so far because I would've LOVED to just.. take him with me everywhere I go because I just get caught in these CREEPY FREAKING SITUATIONS FOR NO REASON.

I'm not asking for it either. I freaking go around looking like your average teenager. Jeans, sneakers, a shirt, and a hoodie. You know.. your typical :/ I'm not all that pretty.. but what the hell WHY do I have to run into these sorts of things when there's like nowhere else to walk around.

GROWN MEN SHOULD -NOT- BE PISSING ON THE SIDES OF CROWDED BUILDINGS AT 6PM. SAID GROWN MEN SHOULD NOT BARK AT GIRLS JUST TRYING TO GO TO THE GODDAMN CONVENIENCE STORE AND DISRUPTING THEIR BATHROOM TIME.


I swear I just NEED A BODYGUARD.
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  1. Old Comment
    digi-kun's Avatar
    Perhaps...a large, old, black man?
    Posted February 8th, 2011 at 6:59 PM by digi-kun digi-kun is offline
  2. Old Comment
    Kura's Avatar
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by digi-kun
    Perhaps...a large, old, black man?
    .. :C
    Posted February 8th, 2011 at 7:03 PM by Kura Kura is offline
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    Miss Doronjo's Avatar
    Large, old black men eh? Well, I'm not large or old. ;3;

    Actually, that happens to my mom too; I guess there are a lot of flirts nowdays. ~
    Posted February 8th, 2011 at 7:04 PM by Miss Doronjo Miss Doronjo is offline
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    Forever's Avatar
    XDDDD; Aww Kura, maybe you should try to look bad? :( And if you do, they won't notice you, maybe.
    Posted February 8th, 2011 at 7:10 PM by Forever Forever is offline
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    Luck's Avatar
    well obviously your so pretty some people just cant resist flirting with you
    Posted February 8th, 2011 at 7:16 PM by Luck Luck is offline
  6. Old Comment
    Kura's Avatar
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by Miss Doronjo View Comment
    Large, old black men eh? Well, I'm not large or old. ;3;

    Actually, that happens to my mom too; I guess there are a lot of flirts nowdays. ~
    Your mom doesn't look 15, though :/ People always tell me I look like 15-17 years old >_> What are 35 year old men doing hitting on a 15-year old?!

    >_> And I don't look disheveled.. I mean like.. I take pictures when I look nice and put it on PC, but I'm just too busy to care about walking around with eraser shavings on my hoodie or whatever.. I'm not trying to pick up anyone so I don't even care. I figure I'm not trying to pick up anyone with a pair of jeans, a shirt and an oversized sweater, which is what I wear on most days.
    Posted February 8th, 2011 at 7:38 PM by Kura Kura is offline
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    Sydian's Avatar
    Kura I will be your skinny white guy bodyguard.
    Posted February 8th, 2011 at 8:11 PM by Sydian Sydian is offline
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    Kura's Avatar
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    Originally Posted by Sydian View Comment
    Kura I will be your skinny white guy bodyguard.
    :C You don't live near me though ;____; How can you be my bodyguard?
    Posted February 8th, 2011 at 8:25 PM by Kura Kura is offline
  9. Old Comment
    Nina's Avatar
    Only once have I been hit on, and that was from an overweight white man with you know, full beard, big coke bottle glasses, long hair in a ponytail at a game place playing Magic.

    I was wearing boots so I was probably 6 foot. He called me an "Amazon Goddess".
    I...
    was creeped out and amused.

    But I was dressed up and stuff. :| I have never got hit on besides that. But my sister has!
    She went to WALMART.
    In a hoodie.
    With greasy hair.
    In the gaming section.
    And she got asked for her phone number.

    So I have come to conclusion that guys who flirt often, flirt with anything that has breasts. :|
    Because it makes no goddamn sense.
    Posted February 9th, 2011 at 8:57 AM by Nina Nina is offline
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    Spinor's Avatar
    You're 5'? That's kinda short...

    ... my point is: Maybe African Americans have a subconscious preference for shorter people? I dunno. One of my friends is 5'5" and she's going out with this somewhat-unattractive/unappealing 6' black guy. They hold hands and flirt in the library. What's worse? They hang out near MY math section ;_; Now I am no longer able to sanely study calculus and/or work on my fanfiction near the comfort of math books while my good friend and this ugly dude are on the verge of making out! >__> get a room, don't use my dear library. <That would apply actually to all the idiots that use my dear library to flirt and kiss>

    ...My other point is: Don't make out with a black guy in a library.

    PS: I'm not saying black guys are ugly >__> in case someone got me wrong... it's just that this single guy gives me the vibes.
    Posted February 9th, 2011 at 6:41 PM by Spinor Spinor is offline
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    Kura's Avatar
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by AdvancedK47 View Comment
    You're 5'? That's kinda short...

    ... my point is: Maybe African Americans have a subconscious preference for shorter people? I dunno. One of my friends is 5'5" and she's going out with this somewhat-unattractive/unappealing 6' black guy. They hold hands and flirt in the library. What's worse? They hang out near MY math section ;_; Now I am no longer able to sanely study calculus and/or work on my fanfiction near the comfort of math books while my good friend and this ugly dude are on the verge of making out! >__> get a room, don't use my dear library. <That would apply actually to all the idiots that use my dear library to flirt and kiss>

    ...My other point is: Don't make out with a black guy in a library.

    PS: I'm not saying black guys are ugly >__> in case someone got me wrong... it's just that this single guy gives me the vibes.
    :C Screw you. Now I'm offended. It's not like I can do anything besides break my legs and let the bones mend an inch or two longer >_> and wear heels.

    Haha.. being overdramatic aside.. I also hate PDA @[email protected] Like.. seriously.. when it gets like that like someone should just yell "Get a room" or "Hey I didn't know you were so open! Can I join?!"
    Posted February 9th, 2011 at 9:02 PM by Kura Kura is offline
  12. Old Comment
    hey kura! surely you've noticed i've kind of backed out of pc, but i've admittedly been lurking a select few areas of the forum i've always felt were worth lurking, your blog being one of those areas. so there's that!

    so i HAD to comment on this because, jesus christ, i can relate! i'm about your height, build and complexion and i'm in the very same boat. if a white guy has ever flirted with me it's been so subtle i've failed to notice. but i get very straight-forward, flirtatious remarks from older black men constantly, and- coming from someone who doesn't know how to take compliments- it's pretty awkward and creepy.

    these situations are something i've pondered on, believe it or not, and there are different ways you can look at it. i doubt it's a physical distinction we have that draws black men, i think it boils down to black men generally being more vocal and honest about their natural feelings, connoting a level of genuineness rare in most of society. they also seem to appreciate the female form and its diversities, and on a somewhat related note i've concluded (upon some analysis of both black men i know closely and black men i've only encountered) that black men are very passionate lovers- very observant, supportive, and admiring of a woman's habits and quirks. with that in mind, i've come to appreciate the candor of black american culture, and find black men's unconventional flirting techniques kind of endearing (in fact, there are plenty of white guys i know who could use a few tips from the brothas).

    so maybe this will help you feel better about it and accept that you're gorgeous and the black man's just reminding you because few others have the courage to!
    Posted February 9th, 2011 at 10:12 PM by poopnoodle poopnoodle is offline
  13. Old Comment
    Ghostrk9's Avatar
    well does it matter whether they r u kno(aborignal, i dont like the word black here)its who u love if u find old obese and (aboriginal) attractive so be it! im a teen, a boy,obese,go to school, and very unpopular its not funny but nobody likes me(why did i just put that in?)so really it comes down to who u like.go with ur ahhhh ahhhhhh awwwwwwwww*mumbles* huuuuuuuu (heart) ahh thats better get that out
    Posted February 9th, 2011 at 11:02 PM by Ghostrk9 Ghostrk9 is offline
 

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