I would have had Blissey alive still, I could have switched her out and sacrificed something like Starmie, but you would have probably switched Kingdra had the parawave gone through. But a loss is a loss, I can't win them all.
That flinch is the reason you won. If I haden't flinched, my thunder wave would have gone through, meaning your Kingdra would have been slowed, allowing any of my pokemon to nab the KO. But you got the lucky flinch. And it was. . ok, I guess.
When I was logging onto wifi for the second time it gave me an error saying the serverrs were busy, but then I tried again and it worked. So that must be the problem.