Ah. I agree. Someone shouldn't keep something bottled up inside. It only breeds hate. And the person should talk about it to the other person, nobody else. For, talking to someone else could be consider gossip or backstabbing. At least that is my opionion.
I'm glad you guys are talking it out.
yes, I agree. we have actually just recently begun to really reconnect again. for a while we stopped talking to one another, but that is no way to deal with the problem.