sorry planetdev is screwed up for me atm, but I think you're friend should do it mostly on their own will although they maybe coaxed into it by you're aunt
right what i think this that your aunt request your friend to chase after you since he is a successful trainer. oh and could you send what i sent you to me to archive cause i forgot to archive it. (i archive the plot and changes.) XD
hmm oh i just wanted to see it! the first gym i decided is ghost.... and yes this gym plays a major part in the storyline (mabye?). i'll tell you on the forums.