in my experience, time usually fixes it. this happens every so often and i dont know why. if reconnecting doesn't fix it, the best option is to just accept it and try again at a later time. :)
Are ya able to traqde now and onje more thing, how do I do trades over wifi? Union Room? Sorry, Black is honestly the first Pokemon game I got, SS was just for the feel other have from the classics
that would normally work, but I'm pickin up skyward sword tomorrow and may be playing it all afternoon, haha. so sometime in the late evening might be better, or we could wait til monday.