I dont mind, Im very particular with my genders/abilites/etc too, the nature is usualy the hardest but i have a ditto for everything holding an everstone, just have to breed a egg move chimchar with iron fist and let the eving begin!
Im going hard at this so if youre around long enough it should only be a couple of hours, still trying to get natures/abilities right, the training itself is easy just lots of battles, so it takes time