Conversation Between Faye Rose~ and TheZenTraveler
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January 13th, 2014 5:54 PMFaye Rose~Yeah. We talked every day for hours. And other friends he has all these inside jokes with and just jokes around with them all day. It's hard for me to try to join in and 'just be his friend' because I don't get half the stuff they do.
He's honestly not even worth my trouble. I keep telling myself. Because he isn't. He's lazy, perverted and selfish. But, he's my only option. You can see why I'm in a bind here :c -
January 13th, 2014 5:49 PMTheZenTravelerIf I may ask, did he communicate more before you broke up? and If so, how does he communicate with other confirmed friends? you can always tell a lot about someone's communication habits to analyze their past behaviors with others it seems.
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January 13th, 2014 5:23 PMFaye Rose~Nah it's fine. I don't expect you to know everything considering I haven't told you that much, so you kinda have to speculate.
I don't know why he does that, he just does. I personally think it's because he just doesn't want to be bothered with me because it's too much work. -
January 13th, 2014 5:20 PMTheZenTravelerHmm, It's hard for me to weigh in on this since I'm not one for relationships X[ but The one word answers don't seem very... immersed if you will. Though as I said before It is hard for me to tell whether or not he is helping... I apologize there, I also apologize for speculating earlier :/
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January 13th, 2014 4:47 PMFaye Rose~No, actually I was the one trying to revive the relationship... It's something I regret trying to do in the first place. I just got so attached because I had never received affection like he had given me before in my life.
We've both had our apologies, and we've agreed to just be friends. But I'm still hurt from the breakup. And he goes around talking to other people (this is on another forum) and pretending like I don't exist. And then when I try to talk to him I usually get these half-arsed 1 word answers or he doesn't reply to me at all. But he still insists he loves me as a person and wants to help me live my life how I need to. -
January 13th, 2014 4:43 PMTheZenTravelerTalking Schedule? hmm, why is he continuing to be such a pain? is he trying to revive your previous relationship? Not exactly a good time it would seem... if that's what he's doing/
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January 13th, 2014 4:35 PMFaye Rose~Yeah. A way is a way indeed. It's a path I must take to live the life I truly want to live.
He really is a pain though. I think I'm going to plan out a 'talking schedule' with him so I still talk to him but I don't stress about having to initiate contact.
I'm just trying to not be hurt (emotionally) by him again. -
January 13th, 2014 4:32 PMTheZenTravelerWell a way is a way, especially when one's sanity is concerned. Stress is a killer, so anything that depletes it must have some good right?
as for support, It seems to be an almost required thing for humans. After all we do tend to be socially based creatures, at least most of us. So having even someone who can be a pain in the rear and still supports you through the bad Is still invaluable -
January 13th, 2014 4:01 PMFaye Rose~Sadly he's my only way out. That's really the only reason I keep contact, sadly enough. If I was more sane I would have quit associating myself with him weeks ago.
Thing is, I don't think I can do anything for myself without knowing anybody to support me. Even if he is a pain, he still supports me to an extent and that's invaluable to my sanity :| -
January 13th, 2014 3:54 PMTheZenTravelerIt's ok I keep Vming myself as well XD
As for your parents and friend whom is being difficult, I've never met any of them so I can't have an opinion on how they act and where their values lie. Have you considered any other strategies for leaving? deku leaf? talking boat? pokemon journey? Exodus to Alaska (that's my plan in a few years ^-^) -
January 13th, 2014 3:41 PMFaye Rose~Oh, I didn't even notice xD
I was wondering why there was no reply lol -
January 13th, 2014 3:32 PMTheZenTravelerXD I just realized you vmed yourself
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January 13th, 2014 2:41 PMTheZenTraveler? cause of the college and stuff
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January 13th, 2014 2:39 PMFaye Rose~xD
I'm trying to make the most out of it. It's hard right now though. -
January 13th, 2014 2:36 PMTheZenTravelerWell you pretty much have one shot in this world, you should be able to do whatever you want to. I'd just avoid the super inhumane things, Like genocide... genocide is Sooo 1940's fascism XD

