Conversation Between Zoroark Cutie and Dedenne1
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  1. Dedenne1
    February 4th, 2016 2:21 PM
    Dedenne1
    Ya tbh we just dance fakely we do whatever we want at our dances which can include some sexual moves as well if im being completely honest or it can be just moving with the song as well. (lol hello is impossible)

    ya i cannot take a selfie for my life it has to be just right with me and im usually looking into the distance haha
  2. Zoroark Cutie
    February 3rd, 2016 8:47 PM
    Zoroark Cutie
    They were terrible. What makes me really dislike the song selection is that you can't dance to them. Dance songs, well, you really don't dance to them, you just follow a bunch of instructions and you don't look like your dancing, and country songs, you can't really dance to them. Maybe if they are slow, you can do a slow dance, but that is it and that really isn't fun. I'd rather dance to something like Katy Perry's Last Friday Night, Ke$ha's TiK ToK, Lady Gaga's Poker Face, Macklemore's Thift Shop (As long as I'm not wearing expensive clothes which I don't even have any expensive clothes.), Rihanna's SOS, or Toni Basil's Mickey. At least those people can dance to, you can't really dance to something like Toby Keith's Red Solo Cup, Dolly Parton's I Will Always Love You, Miranda Lambert's Automatic, anything by Johnny Cash (Except for maybe Ring of Fire), or that stupid song on how a house made a woman. Granted, you could probably dance to Red Solo Cup because it is a party song, but why would you, it's a song by Toby Keith professing his love for a plastic cup, not to mention that the pacing of the song is really undanceable (If that is a word). I will say that there are country songs you can dance to, but these were examples of songs they would play. I actually remembered that I requested the song "Take On Me" by A-ha, and they instantly rejected the song saying that it's a song you really can't dance to which I beg to differ. Just imagine if they had a dance now after 2015, and 2015 and even this year, a lot of songs especially really popular ones, were so slow that they were so undanceable, like Adele's Hello.

    I don't like selfies either to be honest. I mostly hate selfies thanks to some of my friends on Facebook and Twitter, where they literally take photos of themselves in the same places, same poses, just with different clothes and make up on and most of the time in the mirror. I know two friends in particular, all their selfies look so similar to each other that the only difference is the clothes they wear, and most of my friends on both sites they always have their cameras turned sideways, a filter over a picture, and a good chunk of their face missing. I actually loggged into Facebook and the first thing I see is one of my friends has a picture of herself with her left eye and top of her head missing and her entire neck showing. I also see selfies as a way to just get attention if uploaded in very large quantities (Like 10 selfies in 10 minutes). That is why I don't take selfies that often, I will only take them if it is for a profile on a site like Facebook, or if I want to show people what I look like and I only upload a few at a time, at the max 3. I think the most I've done at one time was over on The Treehouse, there was some thread about what kind of clothes people wear, and I took a few selfies of the kind of clothes I wear (Which they are all terrible. They are all in low quality thanks to my laptop's built in webcam, and I think I repeated the same pose in all of them.). I forgot how many I took, it was like 3 or 4 I took, hopefully not 5, but that was the most selfies that I took. I took 2 recently, but they weren't great since they were in my room and my room was dark with the only light coming from my TV and laptop.
  3. Dedenne1
    February 2nd, 2016 1:10 PM
    Dedenne1
    Ya dances here are 25 i believe theyre expensive but worth it if you wanna have fun with a group or something but then again those songs sound terrible xD atleast we have an actually good song selection that s not worth the money no one even would dance to tose here

    Haha thats something i personally hate selfies but thats cause im terrible at taking them haha i think i have a maximum of 3 on my PC xD
  4. Zoroark Cutie
    February 1st, 2016 4:47 PM
    Zoroark Cutie
    Here's honestly how I look at it. When it comes to a relationship, both parties should be treated fairly and them doing something between them rather if they like it or not is a tricky one, but the best way that I can say is that it should work in a way that makes both people happy. With me and the person I'm dating, he doesn't have to do something with me if he doesn't want to, and whatever I do with him that I don't want to do, but he does, it just depends on what it is. It's gonna be different for other people, but I think the most important thing is to at least do something together and make it to where that when it comes to doing something together, both parties should be happy and have it in a way that is okay with both of them. That aforementioned dance, what ended up happening was that it was a Valentine's Day dance, however it was not happening on Valentine's Day, but rather it was happening about a week earlier, and it was happening smack dab around my birthday, I can't remember if it was the day early, a day later, or exactly on my birthday, but either way, I couldn't go because I already made some plans. Not to mention that admission into the dance was expensive, it was like $10-$20, and I mostly did nothing in the last dances they I had and the song selection were either country or dance songs like Cupid Shuffle or Cha-Cha Slide (Both genres that I dislike and I dislike dancing to), and the song selection was rigged so I'd rather not waste my money. I still say that I shouldn't have gone if I really didn't want to, and I didn't want to, I didn't force her to do stuff with me or even whine and begged to, and she never did even when she had the chance, but I shouldn't have to go if I didn't want to, and even then I couldn't, I even told her that I couldn't go to it, so I really don't see what I did wrong, but they blame me and they possibly still do.

    I honestly don't think I do look handsome (plus I really don't want to be called handsome personally), but you are right, personality matters more than appearance. I think one way that I can help boost my self-esteem for my appearance is to take selfies, which is one way that I've been trying to do lately, and I have somewhat done (I do have some pictures of myself on PC and they aren't gonna be the last). But overall, you are right and it should be my personality that matters, not my appearance.
  5. Dedenne1
    February 1st, 2016 1:35 PM
    Dedenne1
    Awh thats no fun thats probably why i never really care cause i basically think that its their fault for not liking me cause im freaking awesome haha. On the dance thing thats just stupid i mean for me love means doing things i kinda dont wanna do (although i love dances and parties) and id go for them but if im not allowed thats no longer my issue.

    Secondly you shouldnt think that way im sure your plenty handsome even if you dont think so and looks arent always what matter your personality :D
  6. Zoroark Cutie
    January 31st, 2016 8:46 PM
    Zoroark Cutie
    I want to say that I've never been dumped, although I really can't say if I was. The first person I dated, my now ex-girlfriend, we got mad at each other, she got mad over something stupid and it was because I didn't go to a dance that she wanted to and I really didn't want to go to, and I couldn't go to it even if I wanted because of something, and I got mad at her because she was just refusing to talk to me because of it, and we both got really mad to the point where we broke up, I was the one that said that I was breaking up, but I have a feeling she had already made the decision to break up with me. I'm just gonna say that it was a giant hit on me, I literally broke down in tears and I was depressed for a week or two. On a side note, and off topic, I'm still pretty mad over that because her and her mom made it out and even said that I was in the wrong because I didn't go to that dance, which is really unfair if you ask me because I didn't want to go and I shouldn't have to go if I don't want to and as I said, I couldn't go even if I wanted to. Although, in my previous relationship, when I broke up with my now ex-boyfriend, I still got depressed. My current boyfriend, along with a few other friends can tell you that I was depressed before it happened and a bit after it did happen, because I consulted them about it and I was just both sad and worried because I was like "This was the first person I went out with in 3 years, and I don't want to be single again, but I'm not happy being with them and I don't want to break their heart.", and I was a bit depressed when it happened, but I sorta hid it and put on a happy go lucky facade (A little bit of fun fact, I even put on the same facade on here on PC when I am depressed.). I think for me, I am gonna get sad after each breakup and I hope and know that the relationship I am in is gonna last a very, very long while, but if something did happen and me and this person do break up, I will guarantee you that I will be sad to the fullest. I think that it has to do with how I see myself, which I'm gonna be honest, I have very low self-esteem for myself, I think I look ugly, I don't like my voice, and I think of myself as a loser which is probably why I got really depressed in my 2 breakups because I thought that I would not be with someone else and that I won't be good enough for someone else, although it has been clearly been shown to me that I am good enough for someone multiple times as I had people interested in me, especially last year. I am honestly trying to help boost my self-esteem so that way I feel better about myself, feel more confident, and be more happy.
  7. Dedenne1
    January 31st, 2016 2:11 PM
    Dedenne1
    Haha thats really good atleast you learned! I on the other hand have never been dumped so im not that educated in the area of grieving or anything :P
  8. Zoroark Cutie
    January 30th, 2016 4:37 PM
    Zoroark Cutie
    That's a lesson that I learned the hard way. That person that I mentioned that I dated for less than 2 months, I knew the person from many years back, I didn't talk to them for like 2 or 3 years, then September comes around, we talked again over Facebook IM, and then we got onto Skype, talked on there, and I asked them out after 1 hour of talking after I had said something like "If we stay in touch and get to know each other more, I'll think about asking you out.". I rushed too fast, and I blame myself because I was desperate and I should've just waited it out to see if I would've liked to be with that person. That's why I didn't make the same mistake on the guy I'm dating now. I've known him since July, kept in good amount of contact with him for months, got to know him really well, and I'm confident to go out with them knowing that I made the right decision.
  9. Dedenne1
    January 30th, 2016 7:40 AM
    Dedenne1
    I just dont really accept that many haha i gotta really know the person to trust them that much like all my relationships start out as friendships so ik who they are b4 i date them but still its been a lonnnnnnnnng time haha
  10. Zoroark Cutie
    January 28th, 2016 3:24 PM
    Zoroark Cutie
    Yeah, because the last person I went out with, lasted less than 2 months, and it was due to that severe lack of communication which made me feel lonely and sometimes ignored, also I was being listened to, especially when it came to kids which I said multiple times that I didn't want kids and they just refused to listen, and overall it didn't make me happy. You're lucky and make good decisions on who to go out with since you never had any bad experiences :)
  11. Dedenne1
    January 27th, 2016 5:10 PM
    Dedenne1
    Idk why i said that haha its not always that way i mean i havent had any bad experiences dating i mostly date people ik wont hurt me or anything and it takes alot to hurt me so ya xD idk
  12. Zoroark Cutie
    January 23rd, 2016 3:18 PM
    Zoroark Cutie
    Thanks :). I couldn't be more happier if I tried right now X3. I wouldn't say dating is always fun and is always happy, it mostly depends on who you're dating and if they are good. The guy I'm currently dating is so sweet, caring, and fun that I just love him to death and it is never unfun when I'm with him.
  13. Dedenne1
    January 21st, 2016 3:58 PM
    Dedenne1
    Awh well im glad your happy dating is always fun and full of hapiness :D
  14. Zoroark Cutie
    January 21st, 2016 2:24 AM
    Zoroark Cutie
    I'm sorry, I really didn't want to X3.
    I can't tell you how far away we live, again I have to keep him a secret until our friend makes the thread. But I can say he lives more than 200 miles away from me. It's really cool to be dating someone from a forum. I honestly thought that I was out of his league and I was not good enough for him to ask me out, but when I saw him flirting with me, and then I asked him about it and he admitted that he had feelings for him and that he was scared of asking me out, I told him that he can ask, he asked, I said yes, and I have not had single ounce of regret and I've been very happy to be with him. He also admitted that he had feelings for me for a while before we started. To be honest, some of our friends had shipped us together in November either when I was getting ready to dump the last person I was dating or after I dumped them (I dumped the last person due to a severe lack of communication which led to 3 huge problems.), and even 2 ship pics were drawn right before me and him started. Who knew that shipping would actually become true X3? I'm glad to be with him, he really loves me and cares a lot about me, and I feel the same way towards him.
  15. Dedenne1
    January 19th, 2016 5:14 PM
    Dedenne1
    U KEPT A SECRET FROM DEDENNE??? HOW COULD YOU
    Haha thats cool so do you guys live like close to eachother? I cant say ive ever met anyone online that id date but thats really cool especially b/c it was on PC you must have plenty in common