Well she's had a brainstem stroke 10 years ago so she's bed-ridden and basically can't move from the neck down. She's all there mentally (though recently she's been slowing down because of ceisure meds) and my mom and my aunt look after her every day. We couldn't just leave her.
:3 Haha will do! I've met a lot of online friend IRL and it's always very pleasant. If I ever do I'll give you a shout.