So you're only leaving because you get negative rep from mods and thus can't become a mod? Now that just BS! What's so special about being a mod? It's not really fun stuff, you're no different from regular members, you just have more work to do (checking reported pms, checking topics and mod posts in sections etc). Really, you should be happy that you're still on this wonderful forum and are able to talk with others, and even make friends with those that don't know you! The community is big, there's no ****ing way everyone knows you. The people who give you negative rep are just a fraction compared with the community.
So basically, even though I understand your dream, the community isn't just about becoming a mod, there's MUCH more to do, there are countless people who don't know you and thus can be made friends with. You can't leave just because of this little thing, you can do much more and better stuff here.
Just like I said, just ignore it. I'm not loved by the mods either, yet I haven't left. There are MUCH more members than just the few who are giving you bad rep.