Well, I've written up a little something that might be of assistance. I've placed you on my ignore list temporarily. Maybe in a few weeks I'll remove you, and if you're still around PC, you'll get a chance to know me.
You'd still be safer if you avoided using PC for asking people over. :p (meaning you'd have to earn my friendship first, then my MSN/E-mail addy then asking me.)
This is the required method to recruit me. Failure to do so puts your site on my blacklist, meaning it never got a shot. :p
Well, you should definitely talk to whoever is hosting your forum and see why. If you're paying for hosting, you've got every right to know what's wrong with the servers.