There's so many other proofs as well. I can't even remember all of 'em since it's just so natural to be with him now. But the way we fell in love is the biggest one. I had missed him so badly, and he was just a friend who I lost contact with. Few days after I was thinking about how much I wish I could talk with him again, wondering if I'd ever get a chance to, he came back. It weirds me out to this day....
Yes! We ARE meant to be together. Man, it's just mindblowing how amazing it all is. How perfect we are together. There's so many proofs I have that he and I are soulmates.
It's almost freaky sometimes!! We say the same thing/have the same thought at the same time, finish eachother's sentences, answer eachother's question before the other one asks, and a few times we actually could taste what the other was eating?! I swear it was so weird. He and I were chatting on instant messager, not webcam. And out of nowhere I'm craving pizza to the point where I feel like I can taste the delicious cheese in my mouth. I tell him this, and hes like..oh. WOW I'm eating pizza!! Freaky stuff.
And no- surprisingly Tommy is my first and only love. I've never been in other relationships, like I said I never wanted to. I never met anyone in my life who I was interested in...I mean, in high school I never dated because the guys were immature. And in college, all I see is people who wanted to get drunk, play WoW and DnD..really immature didn't do their work..so no college guys.. So Tommy was one of those rare men in this world who are perfect for a serious relationship. He's a really loving, commited, faithful to one women, mature guy. He knows what he wants out of life, and he knows how to have a good time to! He's 30, but he's not too adultish and boring. He loves to cosplay and watch movies, play games! It's great!
I don't want to say I'd commit suicide, because I dont think I could do that. I have my family, I have my pets (3 rats, turtle, and a fish). But honestly, I cannot imagine my life without him. I think I might die of a broken heart.
That's why today was so traumatizing. When he said he was changed...I felt as if the man I knew and loved had died......and it was unbearable. I kinda just wanted to lie down and die. T^T
Don't worry though...We talked on the phone 3 times today ever since our fight this afternoon-and they were all good talks. We're okay now. He had a hard time concentrating on his papers, he felt really guilty for hurting me the way he did. And he's going to make sure that he improves, doesnt make the same mistake again, doesn't hurt me that way again. We're definitely okay.
=O The gyms in D/P/Pl are way more complicated than in HG/SS!! It's been forever since I went through Diamond...I went back to finish Platinum now...and wow..surprised at how simplified they made the SS gyms.
Aw don't be afraid. I'm actually still exactly who I was before I met him. I still am passionate about getting my career working with animals veterinary/or working with wildlife/zoos. Only difference is I get to share all that with my future husband, and maybe one day I won't be too afraid of considering children. Lolz.
Aww yea, but look at me! I was sooooooooo against getting married. I NEVER wanted anything to do with marriage, with men, with boyfriends, relationships, I wanted to live alone with my pets and have my career. I never wanted a guy, I never wanted to have kids. I dunno why, but I just never wanted any of that.
Falling in love with him...changed all of that. I didn't even expect it.
Yea 30/50 would be wrong. I think if the person is old enough to be your father or mother, than it is wrong and just gross. And definitely not 10/20! Poor child! It's just so cruel. You gotta be at least legal age (18+) to be in any type of serious age difference relationship!
I'll tell you lol. He just turned 32, I just turned 20. But we don't notice it..so it doesnt feel weird or wrong or anything. Besides, he looks younger than he is. But yea I agree, I don't think a 10 yr old should be with a 20 yr old! And I don't think a 20 yr old should be with a 50+ yr old! So yea it matters, but I think 20/30 is fine.