Ah; but you do have a big problem. You've got a tendency to express these "opinions" as forcefulness ~ which is the sign that you doubt your own conviction; which is ultimately an inferiority complex. Self-loathing is very prevalent in online communities and there's nothing to be ashamed of as long as you can come to terms with your problem and address it in a constructive way. Big-noting yourself and disrespecting women is, of course, not a constructive way to go about this.
My advise is to just ease off and stop being so intense. Have opinions; but don't spout them as a god-imparted-right that everybody must take notice of. Real convictions don't need to be justified~