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^^NICK^^ v.3.0 July 8th, 2004 8:42 PM

Spankings, ooohhhh
 
Touchy subject, do you believe in spankings, and would you spank your children? I'm going to leave it at that.

aaaaaa July 9th, 2004 4:53 AM

I wouldn't spank my children.
Mainly because to me, a bare bottom spanking is very erotic, and doing it to my own child would just feel immoral.

Iveechan July 9th, 2004 8:48 AM

If they really really REALLY p-iss me off I'd slap them. Just one slap, not a beating. Did you know that a very light slap that in no way causes pain can make a kid cry? They're such sissies. I'm never having any stupid brats. But I would rather that other alternatives be found. It makes me cringe when a kid in public gets slapped and you can hear it. Anyway, I was slapped, and look how normal I turned out :D.

Oh, so now P-ISS is editted out? What's wrong with this forum? Jesus Christ...

Greed July 9th, 2004 8:57 AM

I wasn't spanked. I was beaten with a belt and TV cables. O_o;; And yes, I would do that to my kids. =/ That's why i dun wanna have any, kids are too much trouble. And I hate them.

*dies*

Legendary_Pokegirl July 9th, 2004 9:00 AM

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Originally Posted by CaRtOON
I wasn't spanked. I was beaten with a belt and TV cables. O_o;; And yes, I would do that to my kids. =/ That's why i dun wanna have any, kids are too much trouble. And I hate them.

*dies*

Oh thanks.... Does that mean you hate me?

No, I would spank my kids, hitting kids is very wrong indeed.

Chairman Kaga July 9th, 2004 9:08 AM

You're no better than your disobedient child if you lower yourself to inflicting pain on them, it's WRONG to hurt anyone, and negative reinforcement of a rule is only going to slowly teach them what hatred is, what violence is, and you can bet that if it happens enough you'll never be able to control them again...I remember being hurt as a child way more clearly than I remember being treated kindly, although I was treated kindly much more. Bad memories are always stronger and more apparent in someone's mind than good memories...I don't remember anything from when I was three except my aunt shoving a bar of soap in my mouth, choking me on the suds, even though I was too young and innocent to know what I was saying...it's basically child abuse. There are much kinder and more civil ways to teach a child right from wrong; time-outs, taking away privileges, or, if they'll listen, you simply reason with them, even yell at them, but hurting my child is something beyond that which I'm capable of.

Hex Maniac July 9th, 2004 9:24 AM

i would only spank my kids if they did something REALLY bad. otherwise, i'd just give them a time-out or take away something from them.

Greed July 9th, 2004 9:27 AM

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Originally Posted by Legendary Pokegirl
Oh thanks.... Does that mean you hate me?

No, I would spank my kids, hitting kids is very wrong indeed.

No, I dun hate you. o_o; I just meant little little kids. XP Sorry if you thought something else. X.x;

I think hitting kids is okay as long as you're not hitting them nearly to death. o.o; I mean, kids today are punks due to the fact they don't get the crap beaten out by their parents. Peeps need to teach kids that they're the bosses, so a little slap wouldn't hurt anybody. But I don't think hitting a baby is right, that's wrong. O.o; I think hitting a child should only be as the last resort, not as a warning.

*dies*

Legendary_Pokegirl July 9th, 2004 9:29 AM

But little kids arent puppies! XD And a little slap would hurt somebody....the kid.

Iveechan July 9th, 2004 9:32 AM

Tme-outs and stuff only work if the parents follow through with it. Which they usually don't. They say "Time out for 5 minutes" and in less than a minute they give in. They say "No TV for a week", but then they slack off and the kid gets back into the routine of TV watching. People are weak and stupid, and as a result a new generation of losers is being made.

Greed July 9th, 2004 9:38 AM

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Originally Posted by Iveechan
Tme-outs and stuff only work if the parents follow through with it. Which they usually don't. They say "Time out for 5 minutes" and in less than a minute they give in. They say "No TV for a week", but then they slack off and the kid gets back into the routine of TV watching. People are weak and stupid, and as a result a new generation of losers is being made.

Couldn't have said it better myself.

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Originally Posted by Legendary Pokegirl
But little kids arent puppies! XD And a little slap would hurt somebody....the kid.

But its that kids today refuse to listen. They give in to their darn peers and end up doing stuff. ;__; Parents have to discipline them.

*dies*

Jacob Madrox July 9th, 2004 9:49 AM

Im not having kids, if I wanted to beat some1, I have my targets :D :dead:
anyway, yeah, Kid Beating, I guess its wrong.

100marios July 9th, 2004 9:58 AM

I would never spank my kids, even if a really bad situation were to come up. Not only does it hurt him or her, but it begins to tear away at the relationship you two hold. I would like more then anything to gain respect from child (if that time ever comes), and while it is possible to obtain it through these means, it will all be because of the constant fear of you hurting them again. Sometimes, when my sisters and I go to the park, I see a few parents getting ridiculously angry at their children, and begin calling them names and such, just because they couldn't hit a ball, or go down a slide. While this certainly isn't physical abuse, I'm still stunned by this sight. When kids are so young, they always aspire to be like their parents, the people who are supposed to love them to no end. These kind of things really hurt them.... not just physically, but mentally as well.

There are other ways to discipline your children, but I just this kind of physical abuse cruel.

Greed July 9th, 2004 10:04 AM

*realizes 100Marios is a girl* Whoa dude.. o_o;;

Anyways, I dun know. Maybe this kind of topic is one of those "neither-side-wins". Cus mostly peeps that get beaten agree with abuse. That's the way they've been brought up. I envy peeps who are more compassionate not to hit their kids, I wish I was like that. Kids love peeps like that. If I had kids, I'd make their life a living heck. I'd be a terrible momma.

*dies*

Missingno Baby July 9th, 2004 10:09 AM

In the the Bible it says something about not provoking your children, so I'm not gonna...ewwwww.....do that, besides... it's disgusting...I get hit enough with the belt....>:)
a1377a, I agree....and people, don't think that just cause I'mn 12 doesn't mean I don't know anything and don't know what 'erotic' means...thank you

^^NICK^^ v.3.0 July 9th, 2004 10:26 AM

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Originally Posted by CaRtOON



I think hitting kids is okay as long as you're not hitting them nearly to death. o.o; I mean, kids today are punks due to the fact they don't get the crap beaten out by their parents. Peeps need to teach kids that they're the bosses, so a little slap wouldn't hurt anybody. But I don't think hitting a baby is right, that's wrong. O.o; I think hitting a child should only be as the last resort, not as a warning.

*dies*

Yeah, I totally agree. If you don't hit your hit them for doing bad stuff, they will walk all over you, like those kids on Maury. I got spanked/beat whatever you want to call it before. I'm not saying it's fun, but it teaches me discipline. And, I think you should only do it when your child has crossed the line, only. Not for stupid things, because that's like, abuse. If I have children, I will try to use spankings or whatever as a last resort, because I don't think it's that cool to beat kids, because beating is somethign you do to like, a robber or something. Gosh, was that confusing or what?

Chairman Kaga July 9th, 2004 11:06 AM

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Originally Posted by Iveechan
Tme-outs and stuff only work if the parents follow through with it. Which they usually don't. They say "Time out for 5 minutes" and in less than a minute they give in. They say "No TV for a week", but then they slack off and the kid gets back into the routine of TV watching. People are weak and stupid, and as a result a new generation of losers is being made.

Still, that's the responsibility of the parents...if they're actually going to give in to their kid that's pretty sad.

TRIFORCE89 July 9th, 2004 11:20 AM

If you can raise them properly to begin with you'll probably never have to result to that. I've never done any "bad" or "wrong", thusly never been "disciplined". I was taught very early on right from wrong, so I never ended up doing anything that result with being hit. But then again, I don't have the type of parents who would hit their children.

Parents today (for the most part) give their children too much freedom early on and spoil them. Then from this freedom their child can feel that they have the right to act "negativley" (although the child may not think it is). Then the parents react and hit because the child isn't comprehending this thing called discipline and restrictions since they've never been introduced to it.

^^NICK^^ v.3.0 July 9th, 2004 11:36 AM

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Originally Posted by TRIFORCE89
If you can raise them properly to begin with you'll probably never have to result to that.

Okay, that's false. No child never doesn't do any wrong, it's impossible. Everybody makes mistakes, and nobody is perfect.

Missingno Baby July 9th, 2004 11:42 AM

Afirmitive.
Remember,

Treating your children badly will come back and bite you in the-

Anyways, I agree with Nick, no one is perfect.

TRIFORCE89 July 9th, 2004 11:53 AM

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Originally Posted by ^^NICK^^ v.3.0
Okay, that's false. No child never does any wrong, it's impossible. Everybody makes mistakes, and nobody is perfect.

Sorry, I did mean to imply that anyone is perfect. I should probably reword what I wrote. How about, "If you can raise them 'properly' to begin with then hopefully you'll never have to result to that." I know everybody does wrong. But I meant wrong enough to deserve a spanking (although in my opinion noone deserves one). Time out? Sure! Violence? No.

Ryoutarou July 9th, 2004 12:02 PM

I for one dont see anything wrong with this. If you dont and allwasy treat your kids good they will be spoiled. Sure you could scold them with words, but after a while that will tend to not be as effective as it use to. You have to do that, kids need to know if you do something wrong your going to have to pay for it. You need to set them up for the real world. Now i'm not saying do it for every little thing. Just for the bigger things that they do wrong. Just remember you never want a spoiled kid. Just dont ever go overboard and gett really bad with it, as a kid I was hit with unbelivable stuff (Poles, Bats, glass, etc) and that stuff really scars you for life, emotional and physhicallly. I know I have some scares on my body that I not to proud of, but then again I guess it was sort of needed for me. As I child I was one spoiled little prick, I never got introuble that much untill my dad(thank god he is gone now) finally stop taking it. At first it was just with belts, but later it got a lot harder. Still I think now, looking back on it I desereved it but with a belt not with some of the stuff I had. So like I said it's ok as long as you only do it for things that you know the kid knows is wrong, you cant be hitting them for every little thing, that will teach them to be abbisive later on in life and thats the last thing anyone wants for a kids especially if it's a boy. So ya go ahead and do it but just dont go overboard.

^^NICK^^ v.3.0 July 9th, 2004 12:07 PM

I don't think time outs help. When I see children getting time out, I really want to laugh. Oh, how I want to just... URGH!

Like, two years ago, I saw some little brat in Wal-Mart. SHe was definately spoiled, and she was wearing a pink princess dress. She wanted some gift wrap (don't ask...) and the adult with her (not her mom) wouldn't buy it. She threw a fit, and throw her pink coat on the ground and screamed, and hit her gaurdian several times. My mom, sister, and I just looked at her.

That's a child that needs a serious spanking.

Missingno Baby July 9th, 2004 12:20 PM

...I used to get soooooooo ticked when my mom wouldn't let me buy the things
I wanted, but now, I can set limits for myself...
blue, did you dad seriously do that to you.....?

Ryoutarou July 9th, 2004 1:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Missingno Baby
...I used to get soooooooo ticked when my mom wouldn't let me buy the things
I wanted, but now, I can set limits for myself...
blue, did you dad seriously do that to you.....?

Ya he did, not everyone has a perfect suger coted life...I found that out WAY to early on in life...It's hard but I got use to it...weather thats a good thing I really have no idea but like I said spanking are what kids need to be kept in line. But really I wouldent wish what I went through on my worst enemys kids[/QUOTE]


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