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poopnoodle October 18th, 2009 6:48 PM


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Have you tried explaining your side to people who won't even try to understand?
I always understand, in fact, I gained a lot of friends for I never judge a person without understanding them.
But they're different when they treated me, but I never did something to them, they just label that what I did was " bad and unforgivable "
and I really got shocked about it. The next day, as I entered our room, eyes that pierces my very heart, they stared at me
with malicious kind of thinking. I am afraid.
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One of them talked to me, and I explained what happened. You know what he/she said? ( covering the gender )

" Bah! just shut up will you, I don't care about you anymore! " ...
Well, think it over -- were your actions justifiable? (It'd be nice to know what you actually did so people who want to help you can give a better judgment, but if you really would rather not post what happened, know that you may not receive very helpful feedback.)
If these people aren't even willing to give you the time of day to let you justify whatever you did, then they're not exactly being good friends themselves. They might need a little time to get over whatever happened, but if their anger persists, perhaps it's time for you to try making new friends.

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I'm afraid I'm losing my touch in going to school.
Don't let social issues get in the way of your education, you'll probably regret that more than any mistake you've made in the past. (There are worse adversities you could be facing.) Just try to move along, and hope that your friends will give you a second chance. We've all made mistakes, I'm sure they have, and it seems a bit unfair to leave you high and dry when you (claim to) be the one to, as you said, always understand. Of course, like I said, this situation is hard to judge considering you haven't told us what you did.

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I feel really depressed. Is it right for me to just always understand? Is it right for me to let them think what they want to think?
It's okay to "understand" as long as you're not letting people walk all over you. It's hard to trust people, especially when they've hurt you, but I don't think it's best to hold grudges -- which is actually what they seem to be doing. If you really had a good reason for doing whatever you did and your friends are that stubborn, then you'll have to let them think what they want to think until the situation blows over. But if you get an opportunity (don't constantly bother them about it), try to get them to acknowledge your stance, and at the same time listen to theirs. Even if your actions were justifiable, I suggest you throw in some apologies. Also, don't spaz out and ignite a crazy argument (you don't seem like the type to do that, but just in casies), remain calm and rational.

Just keep your head up for now, you control your emotions, don't let this get to you so much.


Caina October 21st, 2009 5:39 AM

It wasn't really that considerable as a bad act.
More like I was hanging out with friends where they think I was finally
"changed"..

Know what I mean?

I am a kind of person who never sticks to one group of people, I hang out to many.
And when they found out, they misunderstood me and
now starts hating me. :(

Hnhhhhh... it's still going on though, nothing progressed..
Why am I hated so much just because of it..?

The other one even put me on a shameful situation
during English Class...

poopnoodle October 21st, 2009 4:26 PM

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It wasn't really that considerable as a bad act.
More like I was hanging out with friends where they think I was finally
"changed"..

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I am a kind of person who never sticks to one group of people, I hang out to many.
And when they found out, they misunderstood me and
now starts hating me. :(


So...what I'm getting from all this is that you've changed in a way your friends don't like, or they're butthurt because you're not just hanging out with them. I feel like I'm completely misinterpreting you though. If you didn't do anything to hurt anyone, your friends are the ones who should be sorry. If you still want to be their friend, all you can do is wait til they're done >:(-ing and/or try to reason with them every now and again; I still suggest, if you haven't done anything wrong, to move on and find new friends who will respect your decisions if you feel the need to "change" (unless it's a destructive change) and who aren't so selfish as to get angry that you're getting along with more people. If they're mad because you aren't spending enough time with them, their decision to ignore you and embarrass you in class is certainly not helping, and I don't know why you'd want to remain friends with those kinds of people.

vaughn362 October 21st, 2009 6:17 PM

ok so i have this little problem,my friend told the girl that i like that i like her, aparently she new this for bit and i just found out yesturday! the teacher makes me seat next to her in science class and she is always staring at me, i dont know if its because she likes me or because she thinks im a creep, i have made her laugh a couple times but she very quite and EXTREMLY hard to talk to...what should i do?

Pokeyomom October 21st, 2009 6:24 PM

Stare back till she averts her gaze.

Haha jk. I dunno. Sometimes the best thing to do- is nothing. Wait it out. That's what I say;) She probably likes you! I don't see why she would be staring at you if she didn't. People tend to avoid stuff like that, lest the other people get the wrong idea;)

Good Luck~

Bay October 21st, 2009 8:26 PM

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Originally Posted by vaughn362 (Post 5247110)
ok so i have this little problem,my friend told the girl that i like that i like her, aparently she new this for bit and i just found out yesturday! the teacher makes me seat next to her in science class and she is always staring at me, i dont know if its because she likes me or because she thinks im a creep, i have made her laugh a couple times but she very quite and EXTREMLY hard to talk to...what should i do?

I say communicate with her. Yeah, you said she's hard to talk too, but after you two talk for a bit she'll get comfortable talking with you. I remember being very quiet at first when meeting new people, but then I'm able to open up more.

Spinor October 23rd, 2009 8:38 PM

K, I have a problem. My hair has gotten to the point were my dad either brings me to the barbershop or he buzzes it off. It's a super sexy mini afro I refuse to cut :O

He is threatening to force me with him to some evil barbershop tomorrow just because I got a 76 in English (advanced). How do I stop him from getting my hair cut while not sounding like some ridiculous emotional teen?

BTW, I am asking here because he is a 50 year old unreasonable Mexican :(. Perfect combo for a dad.

power321 October 24th, 2009 12:34 AM

^At least you have a dad. BTW, he sounds like a great, responsible father. :]

LOL! There's a Vent Thread. ahh...Let's see. My problem is that I'm not sleeping. :) If I sleep now or later, I'll wake up before work. Which is at 3. Lol ahh weekends.

Mattysaurus October 25th, 2009 2:58 PM

I'm thinking about telling my best friend, Unique, that I love her but I don't want to lose her as a friend if she doesn't like me :/

I would rather live as a coward and not tell her how I feel than not have her in my life at all <3

I only wanted to meet her in 6th grade because she is REALLY hawt..But then I became her best friend and we always say "I love you, Babe" to each other and I got feelings for her other than in my pants..I truly love her more than a friend...

The question is...What should I do? :(

Kurono October 25th, 2009 3:11 PM

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Originally Posted by ./frozen fun/. (Post 5260071)
I'm thinking about telling my best friend, Unique, that I love her but I don't want to lose her as a friend if she doesn't like me :/

I would rather live as a coward and not tell her how I feel than not have her in my life at all <3

I only wanted to meet her in 6th grade because she is REALLY hawt..But then I became her best friend and we always say "I love you, Babe" to each other and I got feelings for her other than in my pants..I truly love her more than a friend...

The question is...What should I do? :(

Go for it. You don't want to let an opportunity pass you by, do you? If it turns out to be a flub, no worries. There'll be other opportunities, other fish in the sea and the like. Really, I don't think you want to be stuck in the friend zone. It's the worst place to be if you like someone.

Mattysaurus October 25th, 2009 3:15 PM

But I would rather have her as a friend, than not have her at all..<33

poopnoodle October 25th, 2009 3:18 PM

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http://www.pokecommunity.com/images/templates/pichusquared/buttons/viewpost.gif I'm thinking about telling my best friend, Unique, that I love her but I don't want to lose her as a friend if she doesn't like me :/

I would rather live as a coward and not tell her how I feel than not have her in my life at all <3

I only wanted to meet her in 6th grade because she is REALLY hawt..But then I became her best friend and we always say "I love you, Babe" to each other and I got feelings for her other than in my pants..I truly love her more than a friend...

The question is...What should I do? :(

The most dangerous risk you can take to ruin a good friendship is to turn it into an intimate relationship. If I were you, I wouldn't act on those feelings at all unless it was clear that both of you had the same feelings for each other.

Dry October 25th, 2009 7:40 PM

Having issues?
 
nothin here
nothing ever was =p

pokejungle October 25th, 2009 7:53 PM

If you're going to talk about it, be honest. It sounds more like you felt romantically inclined :|

But the good news is that kids get bored easily. If someone does make a big deal about it, rumors do blow over.

About failing though... you can't really blame it on the absence of a teacher.

rx: get a psychologist or a psychiatrist, they can help

Dry October 25th, 2009 7:59 PM

nvm................................................................

pokejungle October 25th, 2009 8:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Dry (Post 5260955)
Already seen 3 different counsellors ...
and honestly i wasnt romanticly inclined towards her some guy said something bout her ass and i was like disgusted by the mental image
kids get bored i hope so

Counselors don't have the same degree as psychologists.

Anywayz I was all worried about coming out over facebook but in the end not many people even noticed :|

By the way if you have ANY suicidal thoughts or feelings you need to get help right away. Just throwing that out there.

Mika October 26th, 2009 12:00 AM

I disagree. u_u

I think friends can do more good than those fancy pants doctors with their fancy pants notes. u_u

As a society we're more and more distancing ourselves from people who aren't generic human subject a with no issues because we don't feel like we should have to focus on anyone but ourselves. It's just wrong. I mean there are things you should keep to yourself but you shouldn't be afraid to speak about something that's bothering you among friends. :/

IrGamer October 26th, 2009 12:17 AM

dont be afraid to say anything to any one thats how u make friends with the community

power321 October 26th, 2009 11:04 PM

I hate how anyone with access to a computer and internet can search for my username and collect my info. >_<

Reason why I changed my Twitter account name.

Skip Class October 27th, 2009 10:32 PM

Eh so my problem is I overwaste the computer's internet load and it's a Heavy Habit of mine.
ATM we have a 10 GB and well I am the only one who uses it as I have no siblings and my dad doesn't use it at all while my mum uses it for email which is Rare.
Usually I use up the internet one week before the I get more load, then I go on suffering with slow internet for a week.

Although the worst happened during last months load and as it was the holidays I watched a lot of things - youtube and others from Anilinkz. Though this time I went overboard with it and I wasted it in 4 Days and my mum said if I keep going overboard she'll take my internet privillages away.

It's true I go on at school and stuff though our school banned Fanfiction, Facebook and most importantly Youtube which is stupid. They even banned addicting games (what the hell is up with that) so when I'm at home I mainly go on the sites I can't get on at school. But my main question for you to help me with is:

How can I help myself stop my addiction to the internet?

pokejungle October 27th, 2009 10:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Mika (Post 5261294)
I disagree. u_u

I think friends can do more good than those fancy pants doctors with their fancy pants notes. u_u

As a society we're more and more distancing ourselves from people who aren't generic human subject a with no issues because we don't feel like we should have to focus on anyone but ourselves. It's just wrong. I mean there are things you should keep to yourself but you shouldn't be afraid to speak about something that's bothering you among friends. :/

Poor people have to suffice with 'friend advice'.

Internet addiction is hard. Best advice for you: BUY A BIGGER INTERNET CAP!! In America we don't have metered internet :3

Jesus oƒ Suburbia October 28th, 2009 12:51 AM

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Originally Posted by zappyspiker (Post 5267741)
Eh so my problem is I overwaste the computer's internet load and it's a Heavy Habit of mine.
ATM we have a 10 GB and well I am the only one who uses it as I have no siblings and my dad doesn't use it at all while my mum uses it for email which is Rare.
Usually I use up the internet one week before the I get more load, then I go on suffering with slow internet for a week.

Although the worst happened during last months load and as it was the holidays I watched a lot of things - youtube and others from Anilinkz. Though this time I went overboard with it and I wasted it in 4 Days and my mum said if I keep going overboard she'll take my internet privillages away.

It's true I go on at school and stuff though our school banned Fanfiction, Facebook and most importantly Youtube which is stupid. They even banned addicting games (what the hell is up with that) so when I'm at home I mainly go on the sites I can't get on at school. But my main question for you to help me with is:

How can I help myself stop my addiction to the internet?

I presume that was the question, PJ. ._.

What you should do is get a new hobby, learn something new, singing, or a sport perhaps?
If you cant think of anything, the best thing is to rely on your friends, go places with them, hangout and whatnot.

The answer is get busy.

Good Luck Zappy. =]

22sa October 29th, 2009 6:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Caina (Post 5234446)
..Uhm, hey there guys..
I really got this problem that makes me want to quit school. Anyway..

Have you tried explaining your side to people who won't even try to understand?
I always understand, in fact, I gained a lot of friends for I never judge a person without understanding them.
But they're different when they treated me, but I never did something to them, they just label that what I did was " bad and unforgivable "
and I really got shocked about it. The next day, as I entered our room, eyes that pierces my very heart, they stared at me
with malicious kind of thinking. I am afraid.

One of them talked to me, and I explained what happened. You know what he/she said? ( covering the gender )

" Bah! just shut up will you, I don't care about you anymore! " ...

that was my best friend. :(
and now rumors spreading, things I really dislike, many of my classmates are avoiding me,
I'm afraid to loose them all, I love all of my classmates, I treasure each,
but hell, I got misjudged... I just told my best friend.

" You know, I'll always understand... and I'll understand why you're acting like that, but please, for my sake,
... will you do the same...? "

and he/she just repeated the same thing. " I don't care "

then I got a text message from one of my close friends,
and my god, he/she was also furious about me,

I'm afraid I'm losing my touch in going to school.
But I feel a little relieved that I found somebody to talk to, I told everything,
and he/she just said,

" You know, you belong to us, but the question is, do we belong to you? "
I never answered him/her. I just said, I need to think for a while.

But now, everything seems to be so damn cold. The atmosphere of my classmates becomes icy cold.
I feel really depressed. Is it right for me to just always understand? Is it right for me to let them think what they want to think?

Is it right for me to just lay down and let them stomp me with their harsh words?
Please, I really need help. Or am I just being too affected?
Will they soon understand? Or am I the one who will let them understand again?
Is it right for me to feel this way? To be mad at the same time denying my anger because they're my friends?

I really don't know, I'm so confused!
Please, I beg you guys, I really need help...

Thank you for reading...

The only good "your side" would do if you are actually innocent and want to prove it. Otherwise your side is pointless dude.

Melody October 31st, 2009 12:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Caina (Post 5245167)
It wasn't really that considerable as a bad act.
More like I was hanging out with friends where they think I was finally
"changed"..

Know what I mean?

I am a kind of person who never sticks to one group of people, I hang out to many.
And when they found out, they misunderstood me and
now starts hating me. :(

Hnhhhhh... it's still going on though, nothing progressed..
Why am I hated so much just because of it..?

The other one even put me on a shameful situation
during English Class...

Expanding on what 22sa had to say:

I have a motto that I live by. It helped me spot the worst kind of "fair-weather friends" in a manner of moments.

It goes something like this: "Friends don't make friends choose friends."
Plain and simple. A true friend won't try to make you choose you or them. They won't judge you based upon whom you befriend.

So yeah, if they want to treat you like crap, just ignore 'em. I know it hurts to be betrayed like that, but I'm not going to tell you that you can't forgive them if they come to their senses.

Vigilante November 1st, 2009 3:55 PM

My teeth hurt whenever chew. :(. I can't stand the pain, it is unbearable. I've been chewing with my front teeth, because I feel no pain there, but it is a little awkward. And no, it shouldn't be from Halloween candy, because I've only eaten a few pieces. Anything I should do?

txteclipse November 1st, 2009 5:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Meneur d'enfer (Post 5282184)
My teeth hurt whenever chew. :(. I can't stand the pain, it is unbearable. I've been chewing with my front teeth, because I feel no pain there, but it is a little awkward. And no, it shouldn't be from Halloween candy, because I've only eaten a few pieces. Anything I should do?

Go to the dentist? That's usually a good idea when your teeth hurt.

Dragon Song November 1st, 2009 6:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Meneur d'enfer (Post 5282184)
My teeth hurt whenever chew. :(. I can't stand the pain, it is unbearable. I've been chewing with my front teeth, because I feel no pain there, but it is a little awkward. And no, it shouldn't be from Halloween candy, because I've only eaten a few pieces. Anything I should do?

OK, your teeth hurt...how do you care for you teeth (other than eating).
Do you brush the crap out of them? Or brush them once a month? Has this happened before? ((When I had teeth pulled I could only chew with my front teeth for a while...really awkward.))

Syrex November 3rd, 2009 8:44 PM

Alright, So I dated brooke for 2 and 1/2 years and she cheated on me one time and when we broke up, she was like good, **** you, I don't want you, ect ect, then this morning she texts me sayin' she still loves me and **** and is upset about us not bein' together. So we talk about it and she "breaks" up with him for me. So we talk some more and I told her a lot of things need to change and she says Ok, I'll change I promise, So I believe her, Break up with Stacy and ask her out then she says "uh... Thomas is comin' over, I guess we didn't break up" now, I'm pissed as hell and I flip out on her then she calls me and says that we need to take a break so I was like alright, If you date, then I have a right to date as well, So I got back with Stacy. Then about an hour later she calls me back cryin' and says that She and thomas broke up and everything he does reminds her of me and she wants me back, so we talk some more and I ***** her out al ittle bit. So then, I finally believed her and left stacy AGAIN and she goes You need to prove to me you have changed and you are takin' your bipolar meds, So I say, Alright, Give me one week, Both of us stay single and we'll go from there, cool? she says alright. then about 2 hours later she texts me and says, Well, Thomas is comin' back over and I'm gettin' back with him. I'm only 18 years old, I'm still young so let me live my life and I said well, alright, You're kinda a ***** from doin' this so peace and lose me number. afterwards she TRIES AGAIN and says she still loves me and she wants to try again in the future and I turned her down and told her to never contact me again and that I want nothin' to do with her. Now that I've done that.. I feel terribly depressed and I'm pretty upset..

I hope I did the right thing...

poopnoodle November 3rd, 2009 8:59 PM

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Alright, So I dated brooke for 2 and 1/2 years and she cheated on me one time and when we broke up, she was like good, **** you, I don't want you, ect ect, then this morning she texts me sayin' she still loves me and **** and is upset about us not bein' together. So we talk about it and she "breaks" up with him for me. So we talk some more and I told her a lot of things need to change and she says Ok, I'll change I promise, So I believe her, Break up with Stacy and ask her out then she says "uh... Thomas is comin' over, I guess we didn't break up" now, I'm pissed as hell and I flip out on her then she calls me and says that we need to take a break so I was like alright, If you date, then I have a right to date as well, So I got back with Stacy. Then about an hour later she calls me back cryin' and says that She and thomas broke up and everything he does reminds her of me and she wants me back, so we talk some more and I ***** her out al ittle bit. So then, I finally believed her and left stacy AGAIN and she goes You need to prove to me you have changed and you are takin' your bipolar meds, So I say, Alright, Give me one week, Both of us stay single and we'll go from there, cool? she says alright. then about 2 hours later she texts me and says, Well, Thomas is comin' back over and I'm gettin' back with him. I'm only 18 years old, I'm still young so let me live my life and I said well, alright, You're kinda a ***** from doin' this so peace and lose me number. afterwards she TRIES AGAIN and says she still loves me and she wants to try again in the future and I turned her down and told her to never contact me again and that I want nothin' to do with her. Now that I've done that.. I feel terribly depressed and I'm pretty upset..

I hope I did the right thing...
..I'd say you did the right thing. You'll just have to get used to not being with her; you'll move on eventually, and find someone who is worth your time.

Syrex November 4th, 2009 11:33 AM

yeah, It's a little hard but I'm trying.

Fox♠ November 4th, 2009 1:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Meneur d'enfer (Post 5282184)
My teeth hurt whenever chew. :(. I can't stand the pain, it is unbearable. I've been chewing with my front teeth, because I feel no pain there, but it is a little awkward. And no, it shouldn't be from Halloween candy, because I've only eaten a few pieces. Anything I should do?

I have a similar problem sometimes, try using a toothpaste that helps build up enamel, I'd also go see your dentist, as they'll probably be able to help a lot more. ;]

blink. November 4th, 2009 3:02 PM

lololol i bet your teeth are frikkin' raunchy.

Kogenta November 4th, 2009 3:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Syrex (Post 5289060)
Alright, So I dated brooke for 2 and 1/2 years and she cheated on me one time and when we broke up, she was like good, **** you, I don't want you, ect ect, then this morning she texts me sayin' she still loves me and **** and is upset about us not bein' together. So we talk about it and she "breaks" up with him for me. So we talk some more and I told her a lot of things need to change and she says Ok, I'll change I promise, So I believe her, Break up with Stacy and ask her out then she says "uh... Thomas is comin' over, I guess we didn't break up" now, I'm pissed as hell and I flip out on her then she calls me and says that we need to take a break so I was like alright, If you date, then I have a right to date as well, So I got back with Stacy. Then about an hour later she calls me back cryin' and says that She and thomas broke up and everything he does reminds her of me and she wants me back, so we talk some more and I ***** her out al ittle bit. So then, I finally believed her and left stacy AGAIN and she goes You need to prove to me you have changed and you are takin' your bipolar meds, So I say, Alright, Give me one week, Both of us stay single and we'll go from there, cool? she says alright. then about 2 hours later she texts me and says, Well, Thomas is comin' back over and I'm gettin' back with him. I'm only 18 years old, I'm still young so let me live my life and I said well, alright, You're kinda a ***** from doin' this so peace and lose me number. afterwards she TRIES AGAIN and says she still loves me and she wants to try again in the future and I turned her down and told her to never contact me again and that I want nothin' to do with her. Now that I've done that.. I feel terribly depressed and I'm pretty upset..

I hope I did the right thing...

As was said previously, your actions were valid.

From your story, you do not seem particularly healthy for one another. If, in the future, she contacts you and both of you can handle keeping to a friendship, then you can try talking to each other again. But for now . . . In her words, you two are 18 and young. At a time of particularly high emotions, not much benefit exists in remaining in a destructive relationship. It would not be fair to you, Brooke, Stacy, or Thomas.

The pain is unlikely to disappear soon for either of you, but reopening a wound is usually worse than waiting for it to heal.

Vigilante November 4th, 2009 7:30 PM

I have a slight major procrastination problem. I don't really know what to do to go about fixing it. I mean, I should do my homework first, but instead I do other things (e.g. Log onto PC, Hang out w/friends, Watch the telly). I mean, it definitely isn't helping my grades. I an A and B student, but I know that I could maintain an A average if I could set my priorities straight. I usually end off with a good note, but still. It feels wrong not doing it. Like, I dunno how to explain the feeling, all I know is that it is a bad one.

Any tips on how to beat procrastination would be greatly appreciated.

poopnoodle November 4th, 2009 7:47 PM

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I have a slight major procrastination problem. I don't really know what to do to go about fixing it. I mean, I should do my homework first, but instead I do other things (e.g. Log onto PC, Hang out w/friends, Watch the telly). I mean, it definitely isn't helping my grades. I an A and B student, but I know that I could maintain an A average if I could set my priorities straight. I usually end off with a good note, but still. It feels wrong not doing it. Like, I dunno how to explain the feeling, all I know is that it is a bad one.

Any tips on how to beat procrastination would be greatly appreciated.
I had that habit in school, I always resorted to rewarding myself for getting something done and tackling tasks early/in small intervals. You've got to force yourself to get started, and force yourself to overlook distractions.

~Trebuh~ November 5th, 2009 3:29 AM

Hmm, i dunno how to solve this prob,but it'll probably take long,dos anyone of you guys how a 13 yr old kid earn money online??i broke my friend's Psp and need to buy a new one, iT costs much and i dont have enough money on my paypal accoung xD,although my parents will give me $50, i still need more, does any of you guys knows how to earn money online?

processr November 5th, 2009 10:02 AM

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Originally Posted by ~Trebuh~ (Post 5292534)
Hmm, i dunno how to solve this prob,but it'll probably take long,dos anyone of you guys how a 13 yr old kid earn money online??i broke my friend's Psp and need to buy a new one, iT costs much and i dont have enough money on my paypal accoung xD,although my parents will give me $50, i still need more, does any of you guys knows how to earn money online?

Sell your organs.

The only way, really, is to sell stuff on eBay. Any money-making schemes you see advertised online are probably scams, and you should avoid them.

Kogenta November 5th, 2009 12:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Meneur d'enfer (Post 5291893)
I have a slight major procrastination problem. I don't really know what to do to go about fixing it. I mean, I should do my homework first, but instead I do other things (e.g. Log onto PC, Hang out w/friends, Watch the telly). I mean, it definitely isn't helping my grades. I an A and B student, but I know that I could maintain an A average if I could set my priorities straight. I usually end off with a good note, but still. It feels wrong not doing it. Like, I dunno how to explain the feeling, all I know is that it is a bad one.

Any tips on how to beat procrastination would be greatly appreciated.

Sometimes I can trick myself by listing out what I need to do, deciding to do one thing (preferably due the next day), then procrastinating on it by doing everything else on the list. And if the chosen task is due the next day, I will probably accomplish it after the other assignments are done.

FlyingSquirrel November 5th, 2009 5:53 PM

I have this tiny problem... I woulnt really call it a prob..
In the beginning of my highschool where i did not see my friends for a long 3 months, I didn't know they existed for some time(although they sat 2 seats or right next to me) Now a few of them dont even look at me anymore even though i say somthing to them. At that time, i had a giant mental breakdown but i doubt they will buy this excuse....
Should i just pretend they just dont exist or should i still try?? Im pretty sure they hate my guts by now..

Guillermo November 5th, 2009 10:49 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by FlyingSquirrel (Post 5294753)
I have this tiny problem... I woulnt really call it a prob..
In the beginning of my highschool where i did not see my friends for a long 3 months, I didn't know they existed for some time(although they sat 2 seats or right next to me) Now a few of them dont even look at me anymore even though i say somthing to them. At that time, i had a giant mental breakdown but i doubt they will buy this excuse....
Should i just pretend they just dont exist or should i still try?? Im pretty sure they hate my guts by now..

If they're avoiding you and not talking because you didn't see them for a few months, then you obviously need to give up and find better friends. Theyr'e not worthy of your friendship if they're going to be complete jerks to you, ya'know?

FlyingSquirrel November 6th, 2009 3:51 AM

Well they dont ignore me completely but they aren't really as nice to me anymore.
They just dont care....

Esper November 11th, 2009 12:57 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by FlyingSquirrel (Post 5294753)
I have this tiny problem... I woulnt really call it a prob..
In the beginning of my highschool where i did not see my friends for a long 3 months, I didn't know they existed for some time(although they sat 2 seats or right next to me) Now a few of them dont even look at me anymore even though i say somthing to them. At that time, i had a giant mental breakdown but i doubt they will buy this excuse....
Should i just pretend they just dont exist or should i still try?? Im pretty sure they hate my guts by now..

Tell them you're sorry you didn't talk to them. Even if it's not your fault or you don't feel like you should apologize. Saying sorry is your peace offering. Ask them if you're all cool now and can move past those months when you didn't talk. If they keep ignoring you it means they aren't ready to forgive you. Trying to punish them by pretending they don't exist isn't going to make them forgive you any sooner. It sounds like you still want to try to be friends so I'd try at least once more.

The Scientist November 17th, 2009 8:31 PM

I have a problem. Surprising, eh?

Well, I made a really good thread, but within one day it dropped to Page 4.

WUT DO I DO, GUISE?

Seriously now, my problem is that there's a member of the female persuasion who is both attracted to me and has recently moved relatively close by. Due to our [psychological] closeness, I know that she's had a fairly... traumatic past. And by "traumatic" I mean rape. Does this necessarily mean that any impending relationship is doomed to failure?

I shouldn't have to say this, but this is PC, which means that there is a high concentration of IRL n00bs roaming these pages. Don't answer the question if you don't know what you're talking about.

Syrex November 17th, 2009 8:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by The Scientist (Post 5330496)
I have a problem. Surprising, eh?

Well, I made a really good thread, but within one day it dropped to Page 4.

WUT DO I DO, GUISE?

Seriously now, my problem is that there's a member of the female persuasion who is both attracted to me and has recently moved relatively close by. Due to our [psychological] closeness, I know that she's had a fairly... traumatic past. And by "traumatic" I mean rape. Does this necessarily mean that any impending relationship is doomed to failure?

I shouldn't have to say this, but this is PC, which means that there is a high concentration of IRL n00bs roaming these pages. Don't answer the question if you don't know what you're talking about.

Not at all. Infact, If you ever remember me talkin' about Brooke in this thread, she had the same thing happen to her and we were fine for a year and a few months before I moved hours away.

So, Go for it dude. Nothin' bad could happen out of it. Just respect her wishes and don't
pressure her into doin' anything.

poopnoodle November 18th, 2009 1:04 PM

Quote:

Seriously now, my problem is that there's a member of the female persuasion who is both attracted to me and has recently moved relatively close by. Due to our [psychological] closeness, I know that she's had a fairly... traumatic past. And by "traumatic" I mean rape. Does this necessarily mean that any impending relationship is doomed to failure?

*I promise I know what I'm talking about, one of my friends is a victim of rape so I have a tiny bit of background knowledge on the subject.

It depends on how she handles the event, and how long ago it took place. I'm assuming she opened up to you about it, which shows that she is at least willing to be communicative with you. If I were you, I'd research some of the psychological after-effects of rape so that you're somewhat prepared when she needs comforting. Just offer your assurance and don't keep reminding yourself that this happened to her and let it become a barrier between the two of you, treat her like you'd treat anyone else you care about. It doesn't necessarily mean the relationship will fail...but if you're constantly worried that baggage will affect anything, it most likely will. Best of luck~

okalkjklgd November 18th, 2009 6:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Lumine (Post 3483798)
Well Nicole I tried another way and considering an arbitrary point (x,y). Which mean applying T would transform (x,y) into (y,x) then into (y+1,x+2).

Consider the base for R^2 {(1,0),(0,1)}.
Then, applying T gives us

T((1,0)) = (1,3) and T((0,1)) = (2,2).

Thus, the matrix transformation would be

[ 1 2 ]
[ 3 2 ]

Since T((1,0)) = (1,3) = 1(1,0)+3(0,1) and
T((0,1)) = (2,2) = 2(1,0)+2(0,1). This is in the matrix representation wrt.
(Not sure here)

As for the next question suppose (x,y) is a fixed point. Then T((x,y)) = (x,y).

But by above T((x,y)) = (y+1,x+2).

Hence, by equality of points in R^2:

x=y+1
y=x+2

Adding these will give you

x+y = y+x+3

In other words it's not possible.

good idea,
I agree with information:
Since T((1,0)) = (1,3) = 1(1,0)+3(0,1) and
T((0,1)) = (2,2) = 2(1,0)+2(0,1). This is in the matrix representation wrt.
(Not sure here)

Weatherman, Kiyoshi November 22nd, 2009 4:14 AM

Okay,this isn't life or death of the heart or anything, but it's still a problem:

So, I have an Xbox360.
My brother owns it, since he payed for it.

We used to keep it on our main television, but,
My brother went out and bought a television, took the Xbox360, and put it in his room.

Now, I myself have plenty of game data and my own games that I own for the Xbox360.

It's a bit selfish, because on the main TV, anyone who feels like playing can play, even my brother himself,

but I don't want to say anything, because it is his Xbox360, and he already bought a shiny new TV for it.

And I'm sure as hell not sneaking up to his room and play it then, because you can never know for sure when he comes back, and someone might catch me.

I want to play it, but it's a minefield and I don't have any minesweepers.

Should I?:

a) Approach my brother about this, say my feelings about the subject.
:If you choose this answer, please explain to me a basis to what I should say to convince him:

b) Purchase a new Xbox360 that stay on the main television, so my brother won't have to be bothered by the matter, and I can just pull my data from the old one onto the new one.
:Christmas is coming up, so this is a very good possibility, but there is no promises that my parents will buy a new one if I ask for it:

c) Other solution
:This one is a free form option. What is your way to approach this subject? Please explain and elaborate what you mean when you answer.

Cold Fusion November 22nd, 2009 4:55 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by FlyingSquirrel (Post 5294753)
I have this tiny problem... I woulnt really call it a prob..
In the beginning of my highschool where i did not see my friends for a long 3 months, I didn't know they existed for some time(although they sat 2 seats or right next to me) Now a few of them dont even look at me anymore even though i say somthing to them. At that time, i had a giant mental breakdown but i doubt they will buy this excuse....
Should i just pretend they just dont exist or should i still try?? Im pretty sure they hate my guts by now..

I've had a friend that had this problem before.

As I said to them, you should really go up to them and tell them why you haven't been in contact with them for the time you haven't been in contact. If they are good friends they will understand why and forgive easily.

But if they do not forgive, well, I'd just leave them, after all, they wern't exactly nice enough to come up to you and ask where you where for that period of time and just get on with like they normally would. Then I'd wander off and make new friends, people change and move on.

FlyingSquirrel November 22nd, 2009 6:08 AM

Alright thanks for the help^^
I think im pretty fond of my faults as well...
Thanks for everyone who helped me

Lady Gaga November 22nd, 2009 6:36 AM

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Originally Posted by ¿Question Kiyoshi-Crayon? (Post 5341059)
Okay,this isn't life or death of the heart or anything, but it's still a problem:

So, I have an Xbox360.
My brother owns it, since he payed for it.

We used to keep it on our main television, but,
My brother went out and bought a television, took the Xbox360, and put it in his room.

Now, I myself have plenty of game data and my own games that I own for the Xbox360.

It's a bit selfish, because on the main TV, anyone who feels like playing can play, even my brother himself,

but I don't want to say anything, because it is his Xbox360, and he already bought a shiny new TV for it.

And I'm sure as hell not sneaking up to his room and play it then, because you can never know for sure when he comes back, and someone might catch me.

I want to play it, but it's a minefield and I don't have any minesweepers.

Should I?:

a) Approach my brother about this, say my feelings about the subject.
:If you choose this answer, please explain to me a basis to what I should say to convince him:

b) Purchase a new Xbox360 that stay on the main television, so my brother won't have to be bothered by the matter, and I can just pull my data from the old one onto the new one.
:Christmas is coming up, so this is a very good possibility, but there is no promises that my parents will buy a new one if I ask for it:

c) Other solution
:This one is a free form option. What is your way to approach this subject? Please explain and elaborate what you mean when you answer.

Option A.

Approach him, talk about it. He is only your brother, no need to be scared. Even if the talk goes bad, at least you tried, and option B is always open. But if you just talk about it, he may just grant you permission to play.

AuraAshley November 22nd, 2009 11:34 AM

i have a problem.

my ex has a gf and i have a bf. my ex and i broke up about [lets say] a month ago. hes been pestering me to sleep with me and its on going and its getting really annoying. my bf tells me to tell him off. i told him off before but he doesnt stop.what do i do?

Lady Gaga November 22nd, 2009 2:58 PM

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Originally Posted by AuraAshley (Post 5341902)
i have a problem.

my ex has a gf and i have a bf. my ex and i broke up about [lets say] a month ago. hes been pestering me to sleep with me and its on going and its getting really annoying. my bf tells me to tell him off. i told him off before but he doesnt stop.what do i do?

Well, if this gets worse, you can probably contact the police about harassment.

Aksyel November 22nd, 2009 3:07 PM

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Originally Posted by AuraAshley (Post 5341902)
i have a problem.

my ex has a gf and i have a bf. my ex and i broke up about [lets say] a month ago. hes been pestering me to sleep with me and its on going and its getting really annoying. my bf tells me to tell him off. i told him off before but he doesnt stop.what do i do?

I think that you need to call the police and either file charges for sexual harassment or get a restraining order. Things like this tend to escalate.

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Mi pensas vi bezonas voki la policoj kaj fajlas kulpigoj por gxenado de seksumo aux prenas ordo de brido. Ajxoj kiel tiu cxi havas dispozicio eskaladi.

Lash November 23rd, 2009 12:12 AM

The hardest task for me in this world is to fall asleep. I stay away from the computer (except for right now lol) a lot of the time, meaning I'm left to just stare at the ceiling and enjoy the breeze the fan blows. When I do end up falling asleep, I get less than two hours maximum.

Normally I wouldn't call my inability to sleep a problem, but it is. For one thing and one crappy thing only: school. I'll wake up after, lets say 90mins of sleep (average) to get on with my school day. I'm drowsy as hell, and my body truly doesn't wake up till around noon. I get in trouble if I sleep during school, so I can't do that. It takes a toll on my grades, like hardcore. Mainly because I get cranky and angry as hell and I start running my mouth.

There is one thing I noticed though: on nights I smoke weed (or take any downer, actually) I'll fall asleep way early, and wake up happy, bright, and full of life the next day. Meaning my grades go up, and I don't get yelled at for cursing at the school staff.

I would smoke more weed, but I really don't have 24 hour access. I need to find a way to sleep on nights I don't smoke.

Aksyel November 23rd, 2009 4:03 AM

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Originally Posted by Lash (Post 5343767)
The hardest task for me in this world is to fall asleep. I stay away from the computer (except for right now lol) a lot of the time, meaning I'm left to just stare at the ceiling and enjoy the breeze the fan blows. When I do end up falling asleep, I get less than two hours maximum.

Normally I wouldn't call my inability to sleep a problem, but it is. For one thing and one crappy thing only: school. I'll wake up after, lets say 90mins of sleep (average) to get on with my school day. I'm drowsy as hell, and my body truly doesn't wake up till around noon. I get in trouble if I sleep during school, so I can't do that. It takes a toll on my grades, like hardcore. Mainly because I get cranky and angry as hell and I start running my mouth.

There is one thing I noticed though: on nights I smoke weed (or take any downer, actually) I'll fall asleep way early, and wake up happy, bright, and full of life the next day. Meaning my grades go up, and I don't get yelled at for cursing at the school staff.

I would smoke more weed, but I really don't have 24 hour access. I need to find a way to sleep on nights I don't smoke.

I think you have sleep insomnia, either caused physically, in which case you will need sleeping medication or caused psychologically, by the fact that you think you need to get a good nights sleep with weed. Either way, go talk to a doctor about it and mention the weed thing because you cant get in trouble unless they find the weed on you. You can go into a police station and scream, "I JUST SNORTED A BUNCH OF CRACK!" and not get in trouble for drugs. But you would get in trouble for disturbing the peace. : 3

Mi pensas tiu vi havas sendomerco de dormo, kauxzas fizika tiom vi bezonos medikamento aux kauxzas psikoligia tiom vi bezonos medikamento ankaux. Iru al la doktoro.

Lash November 23rd, 2009 9:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Aksyel (Post 5343828)
I think you have sleep insomnia, either caused physically, in which case you will need sleeping medication or caused psychologically, by the fact that you think you need to get a good nights sleep with weed. Either way, go talk to a doctor about it and mention the weed thing because you cant get in trouble unless they find the weed on you. You can go into a police station and scream, "I JUST SNORTED A BUNCH OF CRACK!" and not get in trouble for drugs. But you would get in trouble for disturbing the peace. : 3

Mi pensas tiu vi havas sendomerco de dormo, kauxzas fizika tiom vi bezonos medikamento aux kauxzas psikoligia tiom vi bezonos medikamento ankaux. Iru al la doktoro.

Alright, thank you. I shall try to get a doctor appointment by the weekend.

pokejungle November 24th, 2009 3:10 AM

Yeah dude, ambien or ambien CR can really help you out. S'what I'm on.

Or you could've just found an otc sleep aid in target/walmart...

Operator3 November 25th, 2009 5:48 PM

Problem:

I have no self control.

Once the first drink passes my lips, I'm gone.

I'll wake up a day later in a cell/hospital.

I'm really weak but I can't stand seeing people being pushed around which often gets me into un-winnable fights. (One time some kid held a knife at my neck at school 'cuz I told him and his friends to leave my friend alone).

I need to learn to control myself in every sence, but I really just can't.

Not to sound emo, but I'm worried I won't make it to my thirties.

Aksyel November 25th, 2009 5:52 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Operator3 (Post 5351171)
Problem:

I have no self control.

Once the first drink passes my lips, I'm gone.

I'll wake up a day later in a cell/hospital.

I'm really weak but I can't stand seeing people being pushed around which often gets me into un-winnable fights. (One time some kid held a knife at my neck at school 'cuz I told him and his friends to leave my friend alone).

I need to learn to control myself in every sence, but I really just can't.

Not to sound emo, but I'm worried I won't make it to my thirties.

If the first drink is the problem, don't have the first drink.

Operator3 November 25th, 2009 5:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Aksyel (Post 5351181)
If the first drink is the problem, don't have the first drink.

My problem is that I have no self control. This is with alcohol too.

Aksyel November 25th, 2009 6:11 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Operator3 (Post 5351190)
My problem is that I have no self control. This is with alcohol too.

Everyone has self control, or else they would be fat, dirty, poor, etc. It's whether or not you believe in yourself.

Anxiety. November 26th, 2009 11:51 AM

I have a crush on my best friend. And I have a strong feeling that she likes me back.
Now, she's sleeping over saturday, but i'm not a very confident person, so I can't make the first move. Plus, it could make things awkward, especially if it doesn't work out.

I don't know what to do. Help?

Conversation:
Her: Ever had that feeling when you like someone, but when you see them in person you're like 'nah' and then when you're not around them, they're all you can think about?
Me: Yeah
Her: About who?
Me: You
Her: Mines is about this Kid called Dave. I'm kidding, it's about you.

Does this mean she likes me? Iunno if it does, and I don't want to look like an idiot.

The Confuzzler November 27th, 2009 10:30 AM

Problem. Yaaayyy. *sarcasm*

Well, there's this girl i really like, and we're really good friends. Im probably one of her best frinds. But, she's lets say 'going out' with my friend, . But, they don't talk much, always split up, and most of my friends tell me that we should be together.

So, i thought why not, and asked her. It was a no, but a yes if she wasn't going out with my friend. my friend, needless to say, was really annoyed at me. He keeps saying that he hates me, and he's gonna smack me in the face.

We're still good friends, but now everytime i make her laugh, my friend, and everyone else, say i'm flirting with her. When i'm not. I try to act like i don't like her, but i do.

And there's rumours going around that she likes me. But i don't know if its true.

Ugh. Any help. I know about the age, but please.

.Seth November 27th, 2009 10:46 AM

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Originally Posted by >> Quilava Blaze << (Post 5355135)
Problem. Yaaayyy. *sarcasm*

Well, there's this girl I really like, and we're really good friends. I'm probably one of her best friends. But, she's lets say 'going out' with my friend, . But, they don't talk much, always split up, and most of my friends tell me that we should be together.

So, I thought why not, and asked her. It was a no, but a yes if she wasn't going out with my friend. My friend, needless to say, was really annoyed at me. He keeps saying that he hates me, and he's gonna smack me in the face.

We're still good friends, but now every time I make her laugh, my friend, and everyone else, say I'm flirting with her. When I'm not. I try to act like i don't like her, but I do.

And there's rumors going around that she likes me. But i don't know if its true.

Ugh. Any help? I know about the age, but please.

Making her laugh is flirting. Also, 11 is way too young to start dating. You found your problem. Rumors are just that, rumors. Not lies, not truth. I'm 14 and I've tried to "date" with a friend or two (different times), and it doesn't work out, even at my age. You should really wait until you can drive to start dating. I can't stress that enough. Any "feelings" for a classmate/friend/etc at age 11 are nothing more than kids trying to look older/more mature. People do start to enter puberty around that age, but it's nothing more than hormones. They don't really feel true affection yet. I "liked" girls at that age, but I never showed it, and that is why people called me mature at that age.

Of course, it sounds as if I'm bragging, but it's true. Even if you think you "love" a classmate, it's nothing more than puberty hormones taking over your mind. Stay focused on your education, not your friends.

Esper November 27th, 2009 11:07 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Anxiety. (Post 5352455)
I have a crush on my best friend. And I have a strong feeling that she likes me back.
Now, she's sleeping over saturday, but i'm not a very confident person, so I can't make the first move. Plus, it could make things awkward, especially if it doesn't work out.

I don't know what to do. Help?

Conversation:
Her: Ever had that feeling when you like someone, but when you see them in person you're like 'nah' and then when you're not around them, they're all you can think about?
Me: Yeah
Her: About who?
Me: You
Her: Mines is about this Kid called Dave. I'm kidding, it's about you.

Does this mean she likes me? Iunno if it does, and I don't want to look like an idiot.

It sounds like she's unsure about her feelings for you. It could be one of those things where liking someone as a friend has started to blur with liking someone in a romantic way, but not knowing what kind of person she is I couldn't make any definitive statements based on such a small piece of conversation. For her, finding out that you like her might give her more reason to like you, or it could do just the opposite.

If your feelings are making it hard to be around her then you might want to get it off your chest however you can if for nothing else than your peace of mind. If you can't just spit it out then work up to it with some of that hypothetical what-would-you-do-if-someone-liked-you chat.

Looking like an idiot is not really so bad. You have to ask yourself if you'd risk looking foolish if it meant finding out how she feels (assuming she knows how she feels). Just look at your choices and pick whichever one feels best.

Zet November 27th, 2009 5:20 PM

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Originally Posted by .Seth (Post 5355179)


Making her laugh is flirting. Also, 11 is way too young to start dating. You found your problem. Rumors are just that, rumors. Not lies, not truth. I'm 14 and I've tried to "date" with a friend or two (different times), and it doesn't work out, even at my age. You should really wait until you can drive to start dating. I can't stress that enough. Any "feelings" for a classmate/friend/etc at age 11 are nothing more than kids trying to look older/more mature. People do start to enter puberty around that age, but it's nothing more than hormones. They don't really feel true affection yet. I "liked" girls at that age, but I never showed it, and that is why people called me mature at that age.

Of course, it sounds as if I'm bragging, but it's true. Even if you think you "love" a classmate, it's nothing more than puberty hormones taking over your mind. Stay focused on your education, not your friends.

So comedy = flirting now? that's pretty messed up, since I love comedy, but I'm just not that interested in guys. Sure it's fine if it's a girl but I'm not 100% sure if I want to take it from a guy :(

And just wait till high school, you'll probably find better girls, not just ones who get with some guy, split up and then get back together again etc

The Confuzzler November 28th, 2009 3:39 AM

Thanks for the help, guys. Now i can clean this mess up, and hopefully, make my friend forgive me :)

pkmnmaster69 November 30th, 2009 4:22 PM

Hey guys , ive got a probelm. Im supposed to be studying more then I should be and every time I try and study I just randomly go on my computer, play on my console and even when I dont go on them , I just day dream whenever im trying to do my work. Can anyone give me some tips? I've lost my motivation.

txteclipse November 30th, 2009 4:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by pkmnmaster69 (Post 5363941)
Hey guys , ive got a probelm. Im supposed to be studying more then I should be and every time I try and study I just randomly go on my computer, play on my console and even when I dont go on them , I just day dream whenever im trying to do my work. Can anyone give me some tips? I've lost my motivation.

Same thing here. It might help to get someone to study with you, so you stay focused. Try asking around in class.

Kaikai November 30th, 2009 5:04 PM

Possible to edit these?
 
Is there a way to add a pokedex entry for the ?'s in RSE? I really added Munchlax into a Pokemon Ruby hack im making but i want it to be catchable.

So is there a way to add a pokedex entry for the ?'s?

/Circa November 30th, 2009 5:39 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by pkmnmaster69 (Post 5363941)
Hey guys , ive got a probelm. Im supposed to be studying more then I should be and every time I try and study I just randomly go on my computer, play on my console and even when I dont go on them , I just day dream whenever im trying to do my work. Can anyone give me some tips? I've lost my motivation.

To be honest, I never study and I do just fine hahaha.
But if you really want to, the best tip is to study with a girl who is serious about it, cause then you cant stuff around and youll get work done.

ANARCHit3cht November 30th, 2009 5:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by pkmnmaster69 (Post 5363941)
Hey guys , ive got a probelm. Im supposed to be studying more then I should be and every time I try and study I just randomly go on my computer, play on my console and even when I dont go on them , I just day dream whenever im trying to do my work. Can anyone give me some tips? I've lost my motivation.

Try to use a study budy. Invite some one over and have them quiz you or whatever. Write down a goal on paper and keep it in plain sight when you are studying. The goal could be like what college(if any) you want to go to. Or to graduate, and when you want to goof off, you can just look at it and ask yourself if playing your console will help you achieve it. There isn't really much you can do to stop this. You have to make the choice to study or not. It is a pain, I know, I have to do the same thing, but if you make the right choices, it will become easy. Tell yourself that you can play your console/get on the computer after your done studying.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kaikai (Post 5364064)
Is there a way to add a pokedex entry for the ?'s in RSE? I really added Munchlax into a Pokemon Ruby hack im making but i want it to be catchable.

So is there a way to add a pokedex entry for the ?'s?

You will get better reception for this in the Rom Hacking section, most people on this thread don't know much about Rom Hacking. Try the Simple Questions Thread for any rom hacking queries.

pkmnmaster69 November 30th, 2009 5:50 PM

Ok, thanks for the tips guys, I'll try it.

.Aero December 1st, 2009 1:21 PM

My girlfriend and I have been fighting lately, and I really don't know if I should stay with her, but then again, she was my first (if you know what I mean). What should I do? Because I really like her and we've always been best friends. I'm afraid if we break up, things will get really awkward and we'll never speak again. :(

processr December 1st, 2009 1:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by .Aero (Post 5365546)
My girlfriend and I have been fighting lately, and I really don't know if I should stay with her, but then again, she was my first (if you know what I mean). What should I do? Because I really like her and we've always been best friends. I'm afraid if we break up, things will get really awkward and we'll never speak again. :(

If you're unhappy, then you need to raise your concerns with her. You need a frank discussion where you tell her what you think has gone wrong, what needs to change and what you, as a couple, can do about it. Don't level all the charges at her, of course. Forgive me for saying this, but it's unlikely that she's completely to blame for the troubles between you (but if she is, get the hell outta there). You need to address your own faults and try to suggest that she does the same. I know the immediate reaction to this is "lolno she'll never agree to that" when talking about some people, but someone who loves you should easily be able to comply. If she can't agree to do anything differently, then it's probably for the best if you part. Sorry if it seems harsh, but it's no point sugar-coating this. =/ I wish you luck.

.Aero December 2nd, 2009 7:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Apophenia (Post 5365672)
If you're unhappy, then you need to raise your concerns with her. You need a frank discussion where you tell her what you think has gone wrong, what needs to change and what you, as a couple, can do about it. Don't level all the charges at her, of course. Forgive me for saying this, but it's unlikely that she's completely to blame for the troubles between you (but if she is, get the hell outta there). You need to address your own faults and try to suggest that she does the same. I know the immediate reaction to this is "lolno she'll never agree to that" when talking about some people, but someone who loves you should easily be able to comply. If she can't agree to do anything differently, then it's probably for the best if you part. Sorry if it seems harsh, but it's no point sugar-coating this. =/ I wish you luck.

Thanks, but it didn't work. ;o; She and I broke up and now she's already dating someone else. I had a feeling there was someone else anyway, so it's not that crushing to me. I'll miss her. :(

dc_united December 3rd, 2009 4:11 AM

My girlfriend's ex may have gotten her pregnant, and I have to take her to a clinic this afternoon. FML

Zet December 3rd, 2009 4:20 AM

so you're not sure if it's her ex's or someone else's baby? Man, talk about unlucky, but good luck in the future raising the kid and all

processr December 3rd, 2009 8:17 AM

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Originally Posted by .Aero (Post 5368713)
Thanks, but it didn't work. ;o; She and I broke up and now she's already dating someone else. I had a feeling there was someone else anyway, so it's not that crushing to me. I'll miss her. :(

Sorry to hear that. ;;

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Originally Posted by dc_united (Post 5369182)
My girlfriend's ex may have gotten her pregnant, and I have to take her to a clinic this afternoon. FML

Did the, uh, conception happen before or after you two started going out? If the latter, then ouch, you have my condolences. Either way, good luck with everything. ._.

dc_united December 3rd, 2009 11:30 AM

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Originally Posted by Apophenia (Post 5369419)
Sorry to hear that. ;;



Did the, uh, conception happen before or after you two started going out? If the latter, then ouch, you have my condolences. Either way, good luck with everything. ._.

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Originally Posted by Zet (Post 5369189)
so you're not sure if it's her ex's or someone else's baby? Man, talk about unlucky, but good luck in the future raising the kid and all

Thanks guys. Apophenia, this happened about a month before we started dating, and she only found out a couple days ago. Your support is greatly appreciated.

LadyJirachu December 4th, 2009 9:47 AM

Cuteness...why...must CUTENESS be sooo......MEAN? ;_;

SacredMiKeY December 4th, 2009 6:26 PM

-sigh- this girl that i like is torn between me and another idk wat to do i just need some help plz and thank you

beauty. proletariat December 4th, 2009 6:45 PM

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Originally Posted by SacredMiKeY (Post 5372718)
-sigh- this girl that i like is torn between me and another idk wat to do i just need some help plz and thank you

Take things lightly~

If she is torn between you and another guy / girl, then thats too much effort to really waste your time.

If she just cant decide, then you've got no option but to just be yourself and hope she picks you.

Tips for the win:
  1. Dont start being different if youre having a hard time with it
  2. Dont let her problems affect you
  3. Dont get negative with competition-- its never a good sign.
  4. Help her if she needs it
But if you dont like my advice thats good too~ experience is pivotal in a character.

SacredMiKeY December 4th, 2009 6:52 PM

thank you ur advice seems good although id like a few more opinions as well

Rogue planet December 4th, 2009 7:34 PM

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Originally Posted by SacredMiKeY (Post 5372718)
-sigh- this girl that i like is torn between me and another idk wat to do i just need some help plz and thank you

Just carry on as normal. She can make decisions for herself, you don't have to do anything.

processr December 5th, 2009 2:33 AM

I'll second all that's been said - it's her choice who she 'chooses', if anyone, and it'll make things more difficult for her if you start acting differently. (Also, it means that nothing will change between you if you're misconstruing her feelings towards you.)

SacredMiKeY December 5th, 2009 7:46 AM

u have a good point everybody and i thank all of you for your advice

Kishijoten December 6th, 2009 6:22 PM

Well since that problem had been solved I guess I'll post down my own problem.
Well I have this friend and yea sure we got into this fight just this weekend all because of oh what? Of me having a "boyfriend". I think he got "jealous" because, he was like saying all these stuffs he usually wouldn't say. Like I wasn't worth it and everything. He even called me dishonest and a slu*. I don't know anymore. I'm confused, upset, mad argh. I even said "well then I guess were not friends anymore then hm?." I guess I don't mean it but, I don't want him to think of me of as a unworthy friend?.
What should I do?. Apoligize? Forget about it?

Zet December 11th, 2009 2:14 AM

Sounds to me like he has a crush on you and wanted you and your boyfriend to break up so he could have a chance with you. But in any case, I think you should apologize talk it out with him and find out why he said that stuff

Gary, the Magic Fairy December 16th, 2009 6:29 PM

Hay you guys, I have a problem.

I have this friend, we'll call him Tom. Then we have another friend, we'll call her Jenny.

Ok, so Jenny really liked Tom. A few weeks ago we went to see New Moon, and they got together afterwards at his house, because his dad is dead and his mom works nights. After that, they're basically a couple.

So, this weekend, we went camping with a few other friends, and they got drunk and started talking about their religions. Tom is a Scientologist, and Jenny is a Wiccan. So, they get into this huge debate and end up screaming at each other. Lots of nasty words thrown around. They break up and she goes home. Apparently Jenny didn't go to school Monday, and later that night, Tom's house burned down. Like- to the ground. No one was injured, but it was unsettling. They don't know the cause of the fire. Tom swears all the the lightbulbs in the house exploded, but we all just assumed he was dreaming or it's some kind of emotional trauma from the fire.

Yesterday Jenny texts me and says she thinks she's pregnant, and then tells me that she thinks Tom is going to have her killed. (We've all heard rumors that his uncle is... well, crazy.) I'm actually not sure he wouldn't kill her if he saw her right now, that look of hate in his eyes was... wow. Plus, he has a pretty bad temper, as does she. He also thinks that she put some kind of curse on him, which burned down the house.

What should I do? I don't want to take sides, but I'm also afraid to upset either of them.

.little monster December 16th, 2009 6:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Gary, the Magic Fairy (Post 5398341)
Hay you guys, I have a problem.

I have this friend, we'll call him Tom. Then we have another friend, we'll call her Jenny.

Ok, so Jenny really liked Tom. A few weeks ago we went to see New Moon, and they got together afterwards at his house, because his dad is dead and his mom works nights. After that, they're basically a couple.

So, this weekend, we went camping with a few other friends, and they got drunk and started talking about their religions. Tom is a Scientologist, and Jenny is a Wiccan. So, they get into this huge debate and end up screaming at each other. Lots of nasty words thrown around. They break up and she goes home. Apparently Jenny didn't go to school Monday, and later that night, Tom's house burned down. Like- to the ground. No one was injured, but it was unsettling. They don't know the cause of the fire. Tom swears all the the lightbulbs in the house exploded, but we all just assumed he was dreaming or it's some kind of emotional trauma from the fire.

Yesterday Jenny texts me and says she thinks she's pregnant, and then tells me that she thinks Tom is going to have her killed. (We've all heard rumors that his uncle is... well, crazy.) I'm actually not sure he wouldn't kill her if he saw her right now, that look of hate in his eyes was... wow. Plus, he has a pretty bad temper, as does she. He also thinks that she put some kind of curse on him, which burned down the house.

What should I do? I don't want to take sides, but I'm also afraid to upset either of them.

Well first, this is a nasty situation and it would be best to not take sides. Especially since it involves religions, and relationships.

About her thinking she will be killed, there is nothing she or anyone can do until she recieves threats, then she can have a restraining order put out and file charges for assault.

About her being pregnant, that's her and Tom's fault and problem.

About the fire, I wouldn't really pay any attentions to rumors about that if I were you. It probably was something electrical, and no, light bulbs blowing up will not start a fire, this is because the second the light bulb cracks the fumes inside that allow the electricity to produce heat escape and fire is unable to form. Now, if the light bulb damaged the electrical output thingy, it could send out a spray of sparks across the room but that cant happen unless you physically hit it and bend it to a 90 degree angle.

I would also like to point out the misguided views of this "Tom" person as the actual Wiccan religion has nothing to do with casting spells or witchcraft. That is a popular and false believe. Oh, and Scientology is a scam. Any 'religion' that needs commercials, is a scam. Oh, and countries out-lawing it because of it being a scam is sort of a red flag right there.

.little monster December 16th, 2009 6:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Sakari (Post 5398409)
[Major problem/]


See, I hate going out with girls that are very close to me especially if there are one of my best friends. I found out that this girl likes me at my school, I liked her a lot but never wanted to ask her out. Usually when I go out with someone it ends up in a huge mess, we break up and then were not friends anymore. She is a good friend of mines and I would love to go out with her and all, but one thing stands in the way of that is me having a bad feeling about how it will turn out.

Have any suggestions?

I'd ask myself this one question:

"Is my friendship with her too much to risk in order to be with her forever?"

Gary, the Magic Fairy December 20th, 2009 5:38 PM

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Originally Posted by t.A.T.u (Post 5398390)
Well first, this is a nasty situation and it would be best to not take sides. Especially since it involves religions, and relationships.

About her thinking she will be killed, there is nothing she or anyone can do until she recieves threats, then she can have a restraining order put out and file charges for assault.

About her being pregnant, that's her and Tom's fault and problem.

About the fire, I wouldn't really pay any attentions to rumors about that if I were you. It probably was something electrical, and no, light bulbs blowing up will not start a fire, this is because the second the light bulb cracks the fumes inside that allow the electricity to produce heat escape and fire is unable to form. Now, if the light bulb damaged the electrical output thingy, it could send out a spray of sparks across the room but that cant happen unless you physically hit it and bend it to a 90 degree angle.

I would also like to point out the misguided views of this "Tom" person as the actual Wiccan religion has nothing to do with casting spells or witchcraft. That is a popular and false believe. Oh, and Scientology is a scam. Any 'religion' that needs commercials, is a scam. Oh, and countries out-lawing it because of it being a scam is sort of a red flag right there.

Well, yesterday I found out that Jenny has gone missing. They think she ran away from home, but... yeah. She left her phone (something she never does), and didn't leave a note or take anything except money.

This morning I found out that Tom is in the hospital, they aren't sure what's wrong with him. They took him around 4AM, he was in terrible pain. He's not doing so well, his immune system is apparently attacking his red blood cells, and he has some kind of parasites in his intestines. Something like a tapeworm, but that's not what they called it. I don't remember.

Last night I dreamed that Jenny was dead and that her ghost told me she was going to get revenge on Tom. It was scary. I woke up around 3:30AM and I saw her online on MySpace for a split second, but it must've been someone else on her account or something.

I'm really freaked out by all this. D: I don't believe in ghosts or any of this stuff, but it's all so weird.

.little monster December 20th, 2009 6:24 PM

Well, I don't see why Jenny would run away if she thought she was pregnant. But, I cant offer anything except to say I hope she comes back.

About Tom being in the hospital, Jenny couldn't have given him any parasites, or else she would get them too. While, people cant control another's immune system, even in witch craft there is nothing that allows you to do either of those (yes, I just looked it up.)

That's a dream. I had a dream I had a tattoo that said Kitties then someone sniffed it and said it reminded them of puppies. D:

Shadows December 21st, 2009 10:33 PM

I guess I'll try this?
I've been clinically depressed for almost 3 years now, and I've attempted suicide twice. I'd like some advice that may work on getting rid of it. Also, I will not reveal the causes of my depression.

Gary, the Magic Fairy December 23rd, 2009 6:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Shadows (Post 5411261)
I guess I'll try this?
I've been clinically depressed for almost 3 years now, and I've attempted suicide twice. I'd like some advice that may work on getting rid of it. Also, I will not reveal the causes of my depression.

Go eat a cookie.

Seriously, you're 14. What could possibly be so terrible in your life that you feel the need to attempt to end it?

(btw, just seriously considering it and chickening out isn't attempting. Attempting is when you actually inflict harm upon yourself with the intent to die and don't die. Not saying that's what you did, but I'm just trying to make that clear. Lots of people claim to have "attempted" suicide when they really haven't.)

You say you don't want to talk about it, but that just makes me think you're crying out for attention, and don't actually have a decent reason. Here's my advice:

Don't worry, be happy.

Seriously. Smile. Laugh. It helps. Just be happy.

And don't give me any of that "it's not that easy!" crap. It really is that easy.

Zet December 23rd, 2009 6:40 PM

perhaps Scientology is behind your friend's house being burnt down to the ground and making him sick. Did he miss a payment or two?

And I'm sure Jenny will return soon enough

Penguin13 December 23rd, 2009 6:57 PM

Ahh my favorite thread. How could I have forgotten about it? Let's just start from the top of the page. I don't have all day to distribute my infinite wisdom :)

.Aero: You're 16. It doesn't matter if she's your first or millionth. There's someone better out there. Besides, if she's picking fights with you as a girlfriend, then it'll be worse when you're "just friends (but not really. It never works out like that)." *reads more of the thread* Oh, she broke up with you and she's already dating someone else? Sounds like a dirty ***** to me. Good riddance I say.

dc_united: She sounds like a dirty ***** too. Get rid of her. *reads more* Oh. Well, she still sounds like a dirty *****. Dating so soon after a breakup. Get rid of her still.

Jirachu: Because you're shallow.

SacredMiKeY: If she can't decide who to date, then she obviously doesn't have feelings strong enough to successfully be with someone. Don't even start with her. She'll end up being like "oh i think i like him more i'll try him out instead."

~Momo Uchiha~: If it works itself out, then the friendship is strong. If it doesn't or things "aren't the way the used to be", then forget about it; friendship not worth it.

Gary the magical fruitcake: Tell your friends to get off the drugs. If someone that is (nearly?) an adult thinks someone "cursed them," then they have some serious heroin addiction. It probably was the chick who burned down the house, and no, all the lightbulbs didn't explode (unless it was some horrible electrical surge, in which case it would be an electrical fire). And yes, your "friends" are retarded. Scientology, Wicca, hooking up after seeing a horrible movie, camping, bad tempers, etc. You need to get some new friends. *read more* Wow. Now YOU need to grow up. You need to get your head out of your fourth point of contact. Your friends are definitely on drugs and need some major help. Tom has HIV, and Jenny have him HIV.

Sakari: First off, by your grammar and spelling, you're either foreign or not old enough to have a relationship. If you are, then you need to seriously grow some balls and take risks, and get hooked on phonics. You will never have a fantastic relations if you're too scared to be with someone. Yes? Now do it.

Shadows: Wow. Just wow. For serious? Grow the **** up. There's no such thing as "clinically depressed" for an 11-14 year old. You're just being a crybaby. Life sucks then you get over it. The sooner you do, the sooner you'll be happier. And suicide? If you REALLY wanted to die, you'd be dead. If I were going to kill myself, I'd definitely make sure I died. Jumping off a tall building, blowing my brains out, etc. All the good stuff. Not this "oh wah mommy i cut my wrist or hung myself where someone will find me" crap. Go big or go home. And besides, no one can help you if you won't tell us what's wrong. All we can say is cheer up emo kid.

Now for my problem. My girlfriend likes it that I'm chubby, but I hate it and I want to be skinny. What should I do? Ohwait, I know what I should do. Just get skinny and screw her if she doesn't like it.

See, ya'll need to solve your own damn problems. Seriously. You'll never grow up if you can't help yourself. This generation was raised as a group of pansies. It makes me want to punch every single one of you emo and scenester kids in the back of the neck until you figure it out.

EpsilonE December 23rd, 2009 11:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Penguin13 (Post 5417037)
See, ya'll need to solve your own damn problems. Seriously. You'll never grow up if you can't help yourself. This generation was raised as a group of pansies. It makes me want to punch every single one of you emo and scenester kids in the back of the neck until you figure it out.

lol'd.

They're in a state of emotional instability, the only thing you want then is other peoples opinions and support. That why hurting lonely people go suicidal (Either for attention from others or genuiely depressed and no will to live).

I'm sure every single one of us have turned to our parents during problems, unless we were to take your brilliant advice of "Do it yourself". The only emotional support I have is my crazy overweight dad and my narcissistic step-mom, so I, too, turn to random people or friends for emotional support


also

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Originally Posted by Penguin13 (Post 5417037)
Shadows: Wow. Just wow. For serious? Grow the **** up. There's no such thing as "clinically depressed" for an 11-14 year old. You're just being a crybaby. Life sucks then you get over it. The sooner you do, the sooner you'll be happier. And suicide? If you REALLY wanted to die, you'd be dead. If I were going to kill myself, I'd definitely make sure I died. Jumping off a tall building, blowing my brains out, etc. All the good stuff. Not this "oh wah mommy i cut my wrist or hung myself where someone will find me" crap. Go big or go home. And besides, no one can help you if you won't tell us what's wrong. All we can say is cheer up emo kid.

made you sound like the biggest idiot known to mankind. Try hanging yourself where no one will find you and see how many months go before your $5 an hour gf wonders where her fatty has gone.

I wish I still lived in hawaii so I could personally kick your ass you little scrub

Penguin13 December 24th, 2009 12:11 AM

Well, guess another one of you guys needs to grow up :)


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