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my dog died today she got hit by a car we buried her under her dig house and have all her stuff in there but i cant stop crying and cant stop feeling sad it like hurts in the inside of my heart every time i think of her and i start tearing up i need help to feel better if you could pm me with your answers to make me feel better please and thank you :'( :(
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losing a loved one is never easy, it's perfectly normal to grief their death, if it helps think of all the good times and think that most likely your dog is in a better place now^^
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My condolences on the death. It's amazing how a pet can become so much more, how we can love and identify so much with them. To have her taken away in an untimely and brutal manner must be even worse. She'll be in my thoughts and prayers, as will you and yours. Grieve, and remember her, but remember too that death is best answered with life and that those who love us most would not want to see our lives ruined by their memory. Grieve, but live and enjoy life. Take this as a reminder to make a mark on the world in her honor and memory.
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Same thing happened to me, except we had to put our dog down. She was going blind and she had diabetes, so it was only fair on her half that we put her down. All I can say is stay strong, your family will support you and everything will clear up eventually. Grieving will just make your life worse. Remember the good times you had with her and just remember that she had a good life. Like Master Electrician said, she wouldn't want you to grieve over her death, so live life to the fullest and use this experience to push yourself harder in work and other things.
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When my cat died I swore I would never get another cat. It took me a while to get over it, that cat had such a personality, some people see animals as an object but they have souls aswell. I'm getting another cat now, 8 years later, I saw that getting another cat wasn't a bad thing and I wasn't replacing my old cat. I'm no longer upset but I still remember that cat and always will. |
Well, it's come to this: Roughly three weeks ago, I broke up with my girlfriend. It was a long distance relationship, and looking back, one I wasn't terribly invested in. It lasted for four months, all told. I grew interested in another who reciprocated. We're currently together, and I have to say, very happily so. Unfortunately, my ex doesn't seem to be able to get past it.
It's infuriating, really. She's behaving childishly about the entire thing. I admit that I could have handled the breakup more gracefully and my temper during it, but point blank, I just couldn't handle being with her anymore, whether or not there was anyone else involved. I do still care about her and want her to be happy, but I'm just so sick of her doing everything she can to keep wallowing in self-pity that I talk to her as little as I can so as I don't wind up in another fit of pique. Any thoughts on how to control that anger? |
when you feel angry you can always start punching a punching bag or boxing bag, I forget what they're called or stress balls can be good if money is an issue
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People really have been annoying me lately, and stress has been building up. I've been thinking of actually hitting a guy because of his continuous annoyance.
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So I've come to the conclusion that I hate my job and I'm seeking to remedy the situation! Wish me luck!
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I got one you guys might not have heard before.
My band recently disbanded and I have to start from scratch (again!). Anyway, they took their instruments with them and they were from my school, my age. No one else in my school can play the guitar or bass guitar that good, but we do have a backup drummer. I want new members, but I want people my age in the band and there is really no one else I can find. Any ideas on what I can do? |
If you really want a band so much, make one of those... bulletin things. You put all the instructions like where to meet, the preferred age, to bring their instrument and stuff on a piece of paper and stick it up all around your area.
That's really all I can think of. That or just... waiting patiently for someone to show up. |
My problem is that not many people like Crazy Bones. I wish more people liked them.
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Um...I'm sure someone out there likes them, there's always at least a couple.
@ Master Electrician - Your girlfriend is probably hurt over the whole thing and tries to make herself feel a bit better about it by behaving the way she is. I suggest you try to understand what she's going through at the moment, I mean, it's not exactly an easy thing to get over, and some people naturally take longer than others. Try to put it out of your mind for at least a small while each day, or take a walk or something calm, which usually helps. |
Well, it's a long story....
I have this disease which makes my bones act unnatural(or w/e) It makes them grow tumors of bone on the bone, which can cause pain in my legs and arms. Now esspecially around this time, it sucks. I had surgery 4 months ago. They gave me a sort of metal construction, which corrects my bone. Now, yesterday i had gymnastics i left,my theacher and i make an agreement, i didn't have to come, but now my theacher told the dean(spelling?) i wasn't there and i got into some serious trouble today... I GOT SCREWED!!! D: EDIT: YEEAAAHSSSSHHH, first post n.n |
what sort of trouble did you get into?
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At most 5 Hours, and it wasn't even my mistake D: |
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I'm officially a wreck. My dad is leaving my mom. It's done for them. She stole money from his bank account to help some guy she's probably in an affair with. I need some help/advice. Please? I tried begging my dad not to go, but its not gonna work out. |
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Good luck, though. Kidpunk, you might want to try and teach some friends to play. Have you got any spare guitars they can use? |
My best freinds parents split up aswell. He seems to be okay, though, so i hope you're okay once the dust has settled ^_^
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Well, he's not really my dad. He's my step dad, but he's the only dad I have ever had. I don't think he has custody over my brother and I, and he had done this to two previous wives before. I'm more afraid of how we're going to survive. My mom didn't finish school, where as my step dad finished high school. If he's gone, I don't know how we'll be stable. |
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It doesn't matter about whether your mom finished school or not. If she is in a stable job and you want to carry on with school there is no reason why you shouldn't be able to you. It was hard when my parents split at first but after a while I got used to it. The start of the break up is always the worst, but it is down to the two people and trying to convince them to stay together won't help as they won't change there mind and you will feel worse as you have asked them to stay together but they haven't, which can cause you feeling like they don't care about your feelings when they do and they feel that this is for the best. |
If that is the case, Vanilla Kitsune, i think you can get like, money from the government to help support if you're unstable in finances..might be more to it than that
but i hope things go well for you in the meantime..:) |
I'm a senior in high school and college planning is really getting on my nerves. All the stupid financial aid and housing I have to apply for if I want to go to the college I want, Northern Arizona Univ btw. Then I have to deal with my annoying parents who are getting pissed because I want to leave.
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I have problems falling asleep which takes a toll on my well-being. I always wake up in the morning generally feeling like crap because I've been laying in bed and awake at 2:00 AM, not even feeling tired. It takes me at least four hours to start feeling better in the morning.
I've tried warm milk, a hot bath, meditation, breathing exercises, lying in a different position, eating nothing four hours before bed, chamomile tea, and resting on wet towels, along with other things. Does anybody have any other remedies or advice? Right now, I'm definitely considering seeing a doctor on this issue... |
Get off the computer earlier. It might help.
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my cousin has the same issue, sometimes he doesnt even sleep though, one thing you should try is see a doctor, maybe it has something to do with your metabolism.
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What I do recommend. Is that you drink: C0Ffe3! If you haven't yet. If you have, make sure it sin't Decaf. If all else fails... You seriously need to see a doctor. I'm just a regular person. |
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My gf is really annoyed ( as in im gonna dump u if u do it again kinda annoyed) at me because she saw me looking at some other girl funny.
i never liked her and she is driving me insane but i dont wanna dump her. what do i do? |
I've been really depressed all my vacation from my University. First off, my parents decided (after months of planning and deposits) they said I can't go to Japan in the Spring because they don't think the group I'm doing it with is legit. Next, I am trying to do my transfer applications since I hate my college, but I am too scared and think there is no way I am going to get in. I feel like I am completely stuck and don't know what to do.
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Besides, you're young. It's not like she's going to be the only girl you will ever go out with. You can let her go find someone that will like her for her, and you can actually be with someone that you actually like. It'll be better and healthier for you two to break up instead of being in a relationship where one person really doesn't care for the other person. Before that, you could talk things out with her. But if she's going to dump you for looking at another girl, she might not be secure in the relationship to even put some energy into saving it. Then again, I'm bitter. - Capt. Couch, try to listen to relaxing music before you fall asleep. Not only will it calm you, it'll also clear your mind if you focus on it. Make sure that your room is completely dark. Try to fall asleep at the same time. And really don't drink coffee, or any caffeine at all during the day if you can, because that can keep you up. You could also try exercising more, since that'll tire you out physically. If you still can't get to sleep, then go to see your doctor. There might be something else going on. |
like, i like her, but she p*sses me off.
ill ask out her best friend thanks by the way |
you'll probably get killed asking out her best friend, why don't you just talk to her about the issues you have with her
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Nah. If he breaks up with her first, then asks her best friend out later, he should be fine.
Personally I wouldnt stay with a woman who didnt trust me. Ditch her as soon as you can. (bonus points if you can do it softly) |
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My problem right now is that I only work 3 days a week and then have 4 days off. I need a hobby. Help? |
i got a problem i need help with
i like this one guy and he likes me too but he's waiting till we know eachother a little better to ask me out but idk i just wanna ask him like 2maro or w.e should i wait til he asks me or wat? |
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saying stuff over MSN is easier definetly. |
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its kinda embarrasing to have a chick slap your face and run off crying in front of everyone. if i ever have to do this again. (not doubting it) ill do it face to face
ill do softly tho |
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not yet.
ill wait til school goes back |
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Eheh. I have a silly teenage problem. xD;;. Caution, up ahead lies a bit of a strange and complex situation written in detail just an idea of the feel of the circumstances.
So, I don't exactly hate but I don't like my female classmates either. None of them are good students, they all have shallow, inambitious personalities and the only thing they can talk (or scream about- they are quite loud..) about is how --ty the smallest thing is, how gay it is for two guys just to play wrestle, or what's going on in that soap opera. Therefore, I am the odd girl out in my classroom as I am serious about my studies, I like video games and anime and I don't like to raise my voice. Because of my interests, I noticed that in class I spend most of my time talking to the guys. During breaktime, I spend my time with two sisters from a lower grade, and we're good friends, but I never ever really click with the girls in my class. There are fourteen in my class, with five girls and nine guys, counting myself. Though they do mix, most of the time the guys stick to the guys and the girls stick to the girls. Which makes it awkward for me, since I don't want to be alienated from the group of girls but I have fun hanging out with the guys too. I can bear with it, though. My real problem is this: I like this guy, very much. I care about him, I like working with him on school projects because he's a hardworking, ambitious person while also being a funny guy. However, like everyone else in the class, he's also concerned about keeping up an 'appearance' for the rest of the class. When it is just the two of us talking to each other, he's casual and talks to me normally, though usually he can't talk for long. When he's around friends, however, I notice that he's quite rude to me at times when I approach him. I understand this, of course. My class is pretty immature when it comes to relationships- you hang out with a person of the opposite gender, by the next day the word has gone around that you two are 'deep in love' and a potential strong platonic relationship is ruined. And because the person I like is always surrounded by the tight circle of his friends, it's almost impossible to catch him alone. So I take whatever chance I get to get to know him better, and we're somewhat friends from these efforts, but he doesn't know I like him- at least I don't think so. However, my girl classmates know that I like him. They're not very experienced with romance, however, so often they're bad at giving advice regarding it, and tease me about my affections. They throw out hints all the time in front of everybody, which unnerves me greatly. It's very annoying, actually. Earlier today, school got out, and my female classmate asked me, "Why do you like him anyway? Are you desperate? You're desperate, aren't you.." And I hate that word 'desperate'. Her words left me disturbed. I'm a very affectionate person, I hang out with guys and I know many guys who are close, platonic friends of mine. So even in this circumstance when it'd be a better idea to hang out with the tight clique of girls to avoid conflict, why do I care about this guy so much and why am I 'hanging' with these dudes? I like it when I work hard and get good praise for it, and I soak up compliments from others very happily, and I'm wondering if these are actions to deal with a low self-esteem problem. The bottom line is, I'm wondering if I'm desperate for affection and a feeling of self-worth. I've been thinking about it very carefully since my classmate suggested it. You don't have to tackle every single issue I've presented in this thesis of a post, but I'd really like to know if it's normal to want a some love. I can live without it, but I really would like to have someone to feel mutual romantic emotions towards myself. It's made me very confused.. |
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Those girls aren't your friends, and you'd do well to remember that. A good friend doesn't make fun of you. Also it may be time for you to take a stand against the status quo, have a talk with the guy and actually let him know the same. If the other guys desert him just because he likes you, a girl, as a very close friend, then they really aren't his friends either. Be yourself. Don't let crowd ruin things for you. In the end, it'll earn you respect. |
Well, I'm pretty much scared for my Uncle right now,he has a blood clot in his legs,the doctors say if it get's to his brain it could cause him to die,I'm very scared at the moment I wish I could do something to help him,but I can't,he's one of the best Uncle's I've had,I go over every two weeks to check on him to see if he's alright,I just really need somebody to talk too you know,and I'm very nervous.
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I'm Having Girl Troubles...
Ok. I have a problem, and like most dudes my age, it's a girl problem. Here's the story:
There's this girl at school. I only have one class with her, and that's 4th period. We've been sitting together and talking since September, and overtime, I've started to develop feelings for her. I've been getting signs that she might have feelings for me too, like when I gave a speech one day, I happened to notice her smiling at me. And this was only with me too. Another day, I could've sworn she was about to tell me she liked me, but the bell rang. And then later on, we got new seating arrangements, and now we're not sitting next to each other anymore. We're on like two different sides of the room. It's hard for me to get a chance to talk to her now. The only times we get to talk is if we get into the same group, or at dismissal. I don't see her much around the school either. But there's just something about her that feels right to me. I'm just being told "She's the one! She's the one!" all the time... What should I do now? I need tips... :( |
From a girl: I'd say you should probably ask her out. You might say 'But I'm not sure she likes me!' Well, how much other stuff has she done to subtlely tell you she likes you? If it's nothing else, find out more about if she likes you or not, watch for more. Does she start up convos with you just to talk? Does she laugh at everything you say that's even slightly optimistic? Does she want to spend time with you outside of that period? If she does, she probably likes you and you should just ask her out.
Keep me updated, this sounds interesting. You could actually just ask if she wants to see a movie sometime. If she says something like 'sorry, but i don't like you that way' you can just blow it off with a 'Oh, I didn't really mean it that way! I meant as friends.' Ta-dah. Yayz. |
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The hints that girls give tend to..be forgotten by boys. ^^' Lol We truly are a (mostly) clueless gender when it comes to the opposite sex. XD
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I know you must be very anxious for him, as you stated. Remember, just stay strong, enjoy and savour every moment you have with him, and don't be scared to express your love for him! If you ever need someone to talk to, I'll always be here. You can drop off a PM/VM or something anytime. n___n Quote:
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Basic boy problem.....
Okay...well I have heard from 10 diffrent people that my friend, Shayne, likes me. But he says he doesn't. I want him to like me...but I think he does, he just doens't want to admit it.....any ways I can get him to admit it? |
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(Someone's feeling egotistical today...) |
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Believe me if all girls did this, guys would be so much more open towards emotions. |
My friend has been seriously pissing me off lately -____-
Me and him were such good friends two years ago, but now it's just like he's a different person /: I know it's just the agony of growing up, but I sometimes feel like I'm the one who has grown up since I was 14-15 and he has grown down /: I think he THINKS he has grown up, but he hasn't /: he's just acting more immature than before. I just miss having fun with him and doing things on complete impluse, we used to just catch random busses places and just have fun in that town and what not =)) now we just do the same things all the time, and they bore me :( He's also really mean to me lately :( I haven't even done anything. |
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I just can't stand change :( I know it's something you have to deal with.... at times I just wish everything could stay the same.
Then again, if everything stayed the same we wouldn't grow as people :( I should be thankful that he was there to begin with, and he helped me become a stronger person today. I'm more serious in some ways, like I can't deal with the way he acts around some people anymore </3 I just feel like telling him stop being so bloody pretentious around some people -____- I just feel like an outcast around most people my age lately /: I think I've out-grown alot, it sucks. |
Hahaha... Yes, it's a love problem this time again.
Ok, so like last week I met a girl new to the school. Love at first sight, and it happened non-sexually, which with me is rarer than a shiny Pokemon o.o'. So then I said hi to her, when we looked into each others eyes, and I just didn't know what hit me, she was so beautiful I lost track of time and the enviroment, I don't for how long we stared until another girl chased me away. The next day, I met her outside, we stared at each other again with all the love in the universe, she then looked away and walked to a group of friends, then another one chased me away ;_;. Before anyone tries to press that "Post Reply" button, here's the catch: She is hanging out with girls that completely hate me and know me as a "Disgusting Stalker" because I started off the year being a flirty guy who tends to be in many places at the same time. She isn't very social but she still hangs around with them. And if I try to get near her, the others will comment negatively and try to chase me off. Worst of all, I am super Nervous Because when I actually greet her, we tend to stare at each other, I think she has feelings for me, but heck, do I do a Reputational Suicide all the time. |
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It works wonders. Ask her for her msn, and talk to her on there. I'm sure you'll be able to talk some stuff through, and maybe even go out for a movie or something? Sounds like you really like this girl. Do you have any classes with her? Maybe you could pass her a note in class or something. Otherwise, the best choice might be to just try and catch her alone sometime. I have many friends who are also friends with this one girl who hates me (although I have no clue what her freaking problem is, she's dating my ex, and I introduced them, and I don't even hate her?), so I know what you mean by that group of friends who hate you. Don't let them get to you, as I didn't let this girl get to me, but it must be somewhat harder for the girl you like. =/ Just think about how you could act around her and stuff. |
I doubt it tbh :( the only thing I can actually see working anymore is cutting him out of my life full stop.
He's quite possessive with me lately, and gets annoyed if I go out with other friends -____- Idk what's with him anymore. Blahhhhhh. Thanks for everything btw <3 |
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How does your friend see you? Do you think he could somehow like you more than as a friend? |
The reason we're friends is because my old friend Abi (she used to be my best friend before she moved) used to be his gf, so I hanged out with them both.
But, then when Abi moved to New Zealand we still talked loads. I really don't think he likes me like that... I mean if he did I'm sure he would have told me by now /: we've slept in the same bed together a few times (in parties and stuff) and he never ever tried anything on with me or anything. |
OK...Here goes.
I take a "gifted course". It's called Challenge. Basically, we do critical thinking mumbo jumbo. Anyways, I used to like the class, but now, I dread going in that classroom. I don't really like the people in the period I have the class either. The teacher's ok, I just hate the work we do. It takes forever, it's really hard. Plus, we're doing this "Around the World" project right now, and I just don't want to do it... Well, I don't really "just don't want to do it", I just don't really care about it... I really want to switch out...but I don't know if I should or not... Do you think I should? |
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Yeah, then I'm pretty sure he doesn't like you like that.. If you were at parties and stuff, there must have been alcohol? Was he drunk? If he was and you guys were in the bed together, than he must of tried something, cause from personal experience, all guys are horn dogs when they're drunk. Even if he wasn't, though, you said "a few times", which is plenty enough for him to have tried something. && now he's just really mean to you? How about you explain some of the things he does. Quote:
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I hate the word desperate in this sense as much as you do. Don't mind me but, if the girls in your class think like this, they're plain immature, and I advice not having such people around with the name of friends. If you like hanging out with the guys, that might be cause they have a closer personality to you, and that it's more fun to hang out with them - and it's as normal as eating food everyday. And about him liking you, you'll never know till you... till you... I'm sorry, but I can't think of anything to say... But you'll have to do something for sure. That something you'll have to figure out yourself. And try getting hints from the way he does things and the way he talks to you. Maybe that might be a way. And you shouldn't back off at revealing a little of your feeling toward himself either. Guys are bad at understanding that trait of girls most of the time! It also sounds like he's under peer pressure of some kind, to have gone to the point of teasing you when they're around. But tell him how you feel. Maybe get him on MSN? It's a great idea to get to know each other better! And don't stop being yourself just because of those girls making fun. Hope that helped! :) Quote:
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I know I say this almost all the time, but I'll tell this again - I know how that feels, cause I had a lot of experience about these things in my life. No, it isn't the agony of growing up, it's just that you've become more mature, and tend to care about all mutual relationships more now than before. And even if this term might seem inexistent, your friend has actually lost maturity. Times have become like this these days... If he's mean to you, maybe he has changed, and is not the same friend anymore you had before. Good changes are always welcome, but they don't seem to happen much. So, I myself can't stand much of these changes either. Good changes make you grow, not these ones... If he acts more like an insulting creep around other people, whether it sounds stupid or not, he's simply thinking he's at a higher position than you, and you have to talk it out with your friend. You have to show that you are something too, and if a detailed time-taken conversation doesn't help it out, then look for other friends rather than this one. If he's possessive of you, it means what I've told in the previous paragraph is completely true. It could either have been that he likes you and he's jealous, but no... After you've taken a good amount of attempt and still don't succeed, then, like you suggested yourself, cutting him off from your life seems good... And about feeling left out from everything and by most people around your age, it's true that you've become mature to a level that you can't mix in with them. Just wait for it, and sometimes try looking for what they seek in friendship. But my advice is - be yourself, and if this makes any friend come to you for friendship's sake, then they will bw your true friends. What do you want more - A huge bunch of people hanging around with you, or a low number of friends, but true friends? Hope that helped! :) Quote:
And yeah, don't do a reputational suicide. It can be one of the worst things you can do to yourself. You'll even feel like going somewhere new where nobody knows you, if at extreme. From today onwards, try giving everyone the image that you are not the stalking flirty guy anymore (sorry if it hurts...). And about being nervous, I'll point out to MSN again. Face to face conversation with such a person can almost always make anyone nervous. It won't happen in MSN though, so there you go! After you get to know her a little, you'll see that the nervousness is fading away. And at school, try to get her alone, which might be difficult! Hope that helped! :) |
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and he probably thinks you're just a good friend only for the time being but I'm sure he'll fall for you |
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Ignore him, he gains nothing by his comments and there is nothing to be gained by paying attention to him either. Now...
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Actually, I'm pretty sure he's gay -rolleyes-
He has come out as "bi" before, but I know him too well to believe that. Thanks for the good advice btw guys. I find it funny how I haven't even posted pics of myself on here and some people are already thinking that lol. |
A. First off guys thanks for the advice on the last problem.
B. I have a new one: One of my best friends (who is also my roommate here in college) was just diagnosed with type 1 diabetes. I don't really know what to do to help. His girlfriend is going to be staying with us so her and I can take care of him for a while but with school work, clubs, reapplying to new schools it seems like this is going to be one hard semester. I am not sure what I can really do to help my friend other than have the same diet he does so he doesn't feel bad and exercise with him. (I hope I'm not going against the rules, its not that I have been or anything I just want to know how I should treat him (I know not differently but I'm so confused...)). |
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First of all, I am not recommending you go on the same diet as him unless you have an inactive pancreas as well. It could be bad for YOUR blood sugar. The exercise is Ok, but you need to maintain homeostasis yourself as well. Ermm.. Homeostasis (Hou Me ou Steisihs): The maintainance of an organism to keep regular conditions. Anyways. I feel sorry for your friend, it's hard to deal with this but the best you can do is help him keep his health. Diabetes often forces people to miss education time, so also try to help him in what's going on in college as well if he needs to check his blood a lot. Good Luck ─ TtFaF Expert. |
ugghh girl problems theres this girl who i like and she acts very kind and stares at me all day and have a great smile so i decided to ask her out but i am a very shy person so i chickened out and now i still like her but shes going out with another boy what to do what to do sorry i didnt give you alot of info
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LugiaInfinity suicide
I have recently had a very saddening and frustrating conversation with a person by the forum name of LugiaInfinity. It was scary. We had been friends for a while and he started talking about killing himself and it really started to scare me. I was trying to talk him out of it, but what can I do? I'm in Australia and he lives in Guyana (which is near Brazil)
I am scared. He's been offline since yesterday and the only contact with him I've had is that he has changed his personal message to; "People only care about you when you're ready to kill yourself." I have copied everything that was said onto a Microsoft Word spreadsheet. I don't think I should post it here because it may sadden some poeple. I don't know what to do. Now, I am not joking. This actually happened. I just wish he could talk to me or send me an email so that I know he didn't do it. I've never been in a situation anything like thes before and I don't know what to do. I was trying to stop somebody from taking their own life. I was scared. I'm hoping it's all a joke, but he sounded pretty depressed. I probably shouldn't post this as it may be evidence to some sort of suicide case that may come up in the near future, but this is the last thing he said to me: Ryo - Shadow Chaos Emperor says: im like gonna ignore thissss Ryo - Shadow Chaos Emperor says: and forget this Ryo - Shadow Chaos Emperor says: and just sleep It's been almost two days since I last heard from him and I haven't logged off msn or closed the conversation window with him. Please help me out here. I feel terrible because I couldn't do anything and I don't know what to do.... |
dont worry if he did umm you know then he is in a better place rite now or maybe he just taking off stress by sleeping and plus its not like being on the computer is all he does all day people have lives outside of PC lets hope he is having a good one
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Killing oneself is not as easy as it seems to be, your friend probably is depressed and doesn't want to talk at the moment, perhaps patience will give you an answer, if it doesn't and you really need to know Try to find a way to get other ways of contacting him, like the phone, ask around his friends^^
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Umm... He hasn't necessarily killed himself. Maybe he just needed time to think. Also, generally (if I learned anything from Health class) what you do when someone is on the brink like that is talk to them specifically about the suicide. Then again, I thought my Health teacher was crazy too.
Problems? I have problems... I have to write six articles every week for my newsletter. That's a lot of wrriting! |
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Wow! Thanks allot for broadcasting to the whole PokeCommunity that I'm the insane kid that wants to kill himself.
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LugiaInfinity, I think your friend is just worried about you...pleaase don't get offended by their kindness. Plus you did kinda broadcast it yourself by putting it in you MSN name.
If you really feel that way, is there someone you can talk it through with, like a friend or tutor? |
More boy problems....yay?
Yikes! Well, today my friend Colin shouted out in Art class "EMILY LIKES SHAYNE!" And I felt like dissappearing at that momment. And since then, he hasn't spoken a word to me. Let alone look at me. I mean, I DO like him. And since my mom is a teacher, she got Shayne's address so I could go talk to him about it...idk what to do! Im scared...and nervous... |
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And you consider him your friend? Just lay low, and don't stress out or feel embarrassed. Eventually, in a bit, approach him and just chat with him in a friendly manner. I wish you the best of luck. |
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If that doesn't work, me not know what will. Guys always fall for flirts, but don't go too strong. |
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Well, I just got back from his house and it was an O.K talk. I started crying walking home. Since he says he doesn't like me, and I like him. I KNOW he likes me. He acts like a big flirt around me, he stares at me in gym class when we are running, he smiles at me A LOT, and he is nice to me. Like, he gave me a box of candy before I left his house. He is also a real gentleman around me, like when I was talking to him, before we talked, he spit out his gum, cleaned up his room, and LOOKED at me. Most guys don't do that. Im eager to go back tomorrow after school and talk to him if people question me about being there like his friend Steven...soo...im very nervous about this. It took me about 20 minutes to knock on the door. |
Don't freak him out.
Just act natural. And maybe he doesn't, but he didn't want to offend you in any way. I am not sure, because no girl has openly admitted they ever like me, but I still have many female friends. We just talk. Not flirt. Not fight. |
...Yeah. I think he found it strange I was standing in his living room...but I left early cause he had a friend over. If anyone says anything to me tomorrow at school, im going back to his house to straighten all this out.
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