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code4242 July 18th, 2008 7:17 AM

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Originally Posted by Dawg 2005 (Post 3487501)
Well, that's you. My personal opinion is that going around doing that is really screwed up. It's called Lust. I'm sure you've heard of it (besides from that anime show). She felt that she was giving back what I gave her (which is, support, friendship, a lot of other stuff). I haven't mentioned this before, because everyone will think that I'm a total loser who can't get a girl, but that was my first kiss. And you know what? I'm glad it was from her.

Thanks for helping everyone, but I really think there's nothing else I can do.

I just have to say that you rock!(i wish i were u:'()

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Originally Posted by Dawg 2005 (Post 3489531)
The trust thing makes sense, since we both trust each other with our lives, pretty much.

I can't think of anything. I'm sure I've done nothing wrong.
If she liked me, then why wouldn't she just say?

some people tell others they like by simply(or not so simply) kissing them. try kissing her back.

Moon lucario July 18th, 2008 6:06 PM

I think i can see spirits
 
my grandfather died in my house at night on january 31 of 2008. Well a few days after he died i started getting "uneasy feelings" about my house. I would get feelings like someone/something is in pain or wanting to cause pain. well a month or so later i stopped getting that feeling. Now resently at night when i go into my dinning room i see aura or white light ball thingy going into the room where my grandfather died. now a week or so ago while out in my dinning room i saw something(sorta blacking figure) walk across my kitchen look at me then dissapear.

What do you think?

Neko July 18th, 2008 6:44 PM

I think my problems just got worse...
 
Well now my cousin's friend is sleeping over. My cousin seems to want to hang out with HIM. >.> It actually makes me a little depressed. I'm basically all by myself in this house, even when technically I'm not! *cries* :'<

We're even going to see a movie tomorrow that is the sequel of another movie that I haven't even seen! God I just hope I don't start crying in the middle of the theatre. It's embarassing, cause sometimes I can't really help crying (and I seem to do it a lot *death) but fortunately enough it seems I'm really good at hiding it...

Moon lucario July 19th, 2008 12:03 AM

Another problem =/
 
Ok ive been dating a guy for 6 months now. hes 21 im 17. in august i have a doctors appointment(regular doctor). well my grandma had me put on Birthcontrol. If the docotor were to recomend me get a test at a guincalogist to check if i have had sex or not and i go there and they find out i did is there another excuse i can use besides me "doing it"? like can i say i put a tampon in or what? Can a doctor even tell if you have or what?

Eureka1 July 19th, 2008 12:28 AM

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Originally Posted by Moon lucario (Post 3772083)
Ok ive been dating a guy for 6 months now. hes 21 im 17. in august i have a doctors appointment(regular doctor). well my grandma had me put on Birthcontrol. If the docotor were to recomend me get a test at a guincalogist to check if i have had sex or not and i go there and they find out i did is there another excuse i can use besides me "doing it"? like can i say i put a tampon in or what? Can a doctor even tell if you have or what?

Your hymen will be broken. ;)

Maybe they won't be that intrusive though.

Akarei Yorume July 19th, 2008 12:38 AM

I am sorry to post here yet again. But I can never decide things for myself. And I really want to be helped.

It's the same issue as the first one I posted. But it's gotten worse. Now I dream about him every night. I feel faint when I hear his voice. I pretend he's real... I cling to the blanket as if it's him, and to vent my emotions I just say everything, pour out my entire soul to "him"... and I'm not focusing on anything, even the stuff I like, like Pokemon... or programming.
The scary thing is, part of me thinks "don't get help. They'll pull you away from him, and you don't want that..." I don't even really WANT to be helped, I want to stay in this dreamlike state forever... I wouldn't care if I never woke up again... if I were in my dreams eternally and I died I wouldn't care.
If he existed I'd literally kill someone if he told me to. I'd do just about anything for him... even die...
It's made me lose all my friends (all my friends IRL anyway), and I don't even care. I have him to talk to even though he isn't real. He strokes my hair, and I feel it without really feeling it. I hardly feel anything these days except when I am alone... alone with my thoughts of him.
Itachi Uchiha.

Eureka1 July 19th, 2008 12:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Myra Uchiha (Post 3772132)
Itachi Uchiha.

Is trolling allowed in this section?

Akarei Yorume July 19th, 2008 12:49 AM

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Originally Posted by Eureka1 (Post 3772147)
Is trolling allowed in this section?

No, not in any section on PC, why? >_> And we're getting off topic. If you're not gonna say something relating to this thread than don't post in it. D:

And I really thought you had posted something that would at least make me feel a little better. ><

Eureka1 July 19th, 2008 1:01 AM

But Itachi Uchiha is fictional, so is this classed as roleplay or what? I personally don't think it's appropriate when compared to other people's problems.

Akarei Yorume July 19th, 2008 1:03 AM

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Originally Posted by Eureka1 (Post 3772179)
But Itachi Uchiha is fictional, so is this classed as roleplay or what? I personally don't think it's appropriate when compared to other people's problems.

My problem is that it's an obsession and it's getting in the way of my daily life.

Zet July 19th, 2008 1:03 AM

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Originally Posted by Eureka1 (Post 3772179)
But Itachi Uchiha is fictional, so is this classed as roleplay or what? I personally don't think it's appropriate when compared to other people's problems.

obsession is found in many forms, her's is some fictional character

and to that problem I'd say just stop watching the show, hard as it may be, it should help

Moon lucario July 19th, 2008 1:13 AM

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Originally Posted by Eureka1 (Post 3772120)
Your hymen will be broken. ;)

Maybe they won't be that intrusive though.


ive heard there is so many other ways the hymen can be broken but does that mean u have had sex or is no actual way to tell if you have had sex or not.

Weatherman, Kiyoshi July 19th, 2008 3:22 AM

Okay, problem:

Yesterday my dog had heatstroke (we know this by looking in my dog-care book I got when I was little. He had all the symptoms.) and he had to be taken from our neighbors last night because he couldn't get up and my dad had to carry him home;

now, this morning he's better, but should we proceed with treatment?
(not medication, there are some ways of heatstroke treatment in the dog-care book)

Eureka1 July 19th, 2008 3:26 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Moon lucario (Post 3772195)
ive heard there is so many other ways the hymen can be broken but does that mean u have had sex or is no actual way to tell if you have had sex or not.

I know people who've broken it from doing the splits.. so get to it!

Zanacross July 19th, 2008 3:27 AM

If it was my dogs I would do the treatment. My dogs are my best friends. I wouldn't want anything happening to them.

Neko July 19th, 2008 4:49 AM

Yeah, better safe than sorry. I would still do the treatment. x.x;;


-Neko

Anxiety. July 19th, 2008 5:05 AM

Go through with the treatment.

get rid of it before it gets any worse. Because you want your Dog to live life to the fullest, and with something like that, he can't because he has o be careful. Its for the better of the Dog if you go through with the treatment, so it can be fully healthy.

Akarei Yorume July 19th, 2008 12:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Zet (Post 3772185)
obsession is found in many forms, her's is some fictional character

and to that problem I'd say just stop watching the show, hard as it may be, it should help

I actually don't watch the show or read the Manga much anymore.

Mr. Curling Iron July 20th, 2008 2:39 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Myra Uchiha (Post 3772132)
I am sorry to post here yet again. But I can never decide things for myself. And I really want to be helped.

It's the same issue as the first one I posted. But it's gotten worse. Now I dream about him every night. I feel faint when I hear his voice. I pretend he's real... I cling to the blanket as if it's him, and to vent my emotions I just say everything, pour out my entire soul to "him"... and I'm not focusing on anything, even the stuff I like, like Pokemon... or programming.
The scary thing is, part of me thinks "don't get help. They'll pull you away from him, and you don't want that..." I don't even really WANT to be helped, I want to stay in this dreamlike state forever... I wouldn't care if I never woke up again... if I were in my dreams eternally and I died I wouldn't care.
If he existed I'd literally kill someone if he told me to. I'd do just about anything for him... even die...
It's made me lose all my friends (all my friends IRL anyway), and I don't even care. I have him to talk to even though he isn't real. He strokes my hair, and I feel it without really feeling it. I hardly feel anything these days except when I am alone... alone with my thoughts of him.
Itachi Uchiha.


Dude. Tell your parents, or don't, but atleast go to a psychiatrist/psychologist, get your medicare card and go to a doctor for gods sakes! Man, doctors cant take what happened in their work into their life, its illegial, so it'll all be confidential. get help. seriously.

.Seth July 21st, 2008 5:29 AM

My problem:

I have this sleeping problem. With me its either I stay up most of the night and sleep all of the day and miss everything that happens that day, or I stay up all night and end up falling asleep around 10 or 11 in the morning and waking up right after everyone else is asleep.
Its really getting at me because I work on my hack during the day. It's cutting into production since my team is usually awake during the day where i live. (One lives in the philipenes, but he works rarely, usually correcting a few errors here and there) and (One lives in the Eastern time zone, right next to mine.) and the (other one i don't know where he lives but He's always on during the day.) Anyways, what I'm trying to say is that while they're one in the day, I'm asleep. And I'm on when they're asleep. I really need to get this straightened out. Can anyone help?

Any suggestions are welcome.

Nick July 21st, 2008 5:46 AM

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Originally Posted by Seth the ROM master (Post 3778996)
My problem:

I have this sleeping problem. With me its either I stay up most of the night and sleep all of the day and miss everything that happens that day, or I stay up all night and end up falling asleep around 10 or 11 in the morning and waking up right after everyone else is asleep.
Its really getting at me because I work on my hack during the day. It's cutting into production since my team is usually awake during the day where i live. (One lives in the philipenes, but he works rarely, usually correcting a few errors here and there) and (One lives in the Eastern time zone, right next to mine.) and the (other one i don't know where he lives but He's always on during the day.) Anyways, what I'm trying to say is that while they're one in the day, I'm asleep. And I'm on when they're asleep. I really need to get this straightened out. Can anyone help?

Any suggestions are welcome.

This is the same problem I have, but I do know the way to fix it. I have had this same problem many times beforehand and the only method that worked for me is by forcing yourself to stay up throughout the whole day. What you need is to keep yourself away from the computer for one day because the computer doesn't help when you are trying to stay awake. Try going over a friends house, going swimming (usually swimming wakes you up a little bit.. especially when you're trying to stay up all night. XD), or even playing video games. Those are really the three things I've done to keep myself busy during the day enough to stay awake until, at least, dinner time.

If you do that, you'll probably wake up around nine in the morning and you'll have a full nights rest, basically. If you start to feel tired during the day, you need to do something to keep your mind off of it. Though it's unhealthy to force yourself to stay up all night and day long, it's the only thing that will help you get back to a normal sleeping pattern without any extra work. Though, that's enough work on it's own. XD

If this doesn't help, a few pages earlier in this thread I offered some help to another member. You can find the single post here.

Suki July 21st, 2008 6:20 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Myra Uchiha (Post 3772132)
I am sorry to post here yet again. But I can never decide things for myself. And I really want to be helped.

It's the same issue as the first one I posted. But it's gotten worse. Now I dream about him every night. I feel faint when I hear his voice. I pretend he's real... I cling to the blanket as if it's him, and to vent my emotions I just say everything, pour out my entire soul to "him"... and I'm not focusing on anything, even the stuff I like, like Pokemon... or programming.
The scary thing is, part of me thinks "don't get help. They'll pull you away from him, and you don't want that..." I don't even really WANT to be helped, I want to stay in this dreamlike state forever... I wouldn't care if I never woke up again... if I were in my dreams eternally and I died I wouldn't care.
If he existed I'd literally kill someone if he told me to. I'd do just about anything for him... even die...
It's made me lose all my friends (all my friends IRL anyway), and I don't even care. I have him to talk to even though he isn't real. He strokes my hair, and I feel it without really feeling it. I hardly feel anything these days except when I am alone... alone with my thoughts of him.
Itachi Uchiha.

DAMMNNNN I just typed up a reply for this but I took so long writing so much it logged me out and everything I typed up disappeared... >>;

Anyway, many people may receive feelings towards characters on shows, movies, etc, and that's a really common issue, however, there's a line where you stop and you have clearly ran over the line. This is a really dangerous problem, and certain things you stated within your problem made me realise that your problem is beyond help with just advice from a Pokemon forum. I suggest you go and see a doctor or someone who can help to cure this problem. And try to tell your parents about it as well, as I assume they desperately want to know what's wrong with you due to your behaviour. Btw, clearly you want help with this problem since you posted here about it and thank god you did, cuz IMO this issue is serious. Oh and it is possible to stop surrounding yourself with these obsessive but revelling feelings, before you aren't just bothered with the fact that you have lost probably most of your RL friends, but you will lose other things too, i.e., the goodness of your health. Hope you will feel better about this soon.

Wilow-Wisp July 21st, 2008 11:03 AM

Ive had some sleeping problems too, Seth, but not nearly as bad. It sounds like your sleep schedule is really wacked up. Try getting to sleep at around 11 or 12 at night after a long days work, or relax a few hours before you plan to sleep. It helps settle down your mind and body so it will be easier to get to sleep. Try this for a few days and you might get back on the ball. :) Hope it works for you.

I didnt get to sleep till 3 last night becuase I sketched a bit before hitting the hay. Its like a curse or something...Ive done this before and only got like 3 hours of sleep. Felt like shiz the next day.
Its like drawing a tiny bit overstimulates my brain and I just lay wide awake for hours. Hopefully I can sleep easier tonight... @[email protected]

Cherrim July 21st, 2008 11:16 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Seth the ROM master (Post 3778996)
My problem:

I have this sleeping problem. With me its either I stay up most of the night and sleep all of the day and miss everything that happens that day, or I stay up all night and end up falling asleep around 10 or 11 in the morning and waking up right after everyone else is asleep.
Its really getting at me because I work on my hack during the day. It's cutting into production since my team is usually awake during the day where i live. (One lives in the philipenes, but he works rarely, usually correcting a few errors here and there) and (One lives in the Eastern time zone, right next to mine.) and the (other one i don't know where he lives but He's always on during the day.) Anyways, what I'm trying to say is that while they're one in the day, I'm asleep. And I'm on when they're asleep. I really need to get this straightened out. Can anyone help?

Any suggestions are welcome.

Start waking yourself up earlier everyday. I always had this problem over the summer and I'd fix it by necessity when I went back to school since all of a sudden instead of waking up at 4PM I had to wake up at 7AM. Since it is summer and it sounds like you don't really have anything to do during the day, you won't need as drastic a sleeping schedule change.

I would suggest setting your alarm for 1PM or noon for the next little while and forcing yourself to get out of bed at that time. If you stay in bed you'll just go back to sleep, so get up, get on the computer (or do something) so that you start to wake up. You'll get used to this eventually and start going to bed earlier. Then just set the alarm earlier and earlier until you've fixed your schedule. It could take a while if you're that far off, but if you're serious about wanting to be awake for daylight hours, I'm sure you can pull it off~

Buoysel July 22nd, 2008 11:36 AM

I have a sleeping problem. Its hard for me to go to sleep, and once I do its even harder for me to wake up. I think it may have a lot to do with my job. I have to get up at midnight. I am normal asleep by eight or nine. I go to work and get back home by six or seven in the morning, and go back to bed until nine or ten then go though my day studding for college, hanging out on the internet, or just sitting at home working on my fic. I am not as tired on the job as I use to be, I am in fact quire awake, once I get up. My only problem with going to bed earlier is that I have an evening college class. My question is do you have any suggestions to make it so that I am not so tired all day, other than more sleep.


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